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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

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GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

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IcedPurple · 17/07/2026 10:34

mindymoo11 · 17/07/2026 00:50

Haaland is a Nepo baby. His dad played for Man City.

The same as Wayne rooney's son has just been signed to play professional football

No offence, but you really do have some very odd takes.

LuckyHazelFox · 17/07/2026 10:33

Velumental · 17/07/2026 10:27

Yeah. But not good enough to win the tournament. It's not rocket science

They were good enough. The manager's tactics cost them the match. We beat Mexico in ridiculous heat and played out our skin in a stadium where Mexico never lose.

Velumental · 17/07/2026 10:27

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 10:27

Yet they got to the semis so clearly win some games.

Yeah. But not good enough to win the tournament. It's not rocket science

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 10:27

Velumental · 17/07/2026 10:24

They're just not good enough to win. It's not hard to know.

Yet they got to the semis so clearly win some games.

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 10:26

QuintadosMalvados · 17/07/2026 10:07

To be fair, it's not as if all the players had the banner.
I think they're likeable because they showed tenacity, grit, never gave up, and basically went for the goal instead of playing it safe.

At the end of the day, they gave their fans something to be happy about, England did not.

It must be a British thing to think winners have to be nice.

What do you mean? Lots of players waved the raggy bed sheet displaying fake claims. England players would not have done that.

No they don't have to be nice per se, just play fairly and less of the fouling. Be proud sportsmen not little shits.

Velumental · 17/07/2026 10:24

They're just not good enough to win. It's not hard to know.

ChirpaChirpaCheepCheepChirp · 17/07/2026 10:19

GorgeousSpringtime · 17/07/2026 10:06

I also agree with some posters that some of the footballers are paid ridiculously high salaries. I know some people give this reason and that reason why it's OK that they get so much, but people are still allowed to think they're overpaid!

When I used to go to football matches with my dad and brother late 1970s/early 1980s, the tickets were between £2.00 and £4.00. Basically £12 to £23 in today's money. And it was Liverpool, and Wolves, and Birmingham City, and Manchester United we saw who were playing, not the local five-a-side teams. Try getting a ticket for £12 now for a football match for a premier league team..

The super high salaries that some footballers get HAS to be contributing to the high ticket prices that some fans pay now!

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But the issue is, the ticket prices are high but they still sell tickets. If it meant they didn’t sell tickets, they’d lower the price. What it does mean is that football is increasingly, at the top level, a sport for people who are more well off.

Solution is to support a League One team like I do. Less glory but the tickets aren’t badly priced!

MickyMoonshine · 17/07/2026 10:16

GorgeousSpringtime · 17/07/2026 10:06

I also agree with some posters that some of the footballers are paid ridiculously high salaries. I know some people give this reason and that reason why it's OK that they get so much, but people are still allowed to think they're overpaid!

When I used to go to football matches with my dad and brother late 1970s/early 1980s, the tickets were between £2.00 and £4.00. Basically £12 to £23 in today's money. And it was Liverpool, and Wolves, and Birmingham City, and Manchester United we saw who were playing, not the local five-a-side teams. Try getting a ticket for £12 now for a football match for a premier league team..

The super high salaries that some footballers get HAS to be contributing to the high ticket prices that some fans pay now!

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Another reason to support the women’s game! I paid £13 to watch Man City women play man United women last season.

LuckyHazelFox · 17/07/2026 10:15

Decacaffeinatednow · 17/07/2026 09:08

Let's not forget the accused rapists who also played this time round.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/2026/jun/21/thomas-partey-england-ghana-handshake

Disgusting.

QuintadosMalvados · 17/07/2026 10:12

x2boys · 17/07/2026 09:18

How many times?
That was because 30 years ago was Euro 96 which was played in England
It was about football ie the tornament coming home not that England should win
In fact the lyrics suggest that like always despite the hopes and dreams of the players and fans
We know England will cock it up at the last minute.

Yes. I appreciate that. Indeed Baddiel has eloquently explained why himself but its a bit like Johnny Speight and Ali Garnett.
Speight meant Garnett to be a figure of fun but people agreed with Garnett.

It's obvious that what Baddiel intended has in the long-term been predictably taken the wrong way.

QuintadosMalvados · 17/07/2026 10:07

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 09:12

'Understanding sportsmanship and having class has nothing to do with winning though'

Yes which is why I said obviously none of that counts when it comes to winning.

How can you think they're not unlikeable?! The fouls then the fake Falklands claims? They aren't a nice bunch <yes thet has nothing to do with winning it's just an observation>

To be fair, it's not as if all the players had the banner.
I think they're likeable because they showed tenacity, grit, never gave up, and basically went for the goal instead of playing it safe.

At the end of the day, they gave their fans something to be happy about, England did not.

It must be a British thing to think winners have to be nice.

GorgeousSpringtime · 17/07/2026 10:06

I also agree with some posters that some of the footballers are paid ridiculously high salaries. I know some people give this reason and that reason why it's OK that they get so much, but people are still allowed to think they're overpaid!

When I used to go to football matches with my dad and brother late 1970s/early 1980s, the tickets were between £2.00 and £4.00. Basically £12 to £23 in today's money. And it was Liverpool, and Wolves, and Birmingham City, and Manchester United we saw who were playing, not the local five-a-side teams. Try getting a ticket for £12 now for a football match for a premier league team..

The super high salaries that some footballers get HAS to be contributing to the high ticket prices that some fans pay now!

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GorgeousSpringtime · 17/07/2026 09:59

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 08:23

Yes you're right they were the better side they're just so unlikeable, tiny men fouling left right and centre. The Falklands tatty bed sheet crap, they're just a load of little shits.

Obviously none of that counts when it comes to winning but you look at Norway, England even the Mexican fans who were good natured in defeat and it's just a shame that the argies don't understand sportsmanship and class.

100% this. ^ Argentina didn't deserve to win, but that's JMO of course.

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Pepperlee · 17/07/2026 09:55

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 08:23

Yes you're right they were the better side they're just so unlikeable, tiny men fouling left right and centre. The Falklands tatty bed sheet crap, they're just a load of little shits.

Obviously none of that counts when it comes to winning but you look at Norway, England even the Mexican fans who were good natured in defeat and it's just a shame that the argies don't understand sportsmanship and class.

My feelings too. Hope they lose spectacularly to Spain. That crappy sheet 😜.

DuncinToffee · 17/07/2026 09:44

MickyMoonshine · 17/07/2026 09:39

People aren’t pretending to find the women’s game exciting. Some of us actually do. In fact, season tickets for Manchester City Women have sold out this year so that’s a lot of people ‘pretending’.

I find comments like this quite pathetic really. It’s absolutely fine to say it’s not something you enjoy but to say people are pretending to enjoy it is ridiculous. Who are you trying to convince? It all sounds a bit misogynistic tbh.

Just look at the Arsenal women games attendance.

x2boys · 17/07/2026 09:44

ClementineFortyNine · 17/07/2026 09:32

Totally agree the whole “we won in 1966” we are great is now embarrassing and needs to be put to bed. I think this is often a reason that non-English players do not support England as they’re still banging on about this win from 6 decades ago.

My son came home from school saying his mate was singing “one World Cup and two worlds wars” 🤦🏼‍♀️

this is embarrassing on so many levels, one the child (or the parents) don’t really understand the significance of it being directed at Germany so makes no sense on its own. Secondly, England did not fight these wars alone as they fought as part of Great Britain, the British Empire, and a massive global Allied coalition. And thirdly, the World Cup win was 60 years ago…

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Most English people dont beleive that though
The 3 lions on a shirt song says the complete opposite in fact
England are a good team not the best but still good there is slways hope in every tournament that they might just do it this time and the further they get the more people start to think that just maybe they will win
They dont seriously think they are the best team ever .

MickyMoonshine · 17/07/2026 09:39

Gloriia · 16/07/2026 15:29

And that's fine obviously, glad you enjoy it. We're all different though and as I said earlier I'm not the only person to liken it to school football tournaments excitement wise as a viewer. Some people pretend it's as entertaining as watching men play but imo it is for from it.

People aren’t pretending to find the women’s game exciting. Some of us actually do. In fact, season tickets for Manchester City Women have sold out this year so that’s a lot of people ‘pretending’.

I find comments like this quite pathetic really. It’s absolutely fine to say it’s not something you enjoy but to say people are pretending to enjoy it is ridiculous. Who are you trying to convince? It all sounds a bit misogynistic tbh.

ClementineFortyNine · 17/07/2026 09:32

QuintadosMalvados · 17/07/2026 07:30

I echo the comments that England are not great but good.
Always the bridesmaid but never the bride.
Please no flaming for this comment, it's just an old expression to denote how somebody can be good but not great.

I also think it's time the 1966 and '30 years of hurt' - now 64 by time of next World Cup! - gets put to bed.

Given their ages, 69 and 62 respectively, I suspect songwriters of Three Lions only Skinner remembers it but not Baddiel, anyway.
Nobody under 67 is going to have a clear memory of '66 so it gets more absurd with each passing World Cup!!

Totally agree the whole “we won in 1966” we are great is now embarrassing and needs to be put to bed. I think this is often a reason that non-English players do not support England as they’re still banging on about this win from 6 decades ago.

My son came home from school saying his mate was singing “one World Cup and two worlds wars” 🤦🏼‍♀️

this is embarrassing on so many levels, one the child (or the parents) don’t really understand the significance of it being directed at Germany so makes no sense on its own. Secondly, England did not fight these wars alone as they fought as part of Great Britain, the British Empire, and a massive global Allied coalition. And thirdly, the World Cup win was 60 years ago…

MickyMoonshine · 17/07/2026 09:27

mindymoo11 · 17/07/2026 00:48

Half a million a week - is a bit disgusting though when people are using food banks in England

The two are not related. He’s not physically taking money away from people who then need to use food banks. You could use that argument about anyone who is paid a high salary and has disposable income.
As others have said, football clubs contribute a lot to their local economy and are a huge employer of local people.

x2boys · 17/07/2026 09:18

QuintadosMalvados · 17/07/2026 09:00

Understanding sportsmanship and having class has nothing to do with winning though.
I get the sense that they feel they've got a God given right to be there.

I don't think they're unlikeable at all.
The nerve, the not ever giving up, all admirable qualities.

Though I have to say that I could not help but think that Tuchel's decisions made me think, does he want England to lose?
(I'm not English but I like the team, your average England football fan gets on my nerves, though. So I was sort of neutral about who won.)
I just don't know why he did what he did.

England just do not have what it takes.

I really, really hope that 1966 gets down played now. And that bloody Three Lions song.
The only people who will have a clear memory of '66 will be on their mid-70s by 2030.

I don't know and I'm not going to ask how old you are but I remember It was about 30 years ago that they really laid it on thick about '66, probably getting nostalgic in' 96 because it had been such a long time.
Nostalgia is always resorted to when nothing better going on.

How many times?
That was because 30 years ago was Euro 96 which was played in England
It was about football ie the tornament coming home not that England should win
In fact the lyrics suggest that like always despite the hopes and dreams of the players and fans
We know England will cock it up at the last minute.

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 09:12

QuintadosMalvados · 17/07/2026 09:00

Understanding sportsmanship and having class has nothing to do with winning though.
I get the sense that they feel they've got a God given right to be there.

I don't think they're unlikeable at all.
The nerve, the not ever giving up, all admirable qualities.

Though I have to say that I could not help but think that Tuchel's decisions made me think, does he want England to lose?
(I'm not English but I like the team, your average England football fan gets on my nerves, though. So I was sort of neutral about who won.)
I just don't know why he did what he did.

England just do not have what it takes.

I really, really hope that 1966 gets down played now. And that bloody Three Lions song.
The only people who will have a clear memory of '66 will be on their mid-70s by 2030.

I don't know and I'm not going to ask how old you are but I remember It was about 30 years ago that they really laid it on thick about '66, probably getting nostalgic in' 96 because it had been such a long time.
Nostalgia is always resorted to when nothing better going on.

'Understanding sportsmanship and having class has nothing to do with winning though'

Yes which is why I said obviously none of that counts when it comes to winning.

How can you think they're not unlikeable?! The fouls then the fake Falklands claims? They aren't a nice bunch <yes thet has nothing to do with winning it's just an observation>

DuncinToffee · 17/07/2026 09:00

Enzo Martinez had been in trouble with a racist chant video before

And he isn't the only South American player.

Remember Suarez, and the t-shirts in support?

QuintadosMalvados · 17/07/2026 09:00

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 08:23

Yes you're right they were the better side they're just so unlikeable, tiny men fouling left right and centre. The Falklands tatty bed sheet crap, they're just a load of little shits.

Obviously none of that counts when it comes to winning but you look at Norway, England even the Mexican fans who were good natured in defeat and it's just a shame that the argies don't understand sportsmanship and class.

Understanding sportsmanship and having class has nothing to do with winning though.
I get the sense that they feel they've got a God given right to be there.

I don't think they're unlikeable at all.
The nerve, the not ever giving up, all admirable qualities.

Though I have to say that I could not help but think that Tuchel's decisions made me think, does he want England to lose?
(I'm not English but I like the team, your average England football fan gets on my nerves, though. So I was sort of neutral about who won.)
I just don't know why he did what he did.

England just do not have what it takes.

I really, really hope that 1966 gets down played now. And that bloody Three Lions song.
The only people who will have a clear memory of '66 will be on their mid-70s by 2030.

I don't know and I'm not going to ask how old you are but I remember It was about 30 years ago that they really laid it on thick about '66, probably getting nostalgic in' 96 because it had been such a long time.
Nostalgia is always resorted to when nothing better going on.

LuckyHazelFox · 17/07/2026 08:58

IcedPurple · 17/07/2026 08:55

Not sure I agree about Messi being a 'class act'. Wasn't he found guilty of tax evasion a few years ago? Also, while he's not holding up the 'Malvinas' banner, he's there cheering along right next to them.

He's obviously a generational genius in football, but I've always found him unlikable. Yes, I'm sure he's devastated.

I feel exactly the same as you about him. He's good friends with Beckham, who was visibly upset at our exit. I'm sure it will remain civil between them but I'd be seeing Messi in a different light. The final's going to be the Messi show, as far as commentators are concerned.

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