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To ask why the England team (the men) keep falling at the final hurdle, (well virtually at the final hurdle,) at the football World Cup ... and The Euros too?

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GorgeousSpringtime · 16/07/2026 08:58

Not an England-team bashing thread, but why, oh WHY do they - the men - keep falling at the final hurdle (well, virtually the final hurdle,) every time at the football (soccer) World Cup - and the Euro Cup too...?

They do so well, and get so far, and then BANG they're out. Nearly always in the top 8, or top 4, (and the top 2, in the World Cup once, and a couple of times in the Euros I think,) but never the winner. (Not since 1966 anyway!)

Is it nerves? Is it that they're so anxious to win that they keep making silly mistakes? Are they just not quite good enough? WHAT IS IT? Why do they keep getting so close, but just never manage to get the win?!

As I said, I am not bashing them, and they did well, and I am proud of them, but I just get so frustrated that they can't quite ever get the win!

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Gloriia · 17/07/2026 12:47

Velumental · 17/07/2026 12:41

That's hilariously english

You don't seem keen on anything English. Did you support the England team? I'm thinking not.

Cherrytree86 · 17/07/2026 12:42

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 11:59

If you're in the semis you're enough to win. I'm no footie expert but even I can see a lot of it comes down to luck as well as technique. It's not rocket science. France didn't get through, they were good enough to win too.

Did you support England out of interest? Grin

@Gloriia

i can support England and could see they are not good enough to win. It’s just reality 🤷‍♀️
they could do with some lessons from the women’s team I think…now they are winners

Velumental · 17/07/2026 12:41

GorgeousSpringtime · 17/07/2026 12:39

I do blame Tuchel a bit for the loss too (as many others on here do.)

I do wonder, deep down, if these Non English managers deliberately stop England from winning. Tuchel is bloody German. Why would he have the best interests of the England team at heart?

Sven Goran Erikkson is Swedish.

Fabio Capello is Italian.

Maybe I'm just chatting shit, and spouting wild conspiracy theories.

Maybe not.

I do not want another non English manager for the England team.

That's hilariously english

GorgeousSpringtime · 17/07/2026 12:39

I do blame Tuchel a bit for the loss too (as many others on here do.)

I do wonder, deep down, if these Non English managers deliberately stop England from winning. Tuchel is bloody German. Why would he have the best interests of the England team at heart?

Sven Goran Erikkson is Swedish.

Fabio Capello is Italian.

Maybe I'm just chatting shit, and spouting wild conspiracy theories.

Maybe not.

I do not want another non English manager for the England team.

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ComeOnEngland12 · 17/07/2026 12:36

Yes how other cultures do things is interesting and what accepted and what isnt

Piglet89 · 17/07/2026 12:34

GasPanic · 17/07/2026 12:09

I think in a lot of South American countries, the so called "Dark Arts"/ gamesmanship and pushing the rules to the limits are viewed in a different way than they are in Europe - as part of the game and a legitimate strategy to win rather than something to be abhorred.

Funnily enough I think the European game is increasingly becoming about gamesmanship - probably largely due to the financial stakes involved.

@GasPanicmy husband was saying almost exactly the same about SA countries this morning.

ComeOnEngland12 · 17/07/2026 12:34

EasternStandard · 16/07/2026 10:19

Horrible isn’t it. To be that talented, young and carrying the team and you still get posts like that one from the pp.

In addition to the clip posted re Jude being the only one to stop and talk to the disabled journalist I've since seen endless clips of him offering/ giving his blankets and jackets up to the children he's been assigned and constant interaction with them. .he is extremely engaged and sees them.

GorgeousSpringtime · 17/07/2026 12:30

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 11:59

If you're in the semis you're enough to win. I'm no footie expert but even I can see a lot of it comes down to luck as well as technique. It's not rocket science. France didn't get through, they were good enough to win too.

Did you support England out of interest? Grin

Agree @Gloriia

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Speakeasier · 17/07/2026 12:20

GasPanic · 17/07/2026 12:09

I think in a lot of South American countries, the so called "Dark Arts"/ gamesmanship and pushing the rules to the limits are viewed in a different way than they are in Europe - as part of the game and a legitimate strategy to win rather than something to be abhorred.

Funnily enough I think the European game is increasingly becoming about gamesmanship - probably largely due to the financial stakes involved.

Yes but this is an international competition so should be played to global rules. There are cameras everywhere. The ref. could have been informed about the barging off the ball by the fourth official or the VAR team, some of it happened in front of the ref. They should have had a warning and then been booked for the next offence. Guess what team’s player was booked first???

I loathe the dark arts in English football too. Unfortunately they tend to benefit the bigger clubs who tend to get the balance of the decisions so there’s no incentive to crack down on it.

GasPanic · 17/07/2026 12:09

Speakeasier · 17/07/2026 10:39

Have you not learnt that two things can be true at once. It’s an important skill in critical thinking.

I think the Argies have systematically cheated in this tournament. I haven’t seen all of their matches but the off the ball stuff like just barging into our players like Bellingham and Kane with no ball near them in order to rile them up and lose their concentration is absolutely calculated. Also the rolling around is an unfortunate part of football but they do it on an industrial scale, which I find really obnoxious and isn’t what you’d hope to see with great champions. Their game against Egypt was another case in point where they were extremely lucky to go through and the officiating was a big part of enabling this.

Messi is not some hero he is a tax dodger who only went to the US from Spain because he was sulking that the case went against him. When you are a multi, multi millionaire there’s no excuse for tax dodging.

Having said all that from a playing perspective they completely deserved to beat England. We weren’t outfought but we were outthought and ultimately outplayed. Largely because the manager’s tactics completely played into the Argentine hands. But fair enough from a footballing point of view they deserved that place in the final. But class? Do me a favour.

Oh and the football is coming home song for the ultimate time is not about thinking you’re the best it’s the total opposite.

I think in a lot of South American countries, the so called "Dark Arts"/ gamesmanship and pushing the rules to the limits are viewed in a different way than they are in Europe - as part of the game and a legitimate strategy to win rather than something to be abhorred.

Funnily enough I think the European game is increasingly becoming about gamesmanship - probably largely due to the financial stakes involved.

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 11:59

Velumental · 17/07/2026 10:27

Yeah. But not good enough to win the tournament. It's not rocket science

If you're in the semis you're enough to win. I'm no footie expert but even I can see a lot of it comes down to luck as well as technique. It's not rocket science. France didn't get through, they were good enough to win too.

Did you support England out of interest? Grin

EasternStandard · 17/07/2026 11:39

Speakeasier · 17/07/2026 10:53

Yes I agree. There’s a good chance we could have won. His tactics after the goal didn’t just neutralise our threat they actively played into the Argentinian team’s hands giving them a huge amount of space that Messi was able to exploit.

Yes just so disappointing for him to do that. The players must be feeling it badly.

LuckyHazelFox · 17/07/2026 11:35

Sortingmyself · 17/07/2026 11:25

Agree!

And if the individuals who carried that tatty bed sheet crap, feel so strongly about the Falklands, lets see them wave it around after finishing a game of domestic football, cos plenty (7?) of the Argentinian side play for clubs in the Premier League. ah, no, didn't think so...

They will be 'punished' by the clubs' fans. They've FAFA.

Sortingmyself · 17/07/2026 11:25

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 08:23

Yes you're right they were the better side they're just so unlikeable, tiny men fouling left right and centre. The Falklands tatty bed sheet crap, they're just a load of little shits.

Obviously none of that counts when it comes to winning but you look at Norway, England even the Mexican fans who were good natured in defeat and it's just a shame that the argies don't understand sportsmanship and class.

Agree!

And if the individuals who carried that tatty bed sheet crap, feel so strongly about the Falklands, lets see them wave it around after finishing a game of domestic football, cos plenty (7?) of the Argentinian side play for clubs in the Premier League. ah, no, didn't think so...

LuckyHazelFox · 17/07/2026 11:12

Velumental · 17/07/2026 10:46

That's not how sports work

It appears it's you who doesn't know how sport works. You clearly aren't familiar with tactics in football. The players have to play in positions the manager sets. If the manager takes off strikers and parks the bus with 30 minutes to go, a team is hampered in their strike force. England had an impossible task of holding back Argentina. Tuchel massively screwed up.

Cobrakainerd · 17/07/2026 11:03

Now there is extensive video, VAR, all angles of the pitch covered there could be a retrospective appraisal by VAR panels and a either rematch ordered or awarded to opposition in the light of cheating, nasty, unsportsmanlike behaviour. Retrospective cards or bans as well. If they knew that barging players off the ball was going to cost them the match they'd be less inclined to do it.

IcedPurple · 17/07/2026 10:56

Speakeasier · 17/07/2026 10:39

Have you not learnt that two things can be true at once. It’s an important skill in critical thinking.

I think the Argies have systematically cheated in this tournament. I haven’t seen all of their matches but the off the ball stuff like just barging into our players like Bellingham and Kane with no ball near them in order to rile them up and lose their concentration is absolutely calculated. Also the rolling around is an unfortunate part of football but they do it on an industrial scale, which I find really obnoxious and isn’t what you’d hope to see with great champions. Their game against Egypt was another case in point where they were extremely lucky to go through and the officiating was a big part of enabling this.

Messi is not some hero he is a tax dodger who only went to the US from Spain because he was sulking that the case went against him. When you are a multi, multi millionaire there’s no excuse for tax dodging.

Having said all that from a playing perspective they completely deserved to beat England. We weren’t outfought but we were outthought and ultimately outplayed. Largely because the manager’s tactics completely played into the Argentine hands. But fair enough from a footballing point of view they deserved that place in the final. But class? Do me a favour.

Oh and the football is coming home song for the ultimate time is not about thinking you’re the best it’s the total opposite.

Oh and the football is coming home song for the ultimate time is not about thinking you’re the best it’s the total opposite.

We're coming to the end of the WC so it's a moot point now.

But honestly I wish we could have had your quote as a 'sticky' on top of all football threads these past few weeks!

So many people have clearly never listened to the words of that song, and think it's all about arrogance and jingoism, when as you say it's the total opposite. Dashed hopes, nostalgia for the past and wistful thoughts of what 'was then and could be again' (but probably won't...)

Speakeasier · 17/07/2026 10:53

EasternStandard · 17/07/2026 10:49

Seeing the posts from players it is sad. Still feeling it today. But mostly just wondering what would have happened if Tuchel hadn’t made that decision.

Yes I agree. There’s a good chance we could have won. His tactics after the goal didn’t just neutralise our threat they actively played into the Argentinian team’s hands giving them a huge amount of space that Messi was able to exploit.

EasternStandard · 17/07/2026 10:49

Seeing the posts from players it is sad. Still feeling it today. But mostly just wondering what would have happened if Tuchel hadn’t made that decision.

Speakeasier · 17/07/2026 10:46

Velumental · 17/07/2026 10:46

That's not how sports work

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Velumental · 17/07/2026 10:46

Speakeasier · 17/07/2026 10:45

Yes but there’s a difference between not being good enough to win and not deserving to win on the day. It’s indisputable that we weren’t good enough on the day. But less so that we couldn’t have won that match with different tactics.

However I think Spain was brilliant in the semis against France so I don’t think we would beat them whatever tactics they and we employ. I really hope the Argentinians don’t win through fouling and getting the rub of the green from the officials. That would taint the whole competition. Whoever wins I hope it’s the best not the sneakiest team.

That's not how sports work

Speakeasier · 17/07/2026 10:45

Velumental · 17/07/2026 10:38

The team as a whole includes management etc. they didn't play well enough on the day so they lost. That's how it works.

Yes but there’s a difference between not being good enough to win and not deserving to win on the day. It’s indisputable that we weren’t good enough on the day. But less so that we couldn’t have won that match with different tactics.

However I think Spain was brilliant in the semis against France so I don’t think we would beat them whatever tactics they and we employ. I really hope the Argentinians don’t win through fouling and getting the rub of the green from the officials. That would taint the whole competition. Whoever wins I hope it’s the best not the sneakiest team.

QuintadosMalvados · 17/07/2026 10:43

Gloriia · 17/07/2026 10:26

What do you mean? Lots of players waved the raggy bed sheet displaying fake claims. England players would not have done that.

No they don't have to be nice per se, just play fairly and less of the fouling. Be proud sportsmen not little shits.

It's up to the referee to make decisions about what is fair or not.

I don't know what else to say.
Argentina are the current World champions.
They're the better team.

I accept that Tuchel's decisions were ludicrous and that it may not be entirely the team's fault this time that they lost this time, though.

Speakeasier · 17/07/2026 10:39

ClementineFortyNine · 17/07/2026 04:52

Absolutely this. It is also sad that a lot if fans can’t accept this, and be objective annd realistic about it. So many make up excuses such as biased ref or the other team was cheating.

Have you not learnt that two things can be true at once. It’s an important skill in critical thinking.

I think the Argies have systematically cheated in this tournament. I haven’t seen all of their matches but the off the ball stuff like just barging into our players like Bellingham and Kane with no ball near them in order to rile them up and lose their concentration is absolutely calculated. Also the rolling around is an unfortunate part of football but they do it on an industrial scale, which I find really obnoxious and isn’t what you’d hope to see with great champions. Their game against Egypt was another case in point where they were extremely lucky to go through and the officiating was a big part of enabling this.

Messi is not some hero he is a tax dodger who only went to the US from Spain because he was sulking that the case went against him. When you are a multi, multi millionaire there’s no excuse for tax dodging.

Having said all that from a playing perspective they completely deserved to beat England. We weren’t outfought but we were outthought and ultimately outplayed. Largely because the manager’s tactics completely played into the Argentine hands. But fair enough from a footballing point of view they deserved that place in the final. But class? Do me a favour.

Oh and the football is coming home song for the ultimate time is not about thinking you’re the best it’s the total opposite.

Velumental · 17/07/2026 10:38

LuckyHazelFox · 17/07/2026 10:33

They were good enough. The manager's tactics cost them the match. We beat Mexico in ridiculous heat and played out our skin in a stadium where Mexico never lose.

The team as a whole includes management etc. they didn't play well enough on the day so they lost. That's how it works.