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I believe biological patterns come out

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LeaveOnlyFootprints · 15/07/2026 23:23

https://news.sky.com/story/university-of-aberdeen-investigating-employee-who-hoped-ann-widdecombe-had-extremely-painful-death-13563370?dicbo=v2-BQ8HLw4

Trans individual who spouted hatred over death of Ann Widdicombe being investigated by the police.

aibu to suggest that male patterns come through in men that would think they are female?

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FriendlyNPC · 17/07/2026 23:12

MrsPapillon · 16/07/2026 23:07

OP said 41% of trans women are in prison for sex offences.

Of course 41% of trans women aren’t in prison, for sex offences or otherwise. There are about 50,000 trans women in the UK and only 339 trans prisoners of both genders.

Oh. Then I think you're being petty. Of course the person who posted that was referring to the trans women who are in prison, no one thinks every trans woman is in prison.

LeaveOnlyFootprints · 17/07/2026 07:35

The trans women in prison are in for a variety of reasons, 41% of them.for sexual offences. That's a really high percentage of trans prisoners who have committed sexual offences. There will also be other crimes eg assault.

Going by some of the disgusting TRA language on how they'd like to behave towards biological women who push back on sex based rights, then they need keeping away from biological women. Do they hate what they can never really be?

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MrsPapillon · 16/07/2026 23:07

FriendlyNPC · 16/07/2026 22:12

YANBU but honestly I have seen women say just as horrible things.

Difference being though, that women are much less likely to actually carry out any attacks.

@MrsPapillon there's a high chance I'm just being thick, but I don't really understand what you mean here?

41% of trans women are NOT in prison for sex offences. 41% of trans women PRISONERS are in prison for sex offences. There is a HUGE difference between these two groups!

Aren't any trans women in prison, prisoners in prison?

OP said 41% of trans women are in prison for sex offences.

Of course 41% of trans women aren’t in prison, for sex offences or otherwise. There are about 50,000 trans women in the UK and only 339 trans prisoners of both genders.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/07/2026 22:16

I think she means that the line sounds like 41% of “trans women” overall are in prison for sex offences. We have no idea how many “trans women” are sex offenders other than convicted ones, but 41% of TIMs overall as a population cohort are not in prison.

FriendlyNPC · 16/07/2026 22:12

YANBU but honestly I have seen women say just as horrible things.

Difference being though, that women are much less likely to actually carry out any attacks.

@MrsPapillon there's a high chance I'm just being thick, but I don't really understand what you mean here?

41% of trans women are NOT in prison for sex offences. 41% of trans women PRISONERS are in prison for sex offences. There is a HUGE difference between these two groups!

Aren't any trans women in prison, prisoners in prison?

Sparklybutold · 16/07/2026 21:59

A professor at staffs uni wanted to investigate exactly this. He was targeted by nut jobs who tried to get him sacked. FSU got involved but of course the damage to your mental health and reputation is in tatters.

LeaveOnlyFootprints · 16/07/2026 21:57

TheThirteenthFairy · 16/07/2026 18:37

It's a bit of a bugger. It's called 'self ID', not 'what other people think of me ID', so if a man says he's a woman, then that's what he is. It goes along with 'I am who I say I am'. Scads of them have a Damascene conversion on being arrested, but their epiphany cannot legally be gainsaid.

Thanks.

In my opinion it's crazy that someone can merely proclaim they are something they are not and everyone else is supposed to accept it.

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TheThirteenthFairy · 16/07/2026 18:37

LeaveOnlyFootprints · 16/07/2026 17:26

Surely if they say they are trans women/men who identify as women we are supposed to accept that whether before or after crime committed. How can anyone possibly work out the difference since all are biological men.

It's a bit of a bugger. It's called 'self ID', not 'what other people think of me ID', so if a man says he's a woman, then that's what he is. It goes along with 'I am who I say I am'. Scads of them have a Damascene conversion on being arrested, but their epiphany cannot legally be gainsaid.

TheThirteenthFairy · 16/07/2026 17:39

CherryVanillaPie · 16/07/2026 10:11

Someone posted recently that a trans woman wished for a woman to be raped with something (a baseball bat maybe) with nails hammered into it. I can't remember who it was (rubbish memory) but WTF!

Oh, they do that when the day ends with 'day'. Also a bat wrapped in barbed wire. There's no end of it over at terfisaslur. At first I could only read one page but I've now read it all. Know Thine Enemy.

TheThirteenthFairy · 16/07/2026 17:34

LeaveOnlyFootprints · 15/07/2026 23:23

https://news.sky.com/story/university-of-aberdeen-investigating-employee-who-hoped-ann-widdecombe-had-extremely-painful-death-13563370?dicbo=v2-BQ8HLw4

Trans individual who spouted hatred over death of Ann Widdicombe being investigated by the police.

aibu to suggest that male patterns come through in men that would think they are female?

It is beyond belief that you think this is just a possibility, when we all know that you only have to say 'no' to a transwoman and the man will appear.

LeaveOnlyFootprints · 16/07/2026 17:26

MrsPapillon · 16/07/2026 14:37

You don’t understand percentages, do you?

41% of trans women are NOT in prison for sex offences. 41% of trans women PRISONERS are in prison for sex offences. There is a HUGE difference between these two groups!

Many men (who are not trans women) claim that they are trans women when they are arrested for sex offences, because they know they will be segregated from the male prisoners and not get beaten up. This massively skews the statistics. I’d be very interested to see how many of these sex offenders were actually identifying as women prior to their offences and arrests.

Surely if they say they are trans women/men who identify as women we are supposed to accept that whether before or after crime committed. How can anyone possibly work out the difference since all are biological men.

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LeaveOnlyFootprints · 16/07/2026 17:24

Cheesecheeks · 16/07/2026 14:41

I think that was a TRA posting on MN, wasn’t it?

Agree OP. Male pattern behaviour is a clear giveaway that someone is male, if we didn’t have any other signs of it.

To be honest that's much worst than standard male pattern behaviour it is sick depravity.

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LeaveOnlyFootprints · 16/07/2026 17:23

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/07/2026 16:07

Male TRA posted about a splintery rolling pin. I don’t think it was actually on MN. It was directed at JKR.

Sick.

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 16/07/2026 16:24

LeaveOnlyFootprints · 15/07/2026 23:28

Police Scotland is carrying out "additional enquiries" after a university employee posted online that they hoped Ann Widdecombe suffered "an extremely painful death".
Trans activist Heather Herbert made the comment before police announced the politician's death was being treated as a suspected murder.

In the post on Bluesky, Herbert shared Sky News' initial story on Ms Widdecombe's death and wrote: "And some good news for once. I hope it was an extremely painful death."
A further post added: "And I hope she was handcuffed to the bed as she screamed in agony."

The comments of the biological male are truly vile.

That's quite a remarkable depth of detail and specificity to his comments.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/07/2026 16:08

The poster is I think a PBP here on MN, that’s the MN connection. I think people saw it on Bluesky as it was under the same name.

SidekickSylvia · 16/07/2026 16:08

I think they are the very worst of men. None of the men I know talk about women the way trans identifying men and their allies do.

(Also, just on the statistics, it's 62% of transwomen prisoners that have committed sexual offences, compared to about 20% of male prisoners who don't identify as trans.)

Ereshkigalangcleg · 16/07/2026 16:07

Male TRA posted about a splintery rolling pin. I don’t think it was actually on MN. It was directed at JKR.

CherryVanillaPie · 16/07/2026 15:39

Cheesecheeks · 16/07/2026 14:41

I think that was a TRA posting on MN, wasn’t it?

Agree OP. Male pattern behaviour is a clear giveaway that someone is male, if we didn’t have any other signs of it.

It might have been. When I read it. It was a woman posting about them saying it.

Cheesecheeks · 16/07/2026 14:41

CherryVanillaPie · 16/07/2026 10:11

Someone posted recently that a trans woman wished for a woman to be raped with something (a baseball bat maybe) with nails hammered into it. I can't remember who it was (rubbish memory) but WTF!

I think that was a TRA posting on MN, wasn’t it?

Agree OP. Male pattern behaviour is a clear giveaway that someone is male, if we didn’t have any other signs of it.

MrsPapillon · 16/07/2026 14:37

LeaveOnlyFootprints · 15/07/2026 23:27

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-42221629

41% of trans women are in prison for sexual offences!

You don’t understand percentages, do you?

41% of trans women are NOT in prison for sex offences. 41% of trans women PRISONERS are in prison for sex offences. There is a HUGE difference between these two groups!

Many men (who are not trans women) claim that they are trans women when they are arrested for sex offences, because they know they will be segregated from the male prisoners and not get beaten up. This massively skews the statistics. I’d be very interested to see how many of these sex offenders were actually identifying as women prior to their offences and arrests.

moltopianissimo · 16/07/2026 14:28

What do you mean by "men that would think they are female" (as opposed to "men who think they are female")?

Apologies if English isn't your first language.

smallglassbottle · 16/07/2026 14:22

I hope that herbert entity loses his job.

rbe78 · 16/07/2026 14:04

LeaveOnlyFootprints · 15/07/2026 23:27

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-42221629

41% of trans women are in prison for sexual offences!

41% of transwomen who are in prison are in prison for sexual offences. That is very very different from 41% of transwomen being in prison for sexual offences.

CherryVanillaPie · 16/07/2026 10:11

Someone posted recently that a trans woman wished for a woman to be raped with something (a baseball bat maybe) with nails hammered into it. I can't remember who it was (rubbish memory) but WTF!

SecondCoffee8 · 16/07/2026 10:02

I once attended a professional, paid training run by a UK wide organisation where someone wore a shirt 'trans people are sacred' and no one batted an eyelid.

Training was in no way linked to LGBT themes.

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