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AIBU to be angry about another misleading programme on Romany Gypsies?

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IronEverything · 15/07/2026 14:41

I just can't believe this is happening again.

Some of you may remember the show called "my big fat gypsy wedding" on channel 4 from years ago. It did absolutely awful damage to my community (Romany gypsy). It was complete and utter trash and majority of those featured weren't even gypsies.

Well they're at it again.

They are advertising a new show, something along the lines of "secret lives of gypsy wives". Yet the star of the show is a social media influencer (?) named Trewly Precious who is neither of those things. I think her father was a gypsy but she wasn't raised in the community and she isn't married.

Why are they doing this to us? There are so many amazing gypsy women who could have shown what it's really like to be a modern day gypsy. Yet they have once again chosen entertainment value over the reputation of a community who are already marginalised and hated by a large portion of the public. AIBU to be so angry about this?

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IronEverything · 15/07/2026 14:47

aliasfrog · 15/07/2026 14:43

They're always going to do the most controversial options to get people to watch it.

Can you complain to ofcom? I would be tempted to

I understand that and I know they need to get views but surely the absolute bare minimum when making a show about gypsies is for the people on it to actually be gypsies?

I didn't think of complaining to OFCOM, I might do actually.

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aliasfrog · 15/07/2026 14:43

They're always going to do the most controversial options to get people to watch it.

Can you complain to ofcom? I would be tempted to