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How can people not care for their animals?

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Sweetdreamsbeautifulnightmare · 15/07/2026 12:56

We have a new neighbour who moved in a few months ago who has a guinea pig. I get on well with the neighbour and we have socialised. However, she doesn’t look after the guinea pig. I can see it from my garden and it’s never fed nor cleaned out. I’ve hinted at it and she says she doesn’t care about it 😔 she’s basically waiting for it to die! I offered to look after it myself and she skirted around it.

I said again how we would love a guinea pig shall we take it for you and she just kind of ignored me!

However, over the last two weeks it hasn’t been cleaned out and I hear it squealing. When I know she’s gone out to work (she works in a care home and leaves the same time every day) I sneak in and feed it! However I only give it greens and veggies etc.

I’ve now noticed its food bowl of pellets is empty and it has no hay at all either and hasn’t for days. I then went and got some hay and food and have been sneaking that in too! I feel so sorry for it as I’d give it a lovely home and let it run on the grass etc.. this one never comes out at all.

I don’t know what else I can do though? I know he has some annual leave soon so won’t be leaving at the same time for me to sneak in the garden! What would you do?! I genuinely feel so upset for the poor baby!

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Sweetdreamsbeautifulnightmare · 22/07/2026 14:35

I actually saw her cleaning him out and feeding him the other day which made me happy. I’ve then been creeping in when she isn’t home and adding more hay and food and greens. I know I should report but I don’t think they’ll do anything if say they visited when he’s been fed and also she will know it’s me, so the repercussions for my son at school wouldn’t be ideal!

I will continue for now and ask again when I see her if she wants us to have him as I think she may have a holiday planned soon! So it’s the ideal time!!

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HatStickBoots · 20/07/2026 17:44

@Sweetdreamsbeautifulnightmare please update us. Hopefully you have rescued this little guinea.

iloveanearlynight · 18/07/2026 22:32

Please OP, people are rightly very concerned. Please update us. You can't delay, this innocent life needs you.

hooverthefloor · 18/07/2026 22:28

If she doesn't feed it, she won't notice if it's missing...

They shouldn't be eating commercial food anyway. They need mostly hay, and a small amount of fresh veg (a strip of red pepper every day is a good source of vitamin C, and they love it).

And make sure you don't keep them on wood shavings/sawdust, it can cause respiratory and liver issues. We used hemp horse bedding for our rescued guinea pigs.

Suzypuzy · 18/07/2026 18:32

Why no update on this OP?

Every minute you are dithering, that poor, starving creature is suffering. I could definitely not watch that happening and not intervene.

The woman is a disgrace and should be reported regardless of your "frien dship"......what a bitch. 😥

Itsalittlebitwarm · 17/07/2026 18:54

No, I can't understand either how some people can be so uncaring and neglect their pets. In this case I would have to say, look it's upsetting me to see your guinea pig neglected, just let me have it!

Sprogonthetyne · 17/07/2026 18:13

How about you tell her that you will need to take in your friend/cousins guinea pig for some plausible reason, but are worried about it being lonely, so could she please help you out by letting her piggy stay over to keep it company?

If she agrees you will need to source a second guinea pig for your cover story, but you probably would have anyway, as they shouldn't live alone.

Tableforjoan · 17/07/2026 18:07

A secret agenda. Nope just telling the truth.

They get so many donations because people think they actually do stuff but they barely do.

Only if they can get in the papers, on the news or have a tv crew following them only the worst of the worst will they bother with.

So save your donations for the small charity’s that actually give a fuck 👍🏻

I wish they actually did stuff for the random one animal. But making people think oh call the rspca and the animal will be saved is the stuff of fairy tales in most cases.

redboxer321 · 17/07/2026 18:00

Nobody is blackening the name of the RSPCA. It's done that to itself.

AnonymityAnonymity · 17/07/2026 17:42

Trishthedish · 17/07/2026 17:21

The RSPCA are useless. They are only interested in headlines. One Guinea pig won’t interest them at all.

According to you.

Is this s a malicious campaign to blacken the name of the RSPCA? Do you and the other pp who want to discourage people from reporting animal cruelty have some secret agenda?

liveforsummer · 17/07/2026 17:36

Have you got anywhere helping this piggie OP?

Trishthedish · 17/07/2026 17:21

AnonymityAnonymity · 15/07/2026 13:04

Really? I thought the RSPCA were very pro active in dealing with animal cruelty and neglect. And at the very least they woukd visit this woman to give advice and monitor the situation.
OP should at least notify them rather let this poor animal suffer.

The RSPCA are useless. They are only interested in headlines. One Guinea pig won’t interest them at all.

redboxer321 · 17/07/2026 15:54

MidnightMeltdown · 17/07/2026 13:30

Well for a start, the license could be removed if the pets are not properly cared for

So there would be people doing checks? Or are are we going to rely on people like the OP? If the former, who is going to pay these people? What is going to happen to the animal when the licence has been removed? Where will it be taken? Who will care for it?

Sorry but my belief is we will never stop animal cruelty while one animal continues to dominate this planet. Not that I am saying we should not try to limit it but I can't see how a licence is going to help with that.

MotherOfSoManyCats · 17/07/2026 15:27

DancingonmyOwn88 · 15/07/2026 13:03

I would honestly just take it and make it look like a fox got at it.

Me too, or just take it and say nothing. Mine lived until 8 yrs old when kept indoors. Maybe get him/her a little friend and if any squeaking is heard, you can show her the photo of just your one piggie. Please rescue this one, I hate any type of cruelty to animals

Theunamedcat · 17/07/2026 14:42

MidnightMeltdown · 17/07/2026 13:30

Well for a start, the license could be removed if the pets are not properly cared for

Honestly if they are buying off Facebook who will check for a licence

Theunamedcat · 17/07/2026 14:41

Sweetdreamsbeautifulnightmare · 15/07/2026 13:05

I debated that! She has a son though who comes over to ours sometimes and I worry he’d see it in our garden!

Paint it with food colouring so it looks different

aliasfrog · 17/07/2026 14:40

Have you gone in and taken it yet op? Keeping my fingers crossed you have!!

Yournevertooldtolovehamsters · 17/07/2026 14:35

Please,please just take it, and like a previous poster said ,make it look like a fox broke into the hutch, they are more than happy to be inside in a good sized c& c cage, but it a friend, and you'll of done the right thing, good luck 🤞

hairbearbunches · 17/07/2026 14:07

DancingonmyOwn88 · 15/07/2026 13:03

I would honestly just take it and make it look like a fox got at it.

I would too.

MidnightMeltdown · 17/07/2026 13:30

redboxer321 · 16/07/2026 07:20

What do you think that would do?
People need to get a licence before they drive. Or buy a gun.
It's people that are the problem and laws and licences can only do so much.
I think we need to realise that keeping pets is not in their best interests and they should be relegated to the past when we didn't know better.

Well for a start, the license could be removed if the pets are not properly cared for

MidnightMeltdown · 17/07/2026 13:28

Backedoffhackedoff · 16/07/2026 07:21

What sort of test do you think they should take to get a guinea pig license?!

An IQ test. Some people are too thick to look after animals!

HatStickBoots · 17/07/2026 12:46

I can’t abide this sort of thing, it would drive me mad. She’s clearly incapable of caring for the poor creature. The guinea pig has no rights and no choice in this matter but you do OP. You’ve got to do what’s right. I agree with the pps who say film the conditions and take the poor little thing into your care. Small pets are so often neglected. Contact your local animal sanctuary if they’ll be more help than the rspca and see if you can find another one to keep it company. Two males may fight but females live quite harmoniously together if they have enough room. People are giving away hutches on Freecycle, gum tree, Facebay etc, look for one. This neighbour of yours should be bloody grateful don’t feel guilty. If you don’t want to rescue the guinea pig without her knowledge then tell her upfront that you’d like to take care of it for her and the kid can visit if he wants. Offer to buy it. Anything. Do the right thing and get that suffering creature away from there.

IDoWaffleOnABit · 17/07/2026 10:35

Worrying that she works in a care home and this is her mindset!!

Tell her a postman or delivery driver mentioned it to you and they said it needs reporting?

iloveanearlynight · 17/07/2026 10:34

Please update OP.

AllGoodNamesRGone · 17/07/2026 07:36

AllGoodNamesRGone · 17/07/2026 07:34

Does she come in your house at all? I would just take it, leave the doors open like something has taken it and house it inside.
Keep it inside, where she won't know you have it?
Alternatively I would just tell her it's cruel and you are coming through collect it to take care of it, rather than asking.

Sorry, I just read her son comes round yours, I didn't read that before posting.