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spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

OP posts:
Cactus09 · 15/07/2026 07:38

Can I be proud of you? I feel very happy for you. Don't dwell on the past if you can help it. Live and enjoy yourself NOW.

Dontgetstuckinthepast · 15/07/2026 07:38

Aww, that's lovely.

rhubarbqueen · 15/07/2026 07:37

Fabulous work. Well done 👏

NoraLuka · 15/07/2026 07:36

Well done, OP !

FatLarrysBanned · 15/07/2026 07:36

Absolutely amazing 💐

NinaGeiger · 15/07/2026 07:36

That's really great!

Nosdacariad · 15/07/2026 07:35

Congratulations🥂🍾 what's your next project? Something you've been putting off maybe? 💐

Noshadowsinthedarkness · 15/07/2026 07:34

That’s awesome OP 🙌

What an incredible achievement!

PinkHairbrushClub · 15/07/2026 07:34

Fantastic stuff. That’s brilliant.

Happytaytos · 15/07/2026 07:34

Well done!

Dolphinnoises · 15/07/2026 07:34

That’s brilliant x