Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To share this huge mental health win with you?

61 replies

spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
youneverwalkedinmyshoes · 29/07/2026 14:37

spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

This is massive achievement, you should be very proud of yourself.

Shelleyblueeyes · 16/07/2026 23:15

Well done.

You must be over the moon.
X

Booboobagins · 16/07/2026 23:12

Well done!!! Absolutely blooming fab.

Get the mirror that you want not just any old mirror xxx

Trishthedish · 16/07/2026 21:55

Absolutely bloody fantastic. Well done you.

Pelsall116 · 16/07/2026 17:15

Wow brilliant, well done and you have every right to be massively proud of yourself x

FishDogBird · 16/07/2026 15:34

Well done!!!! You bare those arms with pride. 💪

Lexy2345 · 16/07/2026 13:07

Lovely news, well done you superstar!

spinninginmyhighestheels · 16/07/2026 12:50

Thank you all! It arrives this evening and I’m very excited!

OP posts:
Roseyposey1 · 16/07/2026 12:49

Absolute QUEEN 👑 well done!!

ThingsCouldBeEasier · 15/07/2026 23:43

Well done, OP!

mysparkleismissing · 15/07/2026 22:21

Absolutely brilliant well done!!!

sobby · 15/07/2026 22:18

spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

What an amazing lady you really are. And then to post and give others hope too . Well done for just being you 🙏❤️🙏

Itsallanillusion · 15/07/2026 22:00

Well done, you're a star.

247achybreakyheart · 15/07/2026 21:47

Congratulations that’s fantastic! You should be soooo incredibly proud of yourself- that’s extremely hard to do- well done 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻

chiccachicca · 15/07/2026 21:26

OP, I am genuinely so happy for you. What a wonderful achievement x

arfidisarealthing · 15/07/2026 21:25

this is so lovely to hear 💐 well done you!!!

Pearlstillsinging · 15/07/2026 21:25

Well done! What a wonderful achievement. Enjoy your mirror.

LongDarkTeatime · 15/07/2026 21:20

Congratulations!
I’ve recently lost 5 stone and can empathise with the feeling of increased confidence (still don’t like mirrors though).
Enjoy yourself ❤️

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 15/07/2026 21:12

Well done!

Horses7 · 15/07/2026 21:11

Very well done OP!!

HappyMuma · 15/07/2026 19:53

Well done you!!

Dweetfidilove · 15/07/2026 19:26

That's a fantastic achievement! You've earned that confidence 👏🏾.

ErinAoife · 15/07/2026 19:24

Well done congratulations

Beingseenisneedy · 15/07/2026 18:26

What a great achievement! Well done OP 🎊👏🎉.
You should be proud indeed. 💖

60andcounting · 15/07/2026 17:10

Fantastic. Well done to you. Keep going, onwards and upwards.