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AIBU to object to balloon and lantern memorial releases for environmental reasons ?

419 replies

Ihsk · 14/07/2026 13:03

I do wish people would stop releasing balloons in tribute to lost loved ones.

Balloons don’t up to heaven. They travel a few miles and usually land in a farmer’s field. Where animals eat the balloon and get very ill or die.

This method is a cruel and other creatures can die.

Also still can get Chinese lanterns online. Anyone setting these off now are idiots. Forest fires

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AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 14/07/2026 15:39

LilacReader · 14/07/2026 15:25

I just hope the news stations have stopped reporting on these balloon events now - got so annoyed everytime I'd see one for some cause or another!

Two in Scotland lately highlighted by the Daily Record for two teens stabbed to death separate incidents.

CosyDenimShark · 14/07/2026 15:38

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:21

They are with us in our thoughts and memories.

That is my priority. I do not care about “the environment”.

WOW, just absolute WOW
FFS

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 15:34

Why on earth do people have to 'release' things at all? It's such a recent thing, and so stupid. I remember my lost loved ones nearly every day, and I don't need to release balloons or lanterns in order to do it.

But if you do want something like that, then - with proper attention to fire laws - have a small fire and throw on letters that can get 'carried up' on the smoke or something. Don't just send dangerous litter floating off into the countryside!

JulietteHasAGun · 14/07/2026 15:33

MsGreying · 14/07/2026 15:27

Absolutely

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2026/jul/14/woman-charged-aggravated-arson-moorland-fire-greater-manchester

Woman charged with aggravated arson over moorland fire in Greater Manchester
Shania Care-Slede, 20, arrested over incident at Dovestone reservoir on Saturday in which fireworks were launched

Care-Slede appeared at Manchester magistrates court on Tuesday morning. District judge Simon Blakebrough remanded her in custody until her plea hearing on 18 August at Manchester Minshull Street crown court.
It is not yet clear whether fireworks caused the blaze, although police said they had received a report of pyrotechnics.

I’m so glad she’s been remanded in custody. Bet she’s not laughing now! I’ve seen the video where she sets the fireworks off, sees the smoke starting, laughs, films the smoke, lets more fireworks off….aiming them at the gras not the sky and then she stupidly uploads it to social media saying she lit the sky up! I hope she gets a lengthy custodial sentence.

MsGreying · 14/07/2026 15:27

Absolutely

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2026/jul/14/woman-charged-aggravated-arson-moorland-fire-greater-manchester

Woman charged with aggravated arson over moorland fire in Greater Manchester
Shania Care-Slede, 20, arrested over incident at Dovestone reservoir on Saturday in which fireworks were launched

Care-Slede appeared at Manchester magistrates court on Tuesday morning. District judge Simon Blakebrough remanded her in custody until her plea hearing on 18 August at Manchester Minshull Street crown court.
It is not yet clear whether fireworks caused the blaze, although police said they had received a report of pyrotechnics.

Woman charged with aggravated arson over moorland fire in Greater Manchester

Shania Care-Slede, 20, arrested over incident at Dovestone reservoir on Saturday in which fireworks were launched

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2026/jul/14/woman-charged-aggravated-arson-moorland-fire-greater-manchester

LilacReader · 14/07/2026 15:25

I just hope the news stations have stopped reporting on these balloon events now - got so annoyed everytime I'd see one for some cause or another!

CatsRuleMyLife · 14/07/2026 15:24

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:20

They are with us, because they are with us in our thoughts and our memories.

I don’t think anything “actually happens”, it’s just a nice release to remember them by.

We each have two balloons to release and there is usually 10-20 of us on each occasion.

There was me thinking you're an ignorant twat, but in fact you're part of a group of ignorant, moronic cunts then.

Hotandpointy · 14/07/2026 15:22

If anyone tries to do something as moronic for me when I’m dead, I’ll come back and haunt the fuck out of them!

NoAprilFool · 14/07/2026 15:20

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:13

I don’t care that you object. In fact it makes me want to do more of them.

We do a balloon release on every special occasion throughout the year (birthdays, the day they died, Christmas, Halloween, summer festival etc) so our family member is always with us.

I certainly won’t be stopping.

You’re on the wind up aren’t you? You jumped the shark with Halloween and summer festival.

LilacReader · 14/07/2026 15:19

Honeyhonayboo · 14/07/2026 13:22

In the grand scheme of things it’s probably one of the least impactful things for which cause environmental harm. There are a whole load of other things I would get bothered about before this, including people driving for very short distances when they could walk, particularly around school playgrounds, people idling their car, people who throw things out of their car window etc

So, because and A and B are bad for the environment then we might as well do C as well?

godmum56 · 14/07/2026 15:19

Kokis · 14/07/2026 14:35

One of the most moronic posts I've seen on MN.

You keep adding a bit more fuel to rage-bait the thread, but I don't believe you. No one is THIS thick.

oh you should live round me.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 14/07/2026 15:19

@BeSunnyLemonSheep, why not plant a tree each time, rather than releasing balloons? The trees will grow, and you will be able to visit them over and over, rather than memorialising your loved ones by killing wildlife,

LilacReader · 14/07/2026 15:18

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:21

They are with us in our thoughts and memories.

That is my priority. I do not care about “the environment”.

Easy to say when no-one knows who you are on this site!

MickyMoonshine · 14/07/2026 15:17

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 14/07/2026 15:16

Isn't the moorland fire near Manchester said to be caused by "memorial" fireworks?
And no to butterfly and dove releases. Stressful for the animals involved.
I saw a memorial thing where boats had been made of biodegradable paper, people write messages on them and set them off. But I guess thats not showy enough for some.

Yep, they posted videos online and one person has been arrested. It’s still burning 3 days later

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 14/07/2026 15:16

IAMFLUFF · 14/07/2026 13:29

What about the risk of a grass fire? It’s very dry in the UK so the risk of starting a fire is huge! Not to mention the risk to animals. Go to the pub and have a toast to the deceased

Isn't the moorland fire near Manchester said to be caused by "memorial" fireworks?
And no to butterfly and dove releases. Stressful for the animals involved.
I saw a memorial thing where boats had been made of biodegradable paper, people write messages on them and set them off. But I guess thats not showy enough for some.

LilacReader · 14/07/2026 15:15

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:13

I don’t care that you object. In fact it makes me want to do more of them.

We do a balloon release on every special occasion throughout the year (birthdays, the day they died, Christmas, Halloween, summer festival etc) so our family member is always with us.

I certainly won’t be stopping.

So your family member is only with you when you put a balloon in the sky? Strange!

Sunseaandtea · 14/07/2026 15:15

IWillAlwayLoveYou99 · 14/07/2026 14:58

Completely agree.

We released butterflies in memory of our deceased. It was beautiful and good for the environment.

That's beautiful ❤

MatronPomfrey · 14/07/2026 15:14

Completely agree, awful for the environment. Every time I see a death from someone on an electric scooter, suron or joyriding I know there will be another balloon release.

Recently saw a video of someone setting a wooden initial on fire as a memorial. The petrol they threw over it could have ignited themself and could have cause a fire to spread.

CookieDoughJoe · 14/07/2026 15:14

IWillAlwayLoveYou99 · 14/07/2026 14:58

Completely agree.

We released butterflies in memory of our deceased. It was beautiful and good for the environment.

I know that you can’t undo it now but butterfly releases are not good for the environment. Far from it.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-dorset-41331682

Monarch butterfly in California

Butterflies released at wedding 'condemned to death'

Conservationists believe the non-native monarchs were sighted after being released at a wedding.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-dorset-41331682

MickyMoonshine · 14/07/2026 15:12

AddictedToBooks · 14/07/2026 14:45

I hope your husband is okay. My sister is suffering with her asthma (she's near me) and my poor sister-in-law is heavily pregnant and lives very close to Dovestones.
People just don't think about the impact of their actions.

I think they’ll be starting to feel the impact of their actions. One women has been arrested and charged for aggravated arson and dangerous driving ( not only did she post a video of her starting the fire there was a video of driving while using her phone and inhaling nitrous oxide)
She’s been remanded in custody.

The group have shown no remorse and have even been defending what they did. It’s unbelievable.

Sunseaandtea · 14/07/2026 15:12

I bought helium filled balloons for my sons birthday & on the way to the car I accidentally let them go & off they went. I felt absolutely dreadful not knowing where they would land. I was even terrified they would interfere with aeroplanes

Mygardenshedisfallingdown · 14/07/2026 15:11

Two brain cells and one of those is on the blink.😄

pigsDOfly · 14/07/2026 15:10

AnyDayNowChuckJacksonNSoul · 14/07/2026 15:02

Coul anyone be so stupid with one head .

^I love this.

Sums it up nicely.

ThreadGuardDog · 14/07/2026 15:08

Mygardenshedisfallingdown · 14/07/2026 15:06

I think this is a total wind up or 'bridge' poster and enjoying the attention and peeps getting angry at the stupidity of their reponses.
Go and do something that matters in life like your school homework. 😉

Wonder if this is last period Tuesday afternoon maths, and @BeSunnyLemonSheep isn’t up to it !!

Mygardenshedisfallingdown · 14/07/2026 15:06

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 14/07/2026 13:13

I don’t care that you object. In fact it makes me want to do more of them.

We do a balloon release on every special occasion throughout the year (birthdays, the day they died, Christmas, Halloween, summer festival etc) so our family member is always with us.

I certainly won’t be stopping.

I think this is a total wind up or 'bridge' poster and enjoying the attention and peeps getting angry at the stupidity of their reponses.
Go and do something that matters in life like your school homework. 😉