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AIBU to ask whether the death penalty should apply for certain crimes in the UK?

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PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 23:04

Because the topics got mixed up on my previous thread i thought id ask here, for certain types of crime in the uk, would you be either for or against the death penalty for certain crimes and why ?

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AlwaysExtraHot · 14/07/2026 11:51

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 23:22

they were designed for secret weapons development projects so yes they did do well

But you're talking about adapting the principle for penal purposes.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:48

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 11:45

One could argue it's violent, but it's not necessarily vengeful. It could simply be utilitarian.

If it’s not vengeful why are you doing it for the victims families?

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:47

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 11:43

I imagine that many criminals' parents are devastated and heartbroken that their children are incarcerated at all, so I'm not sure that the feelings of a criminal's family should really be taken into account.

Personally, however, if my child went on a stabbing spree murdering small girls, I think (devastation and horror aside) I'd feel as though it was my responsibility to remove from the world what I'd brought into it. I'm not sure I'd be comforted by knowing my murderous child would be spending decades locked away in prison, where he could hurt guards, or be hurt by other prisoners. That would just be awful in a multitude of ways.

“I'd feel as though it was my responsibility to remove from the world what I'd brought into it. I'm not sure I'd be comforted by knowing my murderous child would be spending decades locked away in prison, where he could hurt guards, or be hurt by other prisoners.”

I find this utterly bizarrre. I don’t actually think it’s true (although I can imagine you firmly think it is) what kind of parent wants to kill their child because they’ve killed?

this never happens in real life so it’s not something people in this situation seem to think

BillieWiper · 14/07/2026 11:46

No. There's too many cases of innocent people being killed on death row.

Living in prison for the rest of your life in solitary confinement is worse punishment than death anyway. Look at people like Huntley. Constantly trying to commit suicide so he got what he wanted? That's not really justice either is it?

ToWhitToWhoo · 14/07/2026 11:46

NarnianQueen · 14/07/2026 11:42

As opposed to the current situation where no paedophiles ever murder their victims?!

No reason to increase the number.

OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 11:45

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One could argue it's violent, but it's not necessarily vengeful. It could simply be utilitarian.

ThatJadeLion · 14/07/2026 11:45

NarnianQueen · 14/07/2026 11:41

I always used to be against it because of the possibility of error.

Maybe I’ve become more jaded, but now I think, if guilt is absolutely certain for some of the most heinous crimes, then yes.

Some people have done things so evil they have forfeited the right to remain part of society.

The recent case of a baby being abused to death via oral rape springs to mind. I’d find it hard to justify keeping that person alive just to avoid “murdering” them. You’re removing a cancer from humanity.

There’s also a theory (and I’m sure someone here will debunk it) that western civilisation IS as polite and peaceable as it is (relatively speaking) BECAUSE there was a period of time where fairly minor crimes carried death penalties.

Absolutely all of this.

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OtterlyAstounding · 14/07/2026 11:43

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 14/07/2026 11:32

I don't have much sympathy for the close family of the Southport murderer, no

Well this much was self-evident given that you stated your sympathy for bereaved families then immediately agitated for needlessly creating another bereaved family.

The rest of your post is just typical of the mindless "string them up" vindictive drivel common to these threads.

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I imagine that many criminals' parents are devastated and heartbroken that their children are incarcerated at all, so I'm not sure that the feelings of a criminal's family should really be taken into account.

Personally, however, if my child went on a stabbing spree murdering small girls, I think (devastation and horror aside) I'd feel as though it was my responsibility to remove from the world what I'd brought into it. I'm not sure I'd be comforted by knowing my murderous child would be spending decades locked away in prison, where he could hurt guards, or be hurt by other prisoners. That would just be awful in a multitude of ways.

NarnianQueen · 14/07/2026 11:42

ToWhitToWhoo · 14/07/2026 11:39

That would just be an incentive for paedophiles to murder their victims, as it would reduce their risk of being caught and the potential punishment would be no worse.

As opposed to the current situation where no paedophiles ever murder their victims?!

NarnianQueen · 14/07/2026 11:41

I always used to be against it because of the possibility of error.

Maybe I’ve become more jaded, but now I think, if guilt is absolutely certain for some of the most heinous crimes, then yes.

Some people have done things so evil they have forfeited the right to remain part of society.

The recent case of a baby being abused to death via oral rape springs to mind. I’d find it hard to justify keeping that person alive just to avoid “murdering” them. You’re removing a cancer from humanity.

There’s also a theory (and I’m sure someone here will debunk it) that western civilisation IS as polite and peaceable as it is (relatively speaking) BECAUSE there was a period of time where fairly minor crimes carried death penalties.

ThatJadeLion · 14/07/2026 11:39

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Small world we live in. There was more than one victim. I don't want to talk about specific cases, my post was in reply to another poster who DID want to talk specifically about this case. "Violently vengeful" ... no dear.

ToWhitToWhoo · 14/07/2026 11:39

ThatJadeLion · 14/07/2026 11:25

I don't have much sympathy for the close family of the Southport murderer, no. Generally if people commit the most depraved, sadistic, evil acts you can imagine, they need to be gone for good.

For example, I believe this should extend to paedophiles particularly where the victim is a prepubescent girl or boy. The trauma for the victim can last a lifetime. Absolutely get rid, there is no rehabilitation. Just at least one wrecked life and out on the streets again after a few years.

That would just be an incentive for paedophiles to murder their victims, as it would reduce their risk of being caught and the potential punishment would be no worse.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:34

Frequency · 14/07/2026 11:22

It seems to work well for Norway and other Scandinavian countries, but yet again, the consensus seems to be that the UK should aim for a race to the bottom instead of spending money to improve things for the majority.

But also what’s being lost in this conversation is that we are not appreciating that the uk is a relatively low crime country

which brings me back to, what’s good enough? I can promise, if we were Norway, we would still be talking about whether we should kill murderers. The conversation isn’t related to levels of crime, just it’s mere existence

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:33

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XDownwiththissortofthingX · 14/07/2026 11:32

ThatJadeLion · 14/07/2026 11:25

I don't have much sympathy for the close family of the Southport murderer, no. Generally if people commit the most depraved, sadistic, evil acts you can imagine, they need to be gone for good.

For example, I believe this should extend to paedophiles particularly where the victim is a prepubescent girl or boy. The trauma for the victim can last a lifetime. Absolutely get rid, there is no rehabilitation. Just at least one wrecked life and out on the streets again after a few years.

I don't have much sympathy for the close family of the Southport murderer, no

Well this much was self-evident given that you stated your sympathy for bereaved families then immediately agitated for needlessly creating another bereaved family.

The rest of your post is just typical of the mindless "string them up" vindictive drivel common to these threads.

Backedoffhackedoff · 14/07/2026 11:31

SilkenFry · 14/07/2026 11:16

Idealism is sweet but expensive to realise that you’re being unrealistic. Most people don’t change in any significant way from intervention. Pathologies can be medicated but they never go away. Recidivism is the norm no matter what the treatment.

I imagine the poster is thinking more of the “groomed from a teenager” gang leader than the psychopath who killed his family

ThatJadeLion · 14/07/2026 11:25

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 14/07/2026 11:16

Another "my thoughts are with the families... but fuck one family in particular"

🤔

I don't have much sympathy for the close family of the Southport murderer, no. Generally if people commit the most depraved, sadistic, evil acts you can imagine, they need to be gone for good.

For example, I believe this should extend to paedophiles particularly where the victim is a prepubescent girl or boy. The trauma for the victim can last a lifetime. Absolutely get rid, there is no rehabilitation. Just at least one wrecked life and out on the streets again after a few years.

Frequency · 14/07/2026 11:22

SilkenFry · 14/07/2026 11:16

Idealism is sweet but expensive to realise that you’re being unrealistic. Most people don’t change in any significant way from intervention. Pathologies can be medicated but they never go away. Recidivism is the norm no matter what the treatment.

It seems to work well for Norway and other Scandinavian countries, but yet again, the consensus seems to be that the UK should aim for a race to the bottom instead of spending money to improve things for the majority.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 14/07/2026 11:16

ThatJadeLion · 14/07/2026 11:13

Absolutely YES in some circumstances like this. Get rid. My thoughts are with the victims and families.

Another "my thoughts are with the families... but fuck one family in particular"

🤔

SilkenFry · 14/07/2026 11:16

Frequency · 14/07/2026 10:40

I genuinely believe the only way we can improve, not just to reduce crime, but to improve overall, is through investment.

We need massive investment in MH services, early intervention schemes, infrastructure, education, and job creation. All or any of that would have a far bigger impact on reducing crime rates than reinstating the death penalty would.

Idealism is sweet but expensive to realise that you’re being unrealistic. Most people don’t change in any significant way from intervention. Pathologies can be medicated but they never go away. Recidivism is the norm no matter what the treatment.

ThatJadeLion · 14/07/2026 11:13

Frequency · 14/07/2026 09:27

Why do people keep bringing up the Southport killer? Are we really okay with executing minors? And if so, what is the minimum age?

Absolutely YES in some circumstances like this. Get rid. My thoughts are with the victims and families.

MrSchubertWhiskers · 14/07/2026 11:11

Nat6999 · 14/07/2026 05:37

The American super max prisons allow contact between prisoners & the prison officers. Imagine knowing for the rest of your life you are never going to have any contact with a human being again & are going to spend 24 hours a day in a cell with nothing to do but stare at 4 walls, no television, radio, books, I've even seen in a documentary where the cells are soundproofed in a foreign jail so the prisoner is trapped with nothing but their own thoughts. For people like the Southport killer & Damien Bendall it is nothing short of what they deserve as their behaviour hasn't changed in an ordinary prison.

But that is inhuman.

I appreciate the desire for punishment, there are certainly some crimes where I feel it myself but we should not let raw emotion rule the justice system.

Those sorts of crimes...the punishment does not deter.

pointythings · 14/07/2026 11:06

PenelopeJoanSterling · 13/07/2026 23:08

that i understand but with better tech and forensics today, the errors should be min ?

Minimal? How many innocent people executed is too many? There's a correct answer. 1.

No to the death penalty.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 14/07/2026 11:03

We can't even grow the spine required to offer euthanasia to terminally ill people facing an agonising death. Get that utter disgrace dealt with, and then we can think about offering it to whole lifers.