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Am I being unreasonable to think extreme day trips are excessive?

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SonnyHoney · 12/07/2026 21:20

For instance, London Luton to Venice.
How can anyone enjoy leaving their house at 2 a.m. to fly out ridiculously early, spend a few hours somewhere walking around exhausted, and then fly back the same day?
It feels like people are just trying to collect places these days, rather than visiting somewhere because it's somewhere they've aways wanted to go.

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Crankyandhot · 13/07/2026 14:59

backformoreofthesame · 12/07/2026 22:00

Let’s just pump
carbon dioxide into the atmosphere just for a few thrills

I mean the flight is still going to run whether I’m on it or not for a day trip.

ElectronBlue22 · 13/07/2026 14:38

Boomer55 · 13/07/2026 10:56

Did a day trip to Cairo, years ago, to see the pyramids.

They were fascinating - but a day there was enough.

Wow, I’ve never met anyone else who has done this! I did, nearly 30 years ago. A local holiday company was running one and I asked for that as my 18th birthday present, so my mum and I went. Pyramids, Sphinx, a camel ride, the museum then home.

Cairo is the longest day trip I’ve done from the UK, but have done many others to France, Belgium, Germany, Italy etc. Paris for lunch is nice on the Eurostar. Also managed Moscow from St Petersburg which is four hours each way on the high speed train so a long day but well worth it.

I don’t post photos on social media so definitely not doing it for clout. I don’t claim to have “done a place” - although most of the places I’ve been this way are also places I’ve spent longer in as well - but it’s nice to do something different for a day, see a museum, eat some interesting food, get some sun or shop at a Christmas market etc. And no need to pay for a cat sitter.

I don’t drive and don’t have children, so I’m saving carbon there.

basiically · 13/07/2026 14:27

I do it and love it.
Id rather do that than have kids.

TigTails · 13/07/2026 14:09

Onlyoneshot · 12/07/2026 22:11

Why not? Have you noticed the climate literally at all?

OP, YANBU, it's a hideous thing to do.

Not as damaging as having child or two.

3wouldbegood · 13/07/2026 14:06

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 22:32

if it's a couple of hours travel, it's not that outrageous.

that's the time many people spend commuting on a normal day!

Not much difference in time to take a 2 hours flight to Europe or a 2 hour -ish train to London for the day

I am not "exhausted" because I only slept a couple of hours the night before? I can imagine snoozing in the plane, coffee on arrival and good to go. It's not that tiring. I wouldn't do it every day for a month, but a short night? non issue

You understand that carbon emissions from flying are far higher than travelling by train, even for a journey of the same distance, yes? Which form of transport has the smallest carbon footprint? | Our World in Data

From an environmental point of view, it's a disastrous trend. I honestly think some people have just decided that the climate is fucked anyway so who cares? It's not rich westerners who will bear the worst brunt though. I find it disgusting.

Which form of transport has the smallest carbon footprint?

How can individuals reduce their emissions from transport?

https://ourworldindata.org/travel-carbon-footprint

OhBotherSaidPoo · 13/07/2026 13:57

A few destinations work well, usually smaller cities with direct flights from your nearest airport, and excellent public transport.
Dublin was great, I flew from LCY at 0620, was in the city centre for breakfast where I found a lovely Irish cafe, explored the National Museum of Ireland, stopped for coffee, went on a walking tour exploring the city's history which was fantastic, had dinner in a pub in temple bar (not the temple bar), and listened to some street performers, then got coach back to the airport and was tucked up in bed with some Barry's tea by 2200.

Would do again.

RichardMarxisinnocent · 13/07/2026 13:57

HowDoYouSolveAProblemLikeMyRear · 13/07/2026 06:55

The plane is only leaving because there's the medium-term demand for that number of flights. Obviously when people fly less, airlines reduce the number of flights!

This. I get so fed up with the argument of "well the plane is going anyway"

RichardMarxisinnocent · 13/07/2026 13:52

Bjorkdidit · 12/07/2026 22:29

A few flights a year within Europe has so little impact on the climate it's not worth counting.

Save your outrage for people who travel long haul multiple times a year, drive gas guzzlers, overconsume or those who have children, especially more than 2, because their carbon footprint is way higher than mine.

It does when there's lots of people doing it, you're not the only person doing this and it all adds up.

RichardMarxisinnocent · 13/07/2026 13:49

IDontHateRainbows · 12/07/2026 22:03

I did an extreme day trip to Paris last year from London and loved it! Meant we could spend money freely on wine cheese and croissants as we were only there the one day + no hotel costs. Early eurostar out, late one back had about 12 hours there.

IMO it's not a problem if you're doing it on eurostar

RichardMarxisinnocent · 13/07/2026 13:48

Bjorkdidit · 12/07/2026 21:37

I do extreme day trips. It's not about 'collecting' places, and I don't post about it on social media. It's an accessible way of seeing different places without having to get someone to feed the cats, and clean and tidy the house so they don't judge me. It's often cheaper than visiting other parts of the UK, and as well as visiting certain attractions, and using them as a recce for a proper holiday, I can do things you can't do in the UK such as swim in bathwater temperature sea.

It's never involved getting up at 2 am or being 'exhausted' as I'll sleep on the plane, or read my book if I don't fall asleep. I'm generally out 5 am to 10 pm so barely longer than a working day and a lot more fun. Arrive and get the bus/train from the airport to the centre, wander around, maybe get a map from the tourist info centre, have lunch, visit any planned attractions,snooze on the beach, sea swim, clean up, wander around some more, maybe have an ice cream or drink, back to the airport, look in duty free and fly back home.

If it's not something you're interested in, that's fine. But many people do enjoy doing them, so why not?

Edited

You don't care that it's appalling environmentally and massively increases your carbon footprint?

heydorotheayoullgo · 13/07/2026 13:45

concertinacornflake · 13/07/2026 11:54

Yes individual context is important.
10k car miles + x flights + high non-travel consumption is different to
No car miles + 3 return flights + low non-travel consumption

There used to be more discussion about individual and comparative carbon footprints, this can be useful for assessing own usage.

Individual usage means nothing when corporations keep on polluting the planet

Girasoli · 13/07/2026 13:23

It wouldn't be for me, I don't enjoy airports/flying so it would ruin the enjoyment of the day.

Plus for environmental reasons I try not to fly when there's a practical way of getting where I want to go by ferry/train/coach (though I do fly when I have to).

concertinacornflake · 13/07/2026 11:54

tilypu · 13/07/2026 07:05

I don't own a car. Which means that my carbon emissions are less than about 80% of UK households without taking anything else into account.

According to Google, it would take about 18 or 19 European return flights per year to equal the carbon emissions of having as car.

If I take into account my commute by public transport to work, it comes up with a figure of 10-14 return flights per year.

My next planned short trip is an overnighter (accommodation is reasonably priced there). But I'm contemplating squeezing a day trip in before then.

If I do, that will be three return flights this year.

I can live with that.

Yes individual context is important.
10k car miles + x flights + high non-travel consumption is different to
No car miles + 3 return flights + low non-travel consumption

There used to be more discussion about individual and comparative carbon footprints, this can be useful for assessing own usage.

concertinacornflake · 13/07/2026 11:34

Why would it be excessive for people who choose to do it? Why does it matter to you?

The environmental impact of choices like this are shared, so each person is entitled to have a view.

Rondayvu · 13/07/2026 10:58

Boomer55 · 13/07/2026 10:56

Did a day trip to Cairo, years ago, to see the pyramids.

They were fascinating - but a day there was enough.

Same here although my trip was not too impressive as we were staying in Hurghada anyway 😂

Boomer55 · 13/07/2026 10:56

Did a day trip to Cairo, years ago, to see the pyramids.

They were fascinating - but a day there was enough.

Rondayvu · 13/07/2026 10:47

Bjorkdidit · 13/07/2026 06:26

Cork is on my to do list and I should be able to get a return for about £30-40.

I've been to Dublin a few times for work so seen most of the 'walking around highlights' already so less interested in that.

In Ireland I'd expect you have to be near Dublin (or Belfast?) to have good options, I don’t know if there's ever enough flights from other Irish airports?

I'd have thought your best bet would be Paris, Brussels, Alicante, Milan or Palma from Dublin as they seem to be the most common ones from the UK, even from smaller airports. Also Barcelona or Malaga. Possibly also Polish cities like Gdansk or Warsaw.

You often need to combine airlines eg go out in the morning with Ryanair and back in the evening with Aer Lingus, or whoever else operates from Ireland, Jet2 and Easyjet use Belfast I think?

I am near Dublin airport and have been to most of the places you mentioned but for weekend trips rather than just for the day. The day trips were to Bristol, York, Birmingham, London a few times etc just because we took a notion but a bit further out and I prefer a few days to really get immersed in places :)

Whynottryagain · 13/07/2026 09:41

I think it's immoral for environmental reasons, but even if I didn't the ratio of travel vs actually seeing the place is way too poor for me to enjoy it. Years ago I went to Prague for a two-night hen-do and even that felt like two days in an airport vs one day sightseeing. Not worth it.

Of course one could also argue that flights should be made too expensive for it to be an option.

backformoreofthesame · 13/07/2026 09:39

I think your emissions numbers are off

most people it’s about a third for food, a third for home heating/electric/transport and a third on stuff from memory - anyway it isn’t just owning a car

the only way you can get to 18 flights because you don’t own a car is to assume you buy a new car every year / most cars have a MUCH longer life and it’s normal to divide the emissions of manufacture across the expected life

anyway
0.5 tonnes co2 for a return London to Prague flight

I have a car and our household emissions are around 4 tonnes CO2

the UK average is around 9 tonnes ( think that’s per person not household )

18 flights alone is 9 tonnes. You have to also get to the airport ( walk) , not eat anything ( starve) not turn your lights or heating on and not buy anything else to support your ridiculous claim that your emissions are not high for the UK

Rachelshair · 13/07/2026 09:31

Air travel has the potential to get massively delayed. A 2 hour flight can easily take 3 hours, plus getting to the airport 2 hours before. A 2 hour drive or train journey is not the same as a 2 hour flight.
I think it could be potentially quite pressurised to do a 2 x 2 hour flights in a day.
I have done it for work to avoid being away from home for a full night, but that was not my own money and not meant to be fun.

ClaredeBear · 13/07/2026 09:29

tilypu · 13/07/2026 07:05

I don't own a car. Which means that my carbon emissions are less than about 80% of UK households without taking anything else into account.

According to Google, it would take about 18 or 19 European return flights per year to equal the carbon emissions of having as car.

If I take into account my commute by public transport to work, it comes up with a figure of 10-14 return flights per year.

My next planned short trip is an overnighter (accommodation is reasonably priced there). But I'm contemplating squeezing a day trip in before then.

If I do, that will be three return flights this year.

I can live with that.

Can I ask (and this is nothing not do with emissions, etc). Do you live close to an airport and do you get a taxi or are you able to rely on buses to get to the airport? Those are the bits that add would more time onto the journey for me. Is there anything in particular or anywhere, that you’d avoid?

Dontgetstuckinthepast · 13/07/2026 09:22

I don't know. I've been tempted to do it for DS as he has food allergies. It would mean we could take some food, find a mcdonalds and be home safely.

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 13/07/2026 09:12

Sartre · 13/07/2026 06:54

I spent some time with Holocaust researchers and one told me when she taught down in London a school would take a group of kids to Auschwitz for the day then come home that night. I was completely baffled by this and thought it was crazy, not in the least because hostels in Poland are cheap as chips but there you go.

Can confirm. My dd did it. Holocaust Memorial Trust run trips from all over the UK, not sure if the plane is chartered, a few kids from lots of schools, she went to meetings and lectures beforehand. Left here at midnight for flight to Poland arrived back midnight next day.

BettyJoanPerske · 13/07/2026 08:10

YABU. I haven't done it myself but I can see the appeal. Why does it matter to you what others do?

Mookie81 · 13/07/2026 08:01

backformoreofthesame · 12/07/2026 22:00

Let’s just pump
carbon dioxide into the atmosphere just for a few thrills

Our of interest, how many children do you have?