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Husband pees on seat, rim and floor, says its normal

138 replies

Julytrees · 12/07/2026 20:03

As the title says. And me and my 16 y o daughter wipe it up as we don’t want to sit on it or have it touch our legs or feet (if splashed on the floor) and it’s not water as it’s yellow.
Sometimes there is small bits of poo on the floor and he says that is also normal and that all men have issues with aim etc and the poo is a mistake...
We clean it as we share a bathroom and we prefer it clean.
He asked me to post here and says he is a standard man when it comes to this. He’s 53.

IABU - for flagging it
NBU - for flagging it

OP posts:
tillyandmilly · 12/07/2026 20:06

We have separate toilet for the men!

mynameiscalypso · 12/07/2026 20:06

Ugh. Not normal. None of the men I’ve lived with - including my 7 year old son - are as disgusting as he is and none of them have any problems with their aim.

ToddlerHostage · 12/07/2026 20:06

Reported. Lots of weird threads being started tonight.

Kevinbaconsrealwife · 12/07/2026 20:06

Absolutely disgusting….and I’m by no means a clean freak….yuk !!

Lulu1919 · 12/07/2026 20:06

No no no
my husband had never done that in nearly 40 years together
it’s not normal it’s gross

Twattergy · 12/07/2026 20:06

I live with two men and neither do this. Its disgusting frankly and lazy.

Calliopespa · 12/07/2026 20:06

Well I don't have male plumbing, so I cannot say if it is normal or not BUT even if it is, cleaning it up would be normal too.

It is the height of arrogance and disrespect to leave your bodily waste for others to attend to.

I don't think normal has much to do with it. It isn't normal not to clean it up if you have difficulties using the loo.

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 12/07/2026 20:06

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Julytrees · 12/07/2026 20:05

He doesn’t make us clean it, it’s just like that in the morning sometimes

OP posts:
arethereanyleftatall · 12/07/2026 20:05

Why would you want to live like this? Do you have no choice?

Duvetdayneeded · 12/07/2026 20:05

Not normal. What a dirty skank.

Julytrees · 12/07/2026 20:05

No it’s not a joke

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arethereanyleftatall · 12/07/2026 20:05

Well obviously it’s not normal. Even if it was normal to miss, why on earth wouldn’t he be the one to clean it up? Making his daughter clean up his piss? Is this a joke?