Husband pees on seat, rim and floor, says its normal

As a retired nurse; this is not at all unusual.
Lots of little factors contribute to the problem; weight, length of the penis, hydration, age as it relates to prosate health.
Stool, that again not unusual due to hair in the area.
What helps, prostate check, weight management so he can see his stream. Fluids, hydrated but not too much.
Wet wipes for cleaning the bottom works better than TP, bidet attachment also very helpful.

OP, I make my 6 year old clean up if he misses and gets pee on the floor or toilet. There is absolutely no way I would clean it up if DP did that. I would wake him up or get him from wherever he was and expect him to clean it. Btw, as I tell my small child frequently, there is absolutely no excuse for getting pee on the seat because if you are peeing standing up then you should be picking the seat up. I can't believe he makes his child clean up his pee. That's horrifying.

Tell the nasty fucker, all the men here (I have a few over at the mo) think he's disgusting. Yuck!

Absolutely disgusting. Neither my DH or my two older teenage boys leave a mess behind them when they use the toilet, ever.

Maybe your DH needs medical advice if he cannot use a toilet like most adults. At the very least he should clean his own mess. What sort of a person is he that he’s happy for his wife or daughter to walk into the bathroom to be faced with his mess. He has no respect for either of you. Utterly grim and awful for your DD that she has to clean up after her Dad.

Of course it isn’t normal! He’s disgusting and should sit to pee if he can’t aim and it goes in the wrong place. If it does go elsewhere, he needs to clean scrupulously, it is utterly foul and disgusting leaving it for others, you poor thing and your poor dd! I have never known this happen in my house.

Unfortunately, at work, I had to report a colleague who left the unisex toilet in an unbelievable state. We all knew it was him because he’d be seen going in and if you tried to go in afterwards, it would look like a scene from Trainspotting. Completely disgusting.

I’d call him in every time if he’s in the house and give him the cleaning materials. Supervise. Bet it miraculously improves really quickly. He’s wrong to say it’s normal. Normal to be an unhygienic skank? Normal to expect the females in the house to clean up after him? Abhorrent. I could not have sex with such a disgusting person. Major ick.

Is it some kind of filthy (literally) kink or dominance thing? 🤢
There's no reason on earth to live like this, or inflict the man on your daughter.

Foul.

No. It’s not normal. He’s a disgusting pig

It's absolutely not normal, your husband is disgusting.

I've lived with a father, husband and son and regularly visit the homes where male relatives live. Not one of them has ever left piss or shit anywhere in the bathroom. They aim properly and if they miss I can only assume they wipe it up because I've never seen piss on the seat or floor.

How can someone get to 53 and still be so foul? More importantly how have you put up with it for so long?

Make him use a litterbox if he doesn't know how to use a toilet properly. He's not even toilet trained.

Piss and shit on the bathroom floor is obviously not normal

Disgusting. I have a DH and 3 sons, and can categorically say it is not normal. It's grim and also disrespectful - he knows it's there, and chooses not to clean it up, because why should he when he's got you to do it for him.
I would actually refuse to live like that. Why are you only just now calling him out on it? Is he a new husband?

It’s not normal, it’s utterly disgusting.

I dont thibk its normal to consistently miss the toilet but I am not a man so what do I know.

But it is 100% not normal to expect other people to clean up. Sometimes I drip blood in bathroom during a particularly hard-core period... i would t dream of not cleanjng it up immediately so that no one else has to.

No. No mother would make her daughter clean up her father's piss and shit.

If my 13 year old makes a mess he gets made to go back to the bathroom and clean it up.

Of course it isn’t normal. What the hell are the women of the house doing cleaning up a man’s shit?!

He gets poo on the floor and doesn't clear it up? Not buying it, or either of you asking if it's normal

No… not normal

Disgusting. How long have you been together? Has he always been like this?

It's disgusting. Why on earth would you put up with that? Also please don't let your poor daughter think this is normal in any way.

Your poor, poor daughter being taught that it’s acceptable for a man to piss on the floor and for her to be expected to wipe it up.

What a sad fucking state of affairs.

Nope

He must really despise you and your DD . Otherwise he would be cleaning up his disgusting mess himself.

Its not normal…he is a dirty fucker