Husband pees on seat, rim and floor, says its normal

Then put his glasses on?!? Rocket science, this isn’t.

Have you shown him this thread yet OP? He can't even say it's all women replying as there have been men saying how disgusting he is too.

Around 50% of the humsn population are male and this is absolutely not "normal". You've found a rematkable anomaly. Well done... I guess.

He is disgusting. I have continence issues and know that I might dribble so I automatically wipe the seat because I don't have my glasses on either so that's a crock.

OK but now he's surely well aware of the problem and needs to wear his glasses to go to the toilet! If he cares one iota about you and your daughter, he will solve this very easily solvable problem.

Edit to add: please don't tell me you reward this utterly vile individual by having sex with him? He surely cannot expect you to find him attractive.

He's a dirty and lazy fucker.
Tell him to sit down in future and clean-up after himself.

No one should have to clean another person's shit/piss especially your child

Even our cat uses the litter tray without leaving a mess. Put him outside to piss and shit in another house.

That’s completely disgusting and I hope you are going to show him every single one of these posts telling him just how gross it is. Being a man does not give you an excuse to piss and shit everywhere. He needs to know that each and every time he uses the toilet, he needs to wait, wipe and ensure the area is clean for the next person. If he’s not prepared to do this, tell him to live somewhere else.
he’s disgusting, disrespectful and entitled.

That will be for the op not leaving this man.

It is beyond batshit that anyone isn’t completely ashamed that they’ve left poo on the floor. You’ve argued about whether it’s right that he leaves his shit for you and his child to clean up? Op, this is absurd.

No its not normal, and hes a disgusting horrible man if he doesnt leave a toilet clean for the rest of the family to use.

He expects you to clean up his pis or sit in his piss and look at his shit on the floor. Absolute skank of a man.

He has no respect for either of you and if it were my house i'd shout him every single time to come clean the toilet telling him hes a dirty disgusting bastard.

If you have more than one toilet, he would be banished to one, he can leave that toilet as dirty as he wants because its his responsibility to clean it.

Disgusting man.

This is insane! I am in possession of a penis & I've never pissed on a seat, or indeed had a pee with the seat up, and the poo out of the loo my god.

I don't actually know what to say. If this isn't a wind up christ what a particularly foul & shit (excuse the pun) example of my gender.

Gross. Shitting on the floor is tolerable only in puppies and elderly dogs. Rehome him to someone with lower standards and replace him with a lovely dog which will have far more respect for you.

I pressed the wrong button! But I agree that it could well be normal to pee all over the place, afterall, my SIX YEAR OLD son does wee everywhere. But the difference between my overgrown toddler and yours, is that mine wipes it up!
Tell him that each time you find the toilet like that, you're going to clean it up for his lazy ass, using his washcloth and toothbrush to get those hard bits of poo off.

Can't be real.. If it is why on earth are you putting up with that!!!

If he seriously has a medical problem where he pisses and shits on the floor then he needs to be the one cleaning up.

Tell him to grow up and behave! Dirty fucker!!

Surely new behaviour? You didn't marry him and put up with this for 16 years?

So is this like a new thing he is doing to degrade you?

He's 53 NOT 3 !!!

disgusting.

It is that simple. He should sit down to use toilet and if he can't wipe his backside then he either needs toilet training or leave.

Absolutely revolting. He has no excuse. He knows he makes a mess and he doesn’t do anything about it. I’d have been long divorced. Total lack of respect for you and his view of his daughter I can’t even guess. Maybe he’s aiming for her to be celibate?!

So he IS making you clean it up because he hasn't. Horrid.

Even if it was normal for the mess to occur, what is his defense for not checking and cleaning up after himself every single time? He's a dirty bastard.

How utterly vile. If he can't aim properly like a big boy, then maybe he needs to sit down to wee.
It sounds to me like he views both you and DD with contempt - why else would he make such a mess and leave it for others to deal with?

Well you have posted now OP. Show him it isn't considered normal on here to make other people grapple with your waste products.

You are right to confront him over this.