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Queuing to board?

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holachicatita · 12/07/2026 11:19

So.. currently waiting to board my flight and me and my husband have had a disagreement. Seats are already allocated but I still like to queue and get on the flight once the gates open. He likes to sit and wait until the last minute, looking down his nose at all the silly little people queuing. AIBU to start to queue once the gates open?

OP posts:
hereforthelolz · 12/07/2026 15:25

BIossomtoes · 12/07/2026 15:09

Is it? The boarding pass that’s a QR code on your phone that the gate staff don’t even look at?

They absolutely do check. I fly frequently for work and have seen the staff do checks, and then hold people back who haven't paid for their baggage. They make a lot of money doing this!

Badbadbunny · 12/07/2026 15:21

Finding space in the overhead lockers is now a big thing. Never used to be when a plane ticket automatically came with a hold luggage allowance. But now you have to pay extra for hold baggage, people are taking small suitcases on board which have to go in the lockers that take up all the space along with all the duty free bags. I've been on flights where our bags have had to be many rows away. On a couple of flights, there's literally been no space left and some passengers have had to have their bags put in the hold, much to their annoyance. I long for the good old days when people just took a small hold-all bag/handbag on board and everyone could have their bag easily accessible directly above them.

UpdatingWheel · 12/07/2026 15:20

Moonnstarz · 12/07/2026 11:23

Depends on where your seat is. We took the kids for the first time this year and booked the window and middle seat, so if we waited til near the end then it would have annoyed the people sat in the aisle seat having to move.

It's a bit like theatre shows, it always seems to be the people who are sat in the middle are the ones to enter last after the warning bell, minutes before the show starts, making everyone stand up to let them through.

It's a bit like theatre shows, it always seems to be the people who are sat in the middle are the ones to enter last after the warning bell, minutes before the show starts, making everyone stand up to let them through

OMG, yes. We went to the theatre twice this week and said exactly the same.

Cosyblankets · 12/07/2026 15:19

BIossomtoes · 12/07/2026 15:09

Is it? The boarding pass that’s a QR code on your phone that the gate staff don’t even look at?

There you go

Queuing to board?
dizzydizzydizzy · 12/07/2026 15:18

Moreholidaysthanjudithchalmers · 12/07/2026 11:21

It depends on if you have a small case to go overhead. If you board last there’s often no room.

This. I queue if I am worried another getting my bag in the overhead locker. If not, I don’t bother queuing.

OP, if you want to queue, just do it.

BIossomtoes · 12/07/2026 15:18

Cosyblankets · 12/07/2026 15:15

Yes.
They scan it.

Do you not think that if the info was not there people would not just take the case on without paying?

They do. 🤷‍♀️

Shoxfordian · 12/07/2026 15:16

I'm like your husband, don't see the point of joining a queue when you have allocated seats and its not even moving

Cosyblankets · 12/07/2026 15:15

BIossomtoes · 12/07/2026 15:09

Is it? The boarding pass that’s a QR code on your phone that the gate staff don’t even look at?

Yes.
They scan it.

Do you not think that if the info was not there people would not just take the case on without paying?

DancingLions · 12/07/2026 15:14

BIossomtoes · 12/07/2026 15:09

Is it? The boarding pass that’s a QR code on your phone that the gate staff don’t even look at?

Yes. Its still on there and it's on them if they don't look properly. But it doesn't change the facts that I had paid for the space and he hadn't. Not sure why you're trying to continue arguing it.

BIossomtoes · 12/07/2026 15:09

Cosyblankets · 12/07/2026 15:04

It's on the boarding pass

Is it? The boarding pass that’s a QR code on your phone that the gate staff don’t even look at?

nomas · 12/07/2026 15:05

Cosyblankets · 12/07/2026 15:00

She said that she said the space was for cases. I therefore assume that she had a case. If she'd not paid for the case she would have been stopped at the gate

I flew long haul with Emirates recently, I was asked by cabin crew to put my rucksack under the seat in front and not in the overhead locker. It makes sense as locker space is limited.

If DancingLions didn’t ask the man to
move it, cabin crew would have likely asked him
to.

Cosyblankets · 12/07/2026 15:04

BIossomtoes · 12/07/2026 15:02

Would she? How would the gate staff know whether she’d paid for it or not?

It's on the boarding pass

Cosyblankets · 12/07/2026 15:03

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 14:50

or just check YOUR coat if it's so much of an issue for you?

What a weird post

Options are
Pay to check in a suitcase
Pay to put your smaller case in the overhead locker
Small bags and coats go under the seat not in the locker

BIossomtoes · 12/07/2026 15:02

Cosyblankets · 12/07/2026 15:00

She said that she said the space was for cases. I therefore assume that she had a case. If she'd not paid for the case she would have been stopped at the gate

Would she? How would the gate staff know whether she’d paid for it or not?

likelysuspect · 12/07/2026 15:02

OMG you're like my OH, I hate it, he has to scurry at speed right down to the gate and watches the boards like a hawk, it makes no difference. I cannot STAND waiting around for things so would rather just come along when they're actually boarding.

I deliberately walk slowly and saunter round the shops to make us slower to get there. He whines like nobodies business about it. Really ruins the vibe of a relaxing and free and easy holiday.

Cosyblankets · 12/07/2026 15:00

BIossomtoes · 12/07/2026 14:47

She didn’t say she’d paid for the space. I think she’s a cheeky fucker too. The guy was as entitled to the space in the locker as her. I dread encountering people like her on planes.

She said that she said the space was for cases. I therefore assume that she had a case. If she'd not paid for the case she would have been stopped at the gate

UhOhRatPoo · 12/07/2026 14:52

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 14:31

it doesn't mean your seat is not double-booked? Or double-booking and people refused access at the gate would not happen.

It doesn't even guarantee THAT seat, if the crew need to reshuffle, or try to sit a toddler next to parents who couldn't be bothered to pay for the seat, or simply sit an injured person on the aisle because they can't bend their leg, any reason really.

If there is an overbooking situation at the gate they will announce and ask for volunteers. Since there is compensation on Ex UK and ex EU flights, they usually get volunteers. Failing volunteers, they have various selection criteria that they apply. They don’t just let the queue get to the end and stop the last 2 people getting on.

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 14:50

In2mindsss · 12/07/2026 14:48

Just check your luggage in from now on

or just check YOUR coat if it's so much of an issue for you?

What a weird post

ZanyPoet · 12/07/2026 14:50

In2mindsss · 12/07/2026 14:41

How fucking entitled are you? 😂 You think you deserve to bring a bigger case than anyone else and then to top it off treat yourself to foot room because of it?

Low costs specifically say that the lockers are for luggage, not clothes, and with any airline, it's common sense. Of course cases go in the locker as priority over clothes.

If airline staff is happy with the size of the case, then its place is in the locker? Where do you think it should go?

You are ALLOWED to take luggage that doesn't fit under the seat you know!

DancingLions · 12/07/2026 14:50

In2mindsss · 12/07/2026 14:48

Just check your luggage in from now on

Why should I? I paid for what I needed.

tartyflette · 12/07/2026 14:49

I always choose and pay for plane seats in advance but on more than one occasion recently there have been CFs sitting in them already and when I say these seats are booked they’ve said oh, that’s ok, just take ours, they’re only 15/16 rows back (and they’re both middles…)
And getting huffy when I say no, I want the ones I booked and paid for. And then making a huge production out of getting up and moving. Wankers.

In2mindsss · 12/07/2026 14:48

DancingLions · 12/07/2026 14:47

I'd paid extra for that case to go in the overhead lockers. It wouldn't fit under the seat. That's not entitlement. Its getting what I paid for. The other person was entitled thinking they could take up space in the lockers for a coat and a rucksack when they hadn't paid any extra. Just so they could have a more comfortable seat.

Just check your luggage in from now on

DancingLions · 12/07/2026 14:48

@Cosyblankets
Yes exactly that.

DancingLions · 12/07/2026 14:47

In2mindsss · 12/07/2026 14:41

How fucking entitled are you? 😂 You think you deserve to bring a bigger case than anyone else and then to top it off treat yourself to foot room because of it?

I'd paid extra for that case to go in the overhead lockers. It wouldn't fit under the seat. That's not entitlement. Its getting what I paid for. The other person was entitled thinking they could take up space in the lockers for a coat and a rucksack when they hadn't paid any extra. Just so they could have a more comfortable seat.

BIossomtoes · 12/07/2026 14:47

Cosyblankets · 12/07/2026 14:44

I guess this was Easyjet or Ryanair
You pay for cabin space and small rucksack stay under the seat in front with no charge.
Poster is not being entitled she's using the cabin space she paid for

She didn’t say she’d paid for the space. I think she’s a cheeky fucker too. The guy was as entitled to the space in the locker as her. I dread encountering people like her on planes.

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