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Where is the AI that looks out for women ?

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feministAI · 11/07/2026 21:56

Ive been subject very misogynistic comments tonight by an acquaintance of a friend and asked ChatGPT how to manage it and got such a man centric response I’m really disappointed. Even fecking AI is on the man’s side. It essentially told me to pipe down or say a nice soft response to the secure comment I heard We really are on our own here to speak up for women aren’t we ? A 65 year old man I met today for the first time ever commented on something and his comment was such that I found it disturbing and distasteful but AI suggested I digest it and make a “gentle” comment if it comes up again. I despair.

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RegretfulVaper · 11/07/2026 22:05

What were the initial comments, and what did ChatGPT suggest?

happidayss · 11/07/2026 22:04

Why use AI for issues like that?

feministAI · 11/07/2026 22:03

Maybe this is it. But it clearly needs to be told and this is what I find sad. The whole “ah. Perhaps you could gently suggest not everyone feels that way”. It can bugger off .

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RoseField1 · 11/07/2026 22:00

Try telling it what approach you want it to take. See how that changes it. Tell it to respond as if it is a radical feminist!