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To think people need to engage their brains before posting?

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OMGitsnotgood · 11/07/2026 15:30

Ok, so it’s not a huge deal in itself but it really irritates me.

2 examples from the Facebook group for our local area just today but countless other examples.

Our local police force posted about a teenager who seems to have gone missing. Someone commented ‘try looking at her Facebook, Instagram etc ‘ . If the police hadn’t already thought of doing that then the country is in a worse place than I thought.

Someone posted that they’ve lost their keys between shop A and shop B. It was suggested that they contact shop A, B and those inbetween to see if they had been handed in.

These are only a couple of examples, so many similar.

I know people are just trying to be helpful but for some reason these ‘stating the bleeding obvious’ posts really irritate me. Maybe I am being unreasonable but feel better for getting it off my chest (and another one ‘contact her mates and see if any of them have heard from her’. I mean really - and these are suggestions to the police!

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ObliviousCoalmine · 11/07/2026 15:42

A teenager went missing locally a while ago, about 3 weeks into them being missing someone commented on an update post by the police on FB saying “has anyone checked the CCTV around where they were last seen? Just a thought”.

I think some people genuinely are just quite stupid.

Badbadbunny · 11/07/2026 15:39

We've got someone in our village who only ever posts "bleeding obvious" posts on our village Facebook pages. Never contributes positively to anything. A few people have posted the "No shit sherlock" answer but they then get called out for bullying.

I think a classic was when someone posted about losing their keys, and she replied "they probably fell out of your pocket" Duh!!!

TheWildZebra · 11/07/2026 15:36

The one I read today was an interview with a bloke in Clacton “why would Farage have any reason to be anything other than honest”.

I mean I fucking despair and the lack of brain cells some people have.

OMGitsnotgood · 11/07/2026 15:35

@Allthegoodhorsesexactly the thought that what went through my mind.
i wouldn’t publcially humiliate anyone by posting that, they have just publically humiliated themselves enough

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Allthegoodhorses · 11/07/2026 15:32

This is where the phrase "no shit, sherlock" should be used.