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To feel sad when a friend cancels plans by just ignoring you?

53 replies

BlueBayBic · 11/07/2026 09:06

Was looking forward to meeting with a friend last night, with exact plans tbc. However all day, messages left on ‘read’ and not responded to. Admittedly she was at work and stressed due to current work events, but to ignore my (sporadic) messages for 8+ hours and to still have not replied now is a little bit… cold? I don’t know. Is it too much to send a little “crap day, don’t fancy it now, see you soon” message?

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GoodbyeZebedee · 11/07/2026 09:12

Yeah, that’s a bit shit. How firm were the plans?

Massagetimemachine · 11/07/2026 09:11

I wouldn’t consider someone who does that to be a friend to be honest

Cherrysoup · 11/07/2026 09:11

So she just didn’t turn up?