7yo boy. Suspected adhd, possibly also autism. On a very long rtc waiting list with about 9 months to go. Hates school and comes home exhausted every day. Constantly talking about how he wants to go to another school. Says he is always told to stop doing things and that other children look at him, and teachers embarrass him. He said he wanted a drink in pe because he was hot and the teacher said no, but he felt sick and needed a drink to stop himself from being sick, but the teacher took it from him and poured it on the floor and said he won't be able to drink now. I have no idea how much of this is true, if he is exaggerating, etc, but he is clearly very unhappy. I don't know what to do. He has lots of friends but says he thinks nobody likes him. It breaks my heart watching him walk through the school gates every day with his head facing the floor. I've spoken to the school about how to support him as I feel he is unhappy and I am worried about him but they say he is fine and havr no feedback that even slightly matches what he is saying to me. Just feel very lost and feel so sorry for him. School was not built for him. How do I cope with this? How do I best support him? If the incident with the teacher pouring the water out is true, I do feel like this crosses a line into humiliating territory (they could have just taken the bottle away if it was really not appropriate for him to have a drink) but I have no idea what actually happened. I am totally exhausted by it all.