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AIBU for wanting to try Adderall for age-related fatigue?

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aquamaryne · 10/07/2026 18:08

I don't have caffeine all the time, only when I'm going out with my boyfriend or with friends, but even at 400 mg of caffeine I don't feel buzzed or hyper, I feel about 70% to what I felt like at 20. I'm 31, I've had every single blood test under the sun, and they are all normal.

I am slurring my words and messing up my grammar constantly, and feel so tired I don't want to do anything, even my oldest hobbies. I'm sleeping 10 hours a day and wake up feeling just how I did when I was going to bed. I feel the constant urge to nap and people think I'm getting annoyed with them talking to me when really I'm trying to save my energy. I find it very difficult to explain simple things.

I have not had kids, and my BMI is 21, so I'm not overweight.

The 400 mg of caffeine is good (I got pills) but I feel like I need something stronger. I've heard Adderall is much more effective than caffeine is, but my friend told me I should just take more than 400 mg of caffeine instead. AIBU?

Sidenote: Ageing is so normal, yet sucks so much, I miss the old me that had so much energy! And why is it that men seem to age differently to women and still have so much energy at my age? Bleh! My point is, even though it's normal given my age, why suffer when there are things you can take to alleviate it, even if it's temporary?

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ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 11/07/2026 13:51

The bottom of the normal range for some blood tests in the U.K. is very low. I had ferritin in the 20s and felt awful although it was technically in range. Due to some related conditions they gave me an iron infusion and the difference in my energy levels was huge.

Look at your results and see if you are close to the bottom of the normal range.

Do you have any family history of autoimmune conditions?

StickyProblem · 11/07/2026 13:41

“Old to have your first baby” (medically not societally) is not the same as “old”.
Go back to the doctors and get diagnosed. You have strange symptoms, dont self-diagnose.

mamakoukla · 11/07/2026 12:59

Blood test results within the normal range - I would take that with a grain of salt. Some countries have low values at the bottom range of normal e.g. ferritin, vitamin B12, etc. You can feel wiped and still have a normal value. I might start by reviewing those. Your level of fatigue is not what one would expect.

Slimtoddy · 11/07/2026 12:50

I only mentioned Lyme disease because I had a friend who has it (took a while to diagnose) and op's description reminded me of his experience. I also mentioned it as a way to suggest that not everything is tested for so it's possible there is something wrong (yet to be identified) that needs treatment that isn't a dodgy treatment.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 11/07/2026 12:34

Slimtoddy · 11/07/2026 12:27

@ImImmortalNowBabyDoll do you not believe the OP is struggling with fatigue? I agree the suggested treatment is problematic but desperate people say desperate things.

The suggested treatment is problematic because it's a fake treatment sold by charlatans with no medical basis and the only possible impact of it would be to make OP even more unwell.

I believe OP is suffering with fatigue.

It could be ME/CFS. However, considering OP is sleeping 10 hours a day and taking extreme amounts of caffeine, and also showing evidence that her thinking is impaired (believing herself to be elderly at 31), the first things she should be considering are lifestyle, and mental health. If a depressed, psychotic drug addict is fatigued, that's not a big mystery- and that's closer to what OP is describing than a rare tick-borne bacterial infection.

Slimtoddy · 11/07/2026 12:27

@ImImmortalNowBabyDoll do you not believe the OP is struggling with fatigue? I agree the suggested treatment is problematic but desperate people say desperate things.

GentleSheep · 11/07/2026 12:27

If you have had thyroid tests (I presume you have) then do you have the results to hand (I don't mean 'normal' I mean the actual figures. Also, ferritin blood test, have you had that?

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 11/07/2026 12:22

Slimtoddy · 11/07/2026 11:27

Blood tests can be wrong or maybe they are not checking for every possible factor. What does your doctor say? Have they tested for Lyme disease for example?

AI might be abyto help you navigate the health system. I have various health issues and AI has helped me communicate with my GP. It just helps me get my thoughts clear so when I speak to GP I don't miss anything.

Chronic Lyme Disease is not a thing.

Post-Treatment Lyme Disease Syndrome is a thing but requires that OP has been diagnosed with and treated or Lyme Disease.

Do not add more delusional pseudoscience to OP's already warped brain.

HoppingPavlova · 11/07/2026 12:20

aquamaryne · 10/07/2026 18:36

31 isn't young. After 35, if a woman tries to get pregnant, it is known as a geriatric pregnancy

31yo isn’t old, and there is no such thing as age related fatigue at that age. You are making shit up.

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 11/07/2026 12:16

Being so fatigued you can't speak isn't even slightly normal for 31.

You're probably overdosing on caffeine and it's affecting your sleep quality.

Also you might well be sleeping too much which makes you more tired.

Stop taking so much caffeine and focus on sleep quality over quantity.

And no, I don't think it's a good idea to buy illegal drugs (which might actually contain anything since you'll be buying them off the black market) because you feel tired.

BillieWiper · 11/07/2026 11:59

aquamaryne · 10/07/2026 18:36

31 isn't young. After 35, if a woman tries to get pregnant, it is known as a geriatric pregnancy

So therefore you actually think 35 is geriatric?!! You sound a bit bizarre tbh.

Of course 31 is young. And no you shouldn't take speed for 'age related fatigue' because I don't believe such a thing exists at 31.

notnorman · 11/07/2026 11:37

I could do with some adderall? Where does one find it!

ClearFruit · 11/07/2026 11:35

aquamaryne · 10/07/2026 18:36

31 isn't young. After 35, if a woman tries to get pregnant, it is known as a geriatric pregnancy

You're talking utter rubbish.

LaurieFairyCake · 11/07/2026 11:33

You don’t have ‘age related fatigue’ - you’re not old enough.

Overtheatlantic · 11/07/2026 11:30

aquamaryne · 10/07/2026 18:36

31 isn't young. After 35, if a woman tries to get pregnant, it is known as a geriatric pregnancy

Thanks for letting us know 😆 you sound very young indeed or maybe you’re just trying to bait older women. Try better.

Slimtoddy · 11/07/2026 11:27

Blood tests can be wrong or maybe they are not checking for every possible factor. What does your doctor say? Have they tested for Lyme disease for example?

AI might be abyto help you navigate the health system. I have various health issues and AI has helped me communicate with my GP. It just helps me get my thoughts clear so when I speak to GP I don't miss anything.

dizzydizzydizzy · 11/07/2026 11:21

Winefride · 10/07/2026 18:37

thanks for this - thought it was just me!

If you have any questions about ME/CFS, please feel free to ask. I have it.

TY78910 · 10/07/2026 20:39

I’m going to guess that OP is from the US, because aside from the fact that it’s not even available in the UK, who says so flippantly ‘I feel fatigued, shall I just give this drug a try?’. It’s just not very British culturally to be so lax about amphetamines. That’s like someone saying I feel depressed AIBU to give ket a try? Odd

Onlyoneshot · 10/07/2026 18:53

I'm 37, have a toddler, and have a BMI that is probably close to 40 (dunno, wildly don't care so haven't weighed myself for a long time, but I fill some space so probably around there). I don't feel like you describe, and I only ever have when I am really tortuously sleep deprived (babies!). It's not normal, there's something wrong.

Or you're on the wind up. 🤷‍♀️

Backedoffhackedoff · 10/07/2026 18:49

aquamaryne · 10/07/2026 18:36

31 isn't young. After 35, if a woman tries to get pregnant, it is known as a geriatric pregnancy

Who told you that?

where does your mate expect you can get Adderall from?

Youspurnme · 10/07/2026 18:39

are you of Irish or Scottish descent by any chance? You could consider getting your ferritin levels checked. I was like this and it turned out to be haemochromatosis which is relatively prevalent among us Celts!

JLou08 · 10/07/2026 18:38

aquamaryne · 10/07/2026 18:36

31 isn't young. After 35, if a woman tries to get pregnant, it is known as a geriatric pregnancy

This feels a bit like a wind up.
You don't need to spend long on MN to know the main demographic are over 35 and pregnancy around and over that age is the ideal here.

Winefride · 10/07/2026 18:37

dizzydizzydizzy · 10/07/2026 18:35

Since all your blood tests are normal, you need to ask your doctor if you might have ME/CFS or some other condition that causes fatigue and doesn’t show up in blood tests. Being that fatigued in your 30s in not age-related.

You’ll find info about ME/CFS here:

https://meassociation.org.uk/

thanks for this - thought it was just me!

Winefride · 10/07/2026 18:36

aquamaryne · 10/07/2026 18:36

31 isn't young. After 35, if a woman tries to get pregnant, it is known as a geriatric pregnancy

ummmmmmm ok well good luck with everything!

aquamaryne · 10/07/2026 18:36

Winefride · 10/07/2026 18:34

But you might think you're sleeping well but not getting REM etc due to not breathing correctly or being so caffeinated you can't get enough restorative sleep. It's worth asking before going down the route of Adderall at such a young age.

31 isn't young. After 35, if a woman tries to get pregnant, it is known as a geriatric pregnancy

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