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The Waltons weren't poor

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Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 14:43

I'm watching an episode and a neighbour comes by saying he's been living on skimmed milk and wild onions for 2 years. Grandpa sympathises and pipes up that he's lived on the edge of poverty his whole life. The show description says follow the family through the hardships of the Depression. Admittedly, there are episodes where the children walk to and from school with no boots/shoes. Generally speaking it's presented as a poor family.
But

  • they had 7 kids (people then did know how babies were made and didn't have to have large families despite lack of contraception, the pull out method is not infallible but been used forever)
  • they own a bloody mountain full of timber, and run a sawmill business
  • they have livestock, chickens for eggs, and garden for veggies
  • they own a truck
  • they own a massive house
  • everyone's well fed and well clothed, just maybe not always the latest 'smart' outfits when they want one

They were in no way 'poor' for the 1930s.

AIBU?

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WallaceinAnderland · 10/07/2026 16:16

Alittlefrustrated · 10/07/2026 16:11

I don't think I can 😳 I was brought up on both of these and can't imagine remakes at all. Are you enjoying it?

No. It's too twee but not in the cute way that the original was. Also no realism which is a shame because I thought a remake could address that.

maddiemookins16mum · 10/07/2026 16:15

They got by, all kids went to School and they had two hot meals a day (and lunch). They ran two cars (ok a truck and JB’s little car). Compared to some of the poorer people up the mountain they were well off.

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 16:12

WallaceinAnderland · 10/07/2026 16:07

Slightly off topic but is anyone watching the new LHOTP on netflix?

No, I have too much of a crush on Pa's (ML) twinkly eyes

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Alittlefrustrated · 10/07/2026 16:11

WallaceinAnderland · 10/07/2026 16:07

Slightly off topic but is anyone watching the new LHOTP on netflix?

I don't think I can 😳 I was brought up on both of these and can't imagine remakes at all. Are you enjoying it?

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 16:09

John Boy once described his family as "a bunch of dirt poor hicks" but they weren't.

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OkieUSA · 10/07/2026 16:07

The depiction of people in the USA back in those times, regarding contraception and women's choices, are so strange. My grandma had 14 kids and always said she wanted more. She was born in 1920 and had her first child in 1934.

She wasn't forced into her lifestyle so it is so interesting to me how people just assume something is true because they made it up, someone else said so or they think it should be that way based on standards of today.

She wasn't raised poor but married poor out of love and against her parents wishes.

People were 'poor' even though they ate. Poor is different than destitute.

My 'poor' grandma also owned chickens, broke their necks herself when they could no longer lay eggs. She had a garden and a car that she rarely drove because she didn't have a license.

Her older children gave their clothes to their siblings when they outgrew them. Some, not all, had shoes. They didn't always have three meals a day and sometimes skipped meals for a day or so. Some times were harder than others.

Her neighbors were destitute. They couldn't afford a garden or chickens. My grandma would help their family out as much as possible.

My grandpa was a bricklayer.

He built the house that was able to accommodate 14 kids with the help of his father in law on land that he bought before marrying my grandma.

WallaceinAnderland · 10/07/2026 16:07

Slightly off topic but is anyone watching the new LHOTP on netflix?

WallaceinAnderland · 10/07/2026 16:06

Did they ever claim to be dirt poor though. I thought it was more 'we didn't have much but had each other' sort of thing.

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 16:06

PrincessTiabeanieMariabeanie · 10/07/2026 16:00

My grandparents were poor and had sixteen children. In a house with two bedrooms.

Gosh, your poor Grandma. That must have been a terrible struggle.

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Yellowpapersun · 10/07/2026 16:06

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 16:02

That's fair. I've always had the impression (not helped by Grandpa today) that they thought they were really poor.

They probably thought they were, don't you think? Relative to the Baldwin sisters, or Ike Godsey even! I remember one episode where Olivia says she remembers how they never failed to save a few dollars a week but now they didn't even have a dollar for something.
(I've just realised I'm coming across as a bit of a Waltons weirdo 🤣).

Alittlefrustrated · 10/07/2026 16:03

I have had the summer bug from hell for 3 weeks and The Waltons have kept me going 🤣 I've had the very same thoughts as you OP. There's struggling to maintain your previous lifestyle and comforts and then there was dirt poor. They were not dirt poor.

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 16:02

Yellowpapersun · 10/07/2026 15:59

I never thought that the Walton family were meant to portray the people living in absolute poverty like the Joad family in The Grapes of Wrath were. Rather, they had been a fairly well to do family who were suffering the effects of the depression. They had their sawmill and the mountain but business wasn't good due to nobody wanting to buy lumber. The real dirt-poor were the cousins of the family, Boone Walton with his moonshine. In later episodes Mary Ellen visits the very poor families living up in the hills who never come down. If you visit the area around Schuyler, Virginia where Earl Hamner came from, there is still a lot of poverty amongst mountain people.

That's fair. I've always had the impression (not helped by Grandpa today) that they thought they were really poor.

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PrincessTiabeanieMariabeanie · 10/07/2026 16:00

My grandparents were poor and had sixteen children. In a house with two bedrooms.

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 16:00

The Appalachians are known for a lot of extreme absolute poverty long past the dates here. I guess I want a more accurate portrayal but that wouldn't make cosy Sunday afternoon family TV, would it. At least the Waltons to acknowledge that they aren't that badly off compared to many at that time.

ALSO, they and the whole town are very forwardly-thinking PC when it comes to racial integration and acceptance. Black neighbours? Sure, come for dinner anytime. 1930s America?

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Yellowpapersun · 10/07/2026 15:59

I never thought that the Walton family were meant to portray the people living in absolute poverty like the Joad family in The Grapes of Wrath were. Rather, they had been a fairly well to do family who were suffering the effects of the depression. They had their sawmill and the mountain but business wasn't good due to nobody wanting to buy lumber. The real dirt-poor were the cousins of the family, Boone Walton with his moonshine. In later episodes Mary Ellen visits the very poor families living up in the hills who never come down. If you visit the area around Schuyler, Virginia where Earl Hamner came from, there is still a lot of poverty amongst mountain people.

Ponoka7 · 10/07/2026 15:58

Can their poverty ever compare to the slums surrounding the factories across England/Scotland? At least no-one was actively choosing to not pay enough wages, or build mansions, while children died from the slum housing they collected rent on. I never realised they were supposed to be poor, because life looked exceptionally good to what my GM described, including the death of her brother from TB.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 10/07/2026 15:53

nopiesleftinthisvehicle · 10/07/2026 15:47

See, now I have The Waltons and LHOTP theme tunes both stuck in my head.
If I block one, the other one appears in its place. 👂 🪱

TIL they’re two different programmes 😳

InterestedDad37 · 10/07/2026 15:53

They may have been 'cash poor' but have good means for making and maintaining a living.
However, they were rich in a family's goodness and love, and are an example to us all in how to live on a mountain in the USA in the 1930s. Goodnight Mary Ellen 😀

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 15:49

NotAnotherScarf · 10/07/2026 15:30

Coming from an English working class family where mum was one of 11 and dad 10. The idea that contraception was used is blown out of the water by the number of families who lost 5 or more children in the first war. Just a few years before the Walton children were born.

The depression meant that no one was building, so there was no one buying the Walton's timber.

When you say they could grow their own food, have you ever tried it...it's very time consuming, at any time a pest or too much water, or too little can ruin a crop.

Elvis Presley was born in 1935, his dad went to prison for altering a food cheque. Jerry lee Lewis was born in 38 and his dad went to prison for moonshine....both from the deep south. Elvis' dad built the house he was born in, a shot gun shack

The white farmers were known as red necks from time spent in the fields working

Appalachia is still the poorest part of the us...

So until you've been that poor...walk a mile in their shoes

You make some good points.

On reflection, I understand them having so many children - like many rural families, they needed the labour. But people were able to control their family size to some degree. Not everyone had big families. My very working class parents born in the 1920s were 1 of 4 children, and 1 of 3 children, no sibling deaths. They grew up with very little - my Dad in particular experienced the type of poverty that meant there was zero food some days. My parents lives improved and I had a happy, normal council-house no-holidays but money for an ice-cream at the seaside 1970s working class childhood.

I've absolutely been poor as an adult - cardboard in shoes because of holes through the soles poor.

I didn't say they grew all their food, they grew veggies. They did have to buy a lot of course.

They owned a milk cow (with calf every year) and chickens - way more than most. They fished in their stream and caught enough to sell the surplus.

I'm thinking in context of the times - they worked hard, they certainly weren't rich, but they weren't exactly poor either.

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nopiesleftinthisvehicle · 10/07/2026 15:47

See, now I have The Waltons and LHOTP theme tunes both stuck in my head.
If I block one, the other one appears in its place. 👂 🪱

suki1964 · 10/07/2026 15:40

I think that's why I loved it as a teen, it was working class poor as we knew it

We had a roof over our heads and food on the table, but sod all else , no money for sweets or treats

What I really loved was the love within the family

WallaceinAnderland · 10/07/2026 15:38

So until you've been that poor...walk a mile in their shoes

Or their bare feet.

They couldn't grow enough veg to feed a family of 11 for very long and I don't remember them having 'stock'? Maybe one cow for milk, but they didn't butcher and eat meat.

Additup · 10/07/2026 15:36

Privilege · 10/07/2026 15:10

If you want a really depressing fictional account of the Great Depression, I recommend The Grapes of Wrath. It’s bleak.

I see your Grapes of Wrath and I raise you The Trouble I've Seen by the late, great Martha Gelhorn. A book of factual short stories/recollections of life during the Great Depression. The last story about child prostitution is so awful I couldn't finish it.

The Waltons had it easy in comparison, although they could have benefited from some contraception. Also, surely the most pressing thing aboug the Waltons is why the mother actresses real name is/was Michael. That used to really confuse child me 😅

NotAnotherScarf · 10/07/2026 15:30

Redflagsabounded · 10/07/2026 15:17

I loved the show as a kid but watching it now, I think I'd hate them as neighbours.

They remind me of the posters on here who wail on about how poor they are as there's nothing left out of their £100,000 salary after they've paid big mortgage, new car lease etc etc.

How starving neighbour didn't twat fat, smug grandpa sitting in his son's massive property, I don't know.

Coming from an English working class family where mum was one of 11 and dad 10. The idea that contraception was used is blown out of the water by the number of families who lost 5 or more children in the first war. Just a few years before the Walton children were born.

The depression meant that no one was building, so there was no one buying the Walton's timber.

When you say they could grow their own food, have you ever tried it...it's very time consuming, at any time a pest or too much water, or too little can ruin a crop.

Elvis Presley was born in 1935, his dad went to prison for altering a food cheque. Jerry lee Lewis was born in 38 and his dad went to prison for moonshine....both from the deep south. Elvis' dad built the house he was born in, a shot gun shack

The white farmers were known as red necks from time spent in the fields working

Appalachia is still the poorest part of the us...

So until you've been that poor...walk a mile in their shoes

AmyDudley · 10/07/2026 15:26

I mean, to be fair, Grandpa Walton generally talked a load of bollocks.