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Another day, another person with inadequate travel insurance

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JulietteHasAGun · 10/07/2026 08:18

So very sadly a British man has died in Cape Verde while on an all inclusive Tui holiday with his wife.

She believes his travel insurance wouldn’t cover repatriation of his body so has buried him in an unmarked grave over there and had to come home without him. Which must be very distressing for her. I do sympathise but also think why on earth don’t people get adequate travel insurance. I know it’s expensive as you get older and have pre existing conditions, etc.

friend of mine it cost 5k in travel insurance for her mum to go to Florida for 2 weeks when terminally ill but they paid it. I pay £hundreds for Dd due to her medical issues.

If i couldn’t afford it I wouldn’t go. They could have gone to Spain and had a cheaper holiday, then afforded holiday insurance as well plus being covered by ghic…..though obviously that wouldn’t cover repatriation.

Have to say I’m surprised Tui didn’t help out as they have their own planes especially because there’s lots of rumblings about Brits dying in their hotels over there due to Norovirus, stomach bugs being rampant in their hotels and this guy died after a severe episode of d&v.

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Thingcanonlygetbetter · 10/07/2026 11:25

I would never travel without travel insurance. But do feel very reassured that we have an amazing charity in Ireland who will repatriate any Irish citizen who dies abroad. The Kevin Bell Repatriation Trust. They don’t just deal with providing the money they handle everything. Just amazing people who support people in their darkest hour.

fascinatingRhythm · 10/07/2026 11:25

ICanBuyMyOwnFlowers · 10/07/2026 11:17

@AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle Are you saying that having a holiday abroad is a right or have I misread you somehow???

My mother is 84 and has a plethora of illnesses. She was desperate to go to Florida one last time. The MAIN cost was her insurance. That was paid first.

I live in a British seaside town. Remember them? The ones struggling to thrive because of families going abroad????? We have long golden beaches, cheap accommodation (as well as expensive), outdoor swimming pools, parks, country houses, gorgeous cafes and restaurants, strict disability rules and inclusions, business owners just desperate to give you and your family memories to last a lifetime and all backed by the NHS.

As a hard working family I don't question your 'right' to a holiday but I assure you it doesn't have to be abroad and this way you don't need the travel insurance either!

Yes I didnt get that either, that poster seemed to be implying the only way anyone can have fun, spend time with their family or "make memories" is to go abroad. Why?

Sure, you might want to have a fancy holiday abroad (totally get that) but there are many things I am sure we all want right now, but cant afford them! A holiday abroad is certainly not a necessity.

StinkerTroll · 10/07/2026 11:25

If she had travel insurance but didn't realise it doesn't cover repatriation it's very harsh to judge and not fair, it's the insurance companies you should have a go at. We had a holiday booked for Canada then covid struck (we'd booked with a Canadian airline so ATOL didn't cover it), we had adequate insurance, when we tried to get a refund on the flights insurance told us to go to the credit card, credit card told us to go to insurance, back and forth..... 4 years it took us to get a refund and then we found out that the insurance had authorised the refund months before but had 'forgotten' to tell us!

GreenVelvetTrousers · 10/07/2026 11:24

EverMissWicklowSometimes · 10/07/2026 08:34

What was stopping her having him cremated and bringing his ashes home? One of my relatives sadly died while on holiday abroad (with travel insurance) and we did this as it was far easier than repatriating a body.

It’s not allowed in Cape Verde, according to media reports.

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 10/07/2026 11:20

cinquanta · 10/07/2026 10:14

I’m surprised they got the money at all given that they would have had to pay for it themselves if he had died at home.

Edited

The point is that the company saved a huge amount by not having to pay for repatriation - body or ashes.

ICanBuyMyOwnFlowers · 10/07/2026 11:20

Campingintherain2024 · 10/07/2026 11:17

The average reading age of adults in the UK is between 9 and 11 years old. Have a look through a travel insurance policy and imagine a child in year 5 of primary school reading it.

Totally agree. Nightmare. But, as with all insurance, and because I'm also dyslexic, I normally insist on a phonecall and make sure that phone call is recorded and that I have access to a draft of it. It's a complete pain in the behind but it does make sure I've covered as much as I can.

Campingintherain2024 · 10/07/2026 11:17

The average reading age of adults in the UK is between 9 and 11 years old. Have a look through a travel insurance policy and imagine a child in year 5 of primary school reading it.

ICanBuyMyOwnFlowers · 10/07/2026 11:17

@AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle Are you saying that having a holiday abroad is a right or have I misread you somehow???

My mother is 84 and has a plethora of illnesses. She was desperate to go to Florida one last time. The MAIN cost was her insurance. That was paid first.

I live in a British seaside town. Remember them? The ones struggling to thrive because of families going abroad????? We have long golden beaches, cheap accommodation (as well as expensive), outdoor swimming pools, parks, country houses, gorgeous cafes and restaurants, strict disability rules and inclusions, business owners just desperate to give you and your family memories to last a lifetime and all backed by the NHS.

As a hard working family I don't question your 'right' to a holiday but I assure you it doesn't have to be abroad and this way you don't need the travel insurance either!

hahabahbag · 10/07/2026 11:15

@Danhausenrocks

we have annual cover through the bank and every few months we call them to add any new medical conditions and list any visits /calls/emails to the gp using our nhs apps as reference so nothing is missing. Our insurance company is good and so far hasn’t added surcharges and did remark a few weeks ago they wished all ongoing insurance customers would be as diligent as they hate refusing to pay but they need to know before your travel (or even book) the risk level of you the insured.

Gall10 · 10/07/2026 11:09

Overtheatlantic · 10/07/2026 09:04

She ran straight to the daily mail so maybe they gave her some money.

The death occurred over 2 years ago.

IonianNerveGrip · 10/07/2026 11:08

TheChaffinch · 10/07/2026 11:01

I remember a famous wealthy sportsman was in a car accident in Nigeria. They have fancy hospitals for the rich but no ambulance or paramedic service to get you there.

CV has a few basic clinics. If a tourist is ill they are airlifted to Tenerife. Though several have died in the last year alone.

Yeah I remember reading that. Would put me off.

Bonkers1966 · 10/07/2026 11:04

There are charities that will repatriate the remains for a small donation. One was started by a guy who lost a close family member overseas and found himself in dire straits.

itchyelbowsandswollenankles · 10/07/2026 11:04

IonianNerveGrip · 10/07/2026 10:56

I've never been to Cape Verde, but it sounds like the issue might be the isolation and small numbers as much as the poverty. There's a lot of societies where many of the people are desperately poor but services exist for those who can pay for them. A place where there just aren't certain things even if you could throw money at them is something completely different.

Mind you, I never go any further than the Med so there's that.

It’s an awful place. Beautiful beaches and the hotels are unbelievably luxurious but unless you never leave the resort you’re acutely aware of how exploitative the entire thing is.

TheChaffinch · 10/07/2026 11:01

IonianNerveGrip · 10/07/2026 10:56

I've never been to Cape Verde, but it sounds like the issue might be the isolation and small numbers as much as the poverty. There's a lot of societies where many of the people are desperately poor but services exist for those who can pay for them. A place where there just aren't certain things even if you could throw money at them is something completely different.

Mind you, I never go any further than the Med so there's that.

I remember a famous wealthy sportsman was in a car accident in Nigeria. They have fancy hospitals for the rich but no ambulance or paramedic service to get you there.

CV has a few basic clinics. If a tourist is ill they are airlifted to Tenerife. Though several have died in the last year alone.

TheChaffinch · 10/07/2026 10:58

Cape Verde is notorious for it's lack of medical facilities and tourist illness.
Shigella virus is common and can be deadly.
As to travel insurance, mine costs about £500 due to health conditions. I can't travel at all ATM , not because I'm too ill but because I have undiagnosed conditions which travel insurance wouldn't cover and I'm on an NHS waiting list 8 months long.

However good your insurance all the insurers use the same few claims handling companies who are notoriously difficult to deal with. Especially when you are abroad and dealing with a foreign health system in another language.

IonianNerveGrip · 10/07/2026 10:56

itchyelbowsandswollenankles · 10/07/2026 10:29

To be honest though is that not something you need to consider before travelling?

Especially when you choose to go to a place like Cape Verde, where the local population lives in unbelievable poverty and the entire islands are basically just the hotel industry? We went there about ten years ago and did a tour of the town. It was awful, there were kids who looked like something out of a UN advert and people begging for money off us in the streets. The tour guide bragged about how they’d be adding a cruise ship terminal soon and it would mean more tourists would come - for what?! It’s awful.

I've never been to Cape Verde, but it sounds like the issue might be the isolation and small numbers as much as the poverty. There's a lot of societies where many of the people are desperately poor but services exist for those who can pay for them. A place where there just aren't certain things even if you could throw money at them is something completely different.

Mind you, I never go any further than the Med so there's that.

itchyelbowsandswollenankles · 10/07/2026 10:54

whoevenknow · 10/07/2026 10:51

I normally agree when people post these threads about someone having no travel insurance whatsoever, the gofundme’s for people who’ve been in accidents who just had no insurance are infuriating. However, this does sound a bit different in that they did in fact have insurance, it just didn’t cover the right things. To me, that’s more of an innocent mistake. Loads of us take out insurance without checking the fine print of what is included as we assume it covers what we need. Not saying that’s the most sensible thing in the world but it’s more understandable and excusable than just doing nothing (to me anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️)

She didn’t even check if it covered it.

user67392097643 · 10/07/2026 10:53

Secretseverywhere · 10/07/2026 10:19

Apparently Cape Verde has a strict 24 hour local burial policy as they lack the infrastructure to store bodies. I can see how under a time limit and in shock / grief this would be a struggle. Insurance companies are excellent at telling you to claim upon return etc. If you don’t have 5k+ on hand or however much it costs then I’d say the sensible decision would be local burial.

I think 24hrs is common in hot places for obvious reasons…conversely we had North American/canadian borders neighbours for awhile, her mum died and I said oh you’ll be going home for the funeral, no - turns out the ground freezes so hard they can’t even dig a grave with a digger, so people who die over winter just have to be warehoused until spring!

LoupyLoo1 · 10/07/2026 10:52

Maybe they had insurance, but a cheaper version? In my student days I was audiotyping in a law office and it opened my eyes - insurance companies (be it medical, or travel) will do everything in their power not to pay - for example in those days (1990s) there were lots of adverts on TV - buy a 3.99 per month cover and you are medically protected. The amount of people who took it to mean literally 'fully covered'. So many people were duped. Insurance companies will always try to get out of paying, unless very expensive insurance is bought - I read an article where it says that some US insurance covers suicide (!!!!) but annual charges are $70K pa. Crazy world, insurance.

fascinatingRhythm · 10/07/2026 10:51

AWeeCupOfTeaAndAnIndividualFruitTrifle · 10/07/2026 09:43

If u can afford a holiday u can afford insurance.

What on earth makes you assume that? There are plenty of us who could otherwise afford a decent basic holiday abroad, but who have health conditions and disabilities which mean that insurance would slam the door on that opportunity shut to us for the rest of our lives.

We're firmly 'second-class' people in that respect. "Oh, isn't it lovely to have a wonderful, relaxing holiday and making memories with the family after working hard and looking forward to it all year.... oh, no not YOU!!"

I think this is a little unfair - you can of course go on holiday without insurance if you wish but then you cant really complain if something like this happens.

Thats the entire point of insurance isnt it? if the risk of something dreadful happening is too awful to comprehend then dont risk it.

There are plenty of lovely places to go in the UK- it's not like you can only have a good time outside of the UK or that the entire UK is some horrible dump of a place! You can still have a relaxing break away with your family here to make memories

whoevenknow · 10/07/2026 10:51

I normally agree when people post these threads about someone having no travel insurance whatsoever, the gofundme’s for people who’ve been in accidents who just had no insurance are infuriating. However, this does sound a bit different in that they did in fact have insurance, it just didn’t cover the right things. To me, that’s more of an innocent mistake. Loads of us take out insurance without checking the fine print of what is included as we assume it covers what we need. Not saying that’s the most sensible thing in the world but it’s more understandable and excusable than just doing nothing (to me anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️)

Mcdhotchoc · 10/07/2026 10:49

Most travel insurance will either pay for repatriation or for a modest funeral in situ ( the costs are pretty much equal).

Mariets · 10/07/2026 10:44

My travel insurance costs almost as much as my cruise holiday because I have so many medical problems, but I'm paying for peace of mind. Even if you need treatment for something like awful food poisoning you're not covered if you didn't tell them you had a history of something else totally unconnected. Valid travel insurance is a must and I hate all the posts on just giving asking for donation towards medical costs.

Sunnnyday · 10/07/2026 10:42

I actually worry about having visitors from abroad and something happening to them while they're staying with me. Because I think that people from other countries in Europe just assume that we have decent emergency healthcare here, like in their home countries. And we really don't. At some point something bad is going to happen to a tourist and the news will get out and affect the British tourist industry. It's a bit like the potholes and the run-down towns - people visit the UK and discover that they're no longer in a first world country.

fascinatingRhythm · 10/07/2026 10:42

getridofthedamnboxes · 10/07/2026 09:09

The wording is very vague. Most of these stories are about people who didn’t take out travel insurance. It doesn’t say that here. She ‘thought’ she didn’t have ‘adequate’ insurance and ‘thought’ it would be too expensive. So we have no idea if 1. She had insurance 2. She actually checked whether it was covered 3. She actually checked the cost of repatriation. It’s a very strange and unclear story.

I agree - I find this story very odd frankly. It sounds like she hasn't actually checked if her insurance would cover it or not so that detail is very strange- why hasn't she checked? I wouldnt bury someone in a country I didnt want to because I thought the insurance "might not" cover it- I would be checking first if it actually did or not. I am wondering if she actually didnt have any insurance at all.

Its incredibly sad of course and I feel for her, but I also think to go on holiday when you are mid 70s to a place where food poisoning is rife and to not double check your insurance is extremely fool hardy. It seems like there were already lots of concerns about health and safety there so I dont know why they stayed. I wouldnt have done if I had been as concerned as she was- the story makes it sounds utterly horrendous so I dont know why they didnt just fly home.

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