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AIBU to think about moving near the sea for cooler Summers?

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Pearandavocado · 09/07/2026 19:06

With the climate changing and this incredibly hot, unbearable weather becoming the new normal is it time to move to the sea? We live in SW England but very inland aged 60 and finding the heat so much harder to cope with than when we were younger. I'm just desperate to get in some cold water daily. Or am I just feeling overheated (and menopausal) and realistically it's actually grey and rainy most of the year. If you could would you move to the sea? or do you live by the sea and think it's not that great for most of the year?

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parachutegirl · 14/07/2026 07:40

SqueakyFromme · 09/07/2026 19:16

It's still utterly Hellish and I'm right on a harbour inlet which provides some breeze I suppose but you aren't being Unreasonable. Unless you live directly on a shoreline it won't be that much different

It does seem to make a difference though. When it’s been 32 degrees where we live in the midlands, it’s been 25/26 where my friends live in various places on the south coast (over the last couple of heatwaves)

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 14/07/2026 06:16

Sewerotter · 10/07/2026 09:58

As long as you have good scuba gear for when the sea levels rise, it’s all good.

How much do you think the sea will rise in OP's lifetime?

FoundAUserNameDownTheSofa · 14/07/2026 05:51

I live near the sea, south east. Past heatwaves I’ve been 5 degrees cooler than my colleagues (so 30 instead of 35 etc). It’s just the last heatwave (and maybe the current one) where that’s not been the case. I felt cheated!

But literally on the beach there’s a breeze, for a pleasant evening walk.

Milder winters too, rarely snows. It’s never grim in the winter. Windy but I don’t mind that. Though I think your OP said south west which is obviously wetter.

It's definitely better, I love living near the sea.

Bunniemalone · 10/07/2026 23:02

Save the moving costs & stamp duty, just get AC fitted.

TheyGrewUp · 10/07/2026 22:59

DancingLions · 10/07/2026 09:57

If you want to move anyway, then yes I’d certainly factor the weather into it. But having AC installed would cost a lot less than moving. While it wouldn’t change the temperature outside, if your coming from a cool house, going home to a cool house, it makes the outside time much more bearable.

This 100%

DogSnufflySnout · 10/07/2026 22:57

Someonenewagain · 09/07/2026 19:59

I live 9 miles from the coast in Wales. It rains about 5 months solid every winter. Cooler summers and always a breeze, but you’ll need to be ok with putting wellies on in October and not taking them off until March

This is very accurate! There have been entire weeks when it has not stopped raining… heavy leaden skies and roaring winds!

However it is lovely when the sun shines, and the bay where I am, has boats bobbing round, so it looks quite Mediterranean.

You can often have 4 seasons in one day, and it’s unusual to be able to “trust” the weather, if you’re planning anything outdoors. This year is rare!

Autumngirl5 · 10/07/2026 22:30

fuckeditupbadly · 10/07/2026 21:53

I didn't grow up here. It doesn't take long to acclimatise.

They couldn’t acclimatise but we all have different preferences. They might be regretting it now!

fuckeditupbadly · 10/07/2026 21:53

Autumngirl5 · 10/07/2026 08:11

That’s true but they couldn’t cope with the colder temperatures. Also different I guess if you have grown up in a place.

I didn't grow up here. It doesn't take long to acclimatise.

Stillreadingalot · 10/07/2026 21:49

I live not far from Lunan Bay.Also gorgeous beaches at St Cyrus, Arbroath, Carnoustie, Monifieth and Montrose. All on the train line to Edinburgh. Absolutely love it here but it's dark at 3pm in mid December.

Sewerotter · 10/07/2026 09:58

As long as you have good scuba gear for when the sea levels rise, it’s all good.

DancingLions · 10/07/2026 09:57

If you want to move anyway, then yes I’d certainly factor the weather into it. But having AC installed would cost a lot less than moving. While it wouldn’t change the temperature outside, if your coming from a cool house, going home to a cool house, it makes the outside time much more bearable.

RobinEllacotStrike · 10/07/2026 09:55

I live on South Kent coast.

the wind/breeze definitely keep things a few degrees cooler here.

80smonster · 10/07/2026 09:47

BiteSizedLife · 10/07/2026 07:27

I think @80smonster meant that they won't have to consider uprooting kids from current schools, choosing new schools, buying in catchment areas etc etc because they do not have school age children. Therefore the decision to move (anywhere) is easier without school age children.

Not that people on the coast don't fo to school.

Yep, that’s what I meant. Overall my reading is there is less choice of schools in many of the SE coastal locations we have been considering. Results for A level and GCSE are significantly lower than London schools, which is a concern for us. If we didn’t have kids one could definitely take a more simplistic view of locations. This is probably true for all moves.

Settlersa · 10/07/2026 08:39

Berwick upon Tweed is nice and decidedly chilly

Autumngirl5 · 10/07/2026 08:11

fuckeditupbadly · 10/07/2026 02:17

But its far easier to get warm of you're easily chilled than cool down if too hot. And it really isn't that cold. I have relatives in Canada who spend most of the year in sub zero temps. Decent layers and insulation and its absolutely fine.

That’s true but they couldn’t cope with the colder temperatures. Also different I guess if you have grown up in a place.

Settlersa · 10/07/2026 08:04

Probably would be a better plan to move up North, proper North though, not Andy Burnham North

Sharptonguedwoman · 10/07/2026 08:01

campocaro · 09/07/2026 19:11

North east coast wonderfully cool 19/20C . But you’ll have to hunker down in the winter…

And the summer. My family comes from the NE coast. Beautiful beaches but the wind off the North Sea.....

Notagain26 · 10/07/2026 07:58

I live by the sea and I don’t think it’s less hot. However I just googled and it is slightly less hot than the nearby city.

The beach is pebbly and I have never been in the sea, not even for a paddle. I’m not sure how clean it is but it is not inviting and you rarely see anyone in it. Also the city is the second rainiest in the UK after Glasgow.

I think you could find somewhere further up north/Scotland with a lovely beach which would be cooler.

WeddingInvitation · 10/07/2026 07:36

BiteSizedLife · 10/07/2026 07:32

Ssssttoppp! Sounds idyllic. I really want to move North when I am older. Like - pack up the car and f*ck off to Cumbria.

Unfortunately, my work and all the opportunities are in London and I must be near.

The biggest equalizer for the north/south divide is wfh and remote working but weirdly governments don't wanna hear it.... 🤔

Where I am it’s fortunate there are lots of good interesting work opportunities, excellent wfh, and very short commutes. I’d hate to be back in the SE commuting in this. I can walk to work along the beach.

AnnaQuayRules · 10/07/2026 07:36

We live in East Anglia, about 15 minutes from the beach. We definitely benefit from cooler breezes. I spent the day at the beach yesterday with my 84 year old mother and we were very comfortable.

ETA we moved here from inland and there's definitely a difference. It's a few degrees cooler here.

BiteSizedLife · 10/07/2026 07:32

WeddingInvitation · 10/07/2026 07:15

North west, go to the beach most evenings in weather like this, dog walking. I’ll go for a dip from about now onwards as it’s warm enough for me now. We got a high of probably 23 yesterday, in the last heatwave it probably hit 26. It’s mostly 21 with a breeze. The winters are mild but wet, and dark….

Ssssttoppp! Sounds idyllic. I really want to move North when I am older. Like - pack up the car and f*ck off to Cumbria.

Unfortunately, my work and all the opportunities are in London and I must be near.

The biggest equalizer for the north/south divide is wfh and remote working but weirdly governments don't wanna hear it.... 🤔

Boomer55 · 10/07/2026 07:29

My partner lives in Hampshire - right by a coast. It’s been as hot there as it’s been for me inland in Kent.

BiteSizedLife · 10/07/2026 07:27

Ablondiebutagoody · 09/07/2026 19:46

Seaside folk go to school too

I think @80smonster meant that they won't have to consider uprooting kids from current schools, choosing new schools, buying in catchment areas etc etc because they do not have school age children. Therefore the decision to move (anywhere) is easier without school age children.

Not that people on the coast don't fo to school.

Sartre · 10/07/2026 07:16

I would at your age but I’d also go north if you want a cooler climate generally. I wouldn’t move to the coast if working age with children, there aren’t many opportunities in coastal regions.

WeddingInvitation · 10/07/2026 07:15

North west, go to the beach most evenings in weather like this, dog walking. I’ll go for a dip from about now onwards as it’s warm enough for me now. We got a high of probably 23 yesterday, in the last heatwave it probably hit 26. It’s mostly 21 with a breeze. The winters are mild but wet, and dark….