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To boycott Turkey and Egypt after homophobic action against cruise ship?

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Holdonforsummer · 09/07/2026 16:48

Now Egypt has turned away a cruise ship full of LGBT passengers, following in the footsteps of Turkey who had already barred them from docking. Egyptian authorities haven’t stated an official reason but Turkey clearly stated it was because the passengers on the ship didn’t confirm to their society’s ‘moral’ standards. I find this disgusting and outrageous that any country thinks they can start to pick and choose which categories of tourists they will and won’t accept. I for one will now boycott Turkey and Egypt and will not book holidays there in the future. I refuse to support homophobic regimes and feel that the only thing that might change their mind is if many other UK citizens do the same.

www.theguardian.com/world/2026/jul/09/lgbtq-cruise-ship-refused-entry-egypt-turkey?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other

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Jane379 · 09/07/2026 22:45

JustAPearl · 09/07/2026 19:00

Lady, you are based 👌🏻

Ofc they're entitled to ban, it doesn't make it right. They should be criticised.

Was apartheid, or Saudi Arabia banning women from voting, to name 2, also 'their country, their rules'?

CagedBirdInACage · 09/07/2026 22:45

ThatCyanCat · 09/07/2026 22:37

I know. And there are a lot of legitimate criticisms to be made of it, which is why it's so weird how rarely they make those ones. And how they seem to single it out in a way they don't do with any other country. Like here, when of all the countries in that part of the world and their stance on LGBT etc, they go for Israel even though it actually is the leader in that regard and has a thriving gay scene. But it's the one they complain about.

I just can't think why.

It was Gaza that was brought into the conversation first wasn't it? Do you know why that was too? I thought it was odd considering there is hardly cruises to Gaza, gay or otherwise.

Jane379 · 09/07/2026 22:45

Ilovelifeverymuch · 09/07/2026 18:51

Why the hell would a cruise line organize an LGBTQ+ cruise to Turkey and Egypt??? Isn't it obvious that those countries don't agree with the LGBTQ+ lifestyle or movement?

What next? Organize a cruise to Burkina Faso a country that recently criminalized same sex relation or a Christian Pentecostal crusie to Saudi Arabia???
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c2060er4062o

Re boycotting the, I don't think they care but you're free to boycott if you need to. I don't have any interest in visiting Egypt and that's not because of this action so nothing changes for me.

Edited

Being gay isn't a 'lifestyle' anymore than being straight is, but I agree with your overall point.

nomas · 09/07/2026 22:44

ThatCyanCat · 09/07/2026 22:40

I'm sorry that Israel is the leader in the region on this point, with a much better stance on LGBT rights and therefore you can't exploit this issue to demonise it as the most evil state that ever evilled, and I know how much you want to, which is why you're now so pissed off.

Tell that to the person bringing in Palestine. No one mentioned Palestine until they did, so why accuse people?

Jane379 · 09/07/2026 22:43

OneLimePombear · 09/07/2026 18:33

Interesting the OP thinks this is a reason to boycott Egypt and not their incredibly high rate of FGM.

Maybe she thinks both ! I certainly do...

OakleyAnnie · 09/07/2026 22:43

CagedBirdInACage · 09/07/2026 22:35

Why are you sorry, are you preventing gay people from marrying in Israel? Israel don't allow gay people to marry, the same way Egypt and Turkey don't. You don't need to be sorry for that unless you are responsible of course.

It’s not the same at all. You should read some of the more knowledgeable comments. But hey, don’t let the facts get in the way of your prejudice

Thelonelyshrew · 09/07/2026 22:43

I’m sure they’ll miss you!

MrsTerryPratchett · 09/07/2026 22:42

Jane379 · 09/07/2026 22:39

Ofc they're entitled to ban, it doesn't make it right. They should be criticised.

Was apartheid, or Saudi Arabia banning women from voting, to name 2, also 'their country, their rules'?

The quesrion isn't about the rights of citizens like apartheid or Saudi. It's about holidaymakers. Totally different conversation.

Jane379 · 09/07/2026 22:42

CoralOP · 09/07/2026 18:19

A huge percentage of the world don't accept LGBT, stop thinking the world should bow down to how the UK live, they have their rules for their country.

Ofc they're entitled to ban, it doesn't make it right. They should be criticised.

Was apartheid, or Saudi Arabia banning women from voting, to name 2, also 'their country, their rules'?

nomas · 09/07/2026 22:41

likelysuspect · 09/07/2026 18:15

Most ME regimes do not support homosexuality.

I always wonder about the juxtaposition of views like OPs against the majority support in the UK for the Palestinian 'state'.

No thread is complete without shoe horning in hate for Palestinians it seems.

Nothing justifies killing innocent people, ok?

HarlanCobenDogshit · 09/07/2026 22:41

Both countries with terrible attitudes to women, lgb etc.

Go for it. I wont go to either.

OakleyAnnie · 09/07/2026 22:41

CagedBirdInACage · 09/07/2026 22:30

They don't let gay people get married in Israel, the same as Egypt and Turkey so I'm not sure how much respect they have for gay people either tbh.

That’s for a religious reason but same sex couples have the same rights as heterosexual couples including all legal and civil rights and can adopt children. There’s a lot of respect for lgbt in Israel unlike other ME countries.

Jane379 · 09/07/2026 22:40

Kalanthe · 09/07/2026 20:21

Egypt is an authoritarian regime ruled by a dictator. Human rights are broken there every day. Gay cruise ship being turned away is the least of the issues with this country. Never in the world would I got there

This too.

I often think people going on Nile cruises there are reckless due to the continuing instability, although they're heavily guarded. And arguably they help give Sisi legitimacy.

ThatCyanCat · 09/07/2026 22:40

CagedBirdInACage · 09/07/2026 22:35

Why are you sorry, are you preventing gay people from marrying in Israel? Israel don't allow gay people to marry, the same way Egypt and Turkey don't. You don't need to be sorry for that unless you are responsible of course.

I'm sorry that Israel is the leader in the region on this point, with a much better stance on LGBT rights and therefore you can't exploit this issue to demonise it as the most evil state that ever evilled, and I know how much you want to, which is why you're now so pissed off.

Jane379 · 09/07/2026 22:39

IronEverything · 09/07/2026 20:12

Your attitude is very colonial.

Ofc they're entitled to ban, it doesn't make it right. They should be criticised.

Was apartheid, or Saudi Arabia banning women from voting, to name 2, also 'their country, their rules'?

ThatCyanCat · 09/07/2026 22:37

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 09/07/2026 22:33

Some people on here hate Israel

I know. And there are a lot of legitimate criticisms to be made of it, which is why it's so weird how rarely they make those ones. And how they seem to single it out in a way they don't do with any other country. Like here, when of all the countries in that part of the world and their stance on LGBT etc, they go for Israel even though it actually is the leader in that regard and has a thriving gay scene. But it's the one they complain about.

I just can't think why.

MrsTerryPratchett · 09/07/2026 22:37

OakleyAnnie · 09/07/2026 22:28

Astonishing. Yesterday I read a thread about an 8 year old girl who called a 13 year old boy a gay boy. There was such outrage here about this 8 year old ‘homophobe’ who has been called a bitch. Many pp agreed and said she was disgusting. Today dozens of you are defending ME countries for their laws against LGBT rights. I’m reading ‘their country, their rules’. Do you folks really not have the guts to condemn these countries? Why is that? Reminds me of how the grooming gangs got away with it for so long because no one wanted to be called racist.

It's nuanced. Hyperbole about grooming gangs is unhelpful.

And I disagreed that misogyny is the correct response to homophobia as well.

OP can boycott. People can be angry and upset. It won't change a single thing. Campaigning to give asylum to (for example) gay men from Uganda actually means something.

Jane379 · 09/07/2026 22:36

OakleyAnnie · 09/07/2026 22:28

Astonishing. Yesterday I read a thread about an 8 year old girl who called a 13 year old boy a gay boy. There was such outrage here about this 8 year old ‘homophobe’ who has been called a bitch. Many pp agreed and said she was disgusting. Today dozens of you are defending ME countries for their laws against LGBT rights. I’m reading ‘their country, their rules’. Do you folks really not have the guts to condemn these countries? Why is that? Reminds me of how the grooming gangs got away with it for so long because no one wanted to be called racist.

Exactly!

Re the girl, why was she calling him gay? In an insulting way? If an 8yo is homophobic it's not their fault but probably their environment, calling them a bitch is awful.

Jane379 · 09/07/2026 22:36

ThatCyanCat · 09/07/2026 22:33

They don't conduct gay marriages but if a couple marries elsewhere, the state recognises and respects it, and that really is better than any of its neighbours. Sorry.

It's also a factor that marriage HAS to be religious in Israel due to carryover from Ottoman era laws. Thus the phenomenon of 'Cyprus weddings' by Israelis who want a secular wedding.

Soontobe60 · 09/07/2026 22:35

CagedBirdInACage · 09/07/2026 22:30

They don't let gay people get married in Israel, the same as Egypt and Turkey so I'm not sure how much respect they have for gay people either tbh.

From Wikipedia
Marriage in Israel is regulated by the religious courts of recognized confessional communities, none of which perform interfaith or same-sex marriages. Domestic civil marriage is not recognized in Israel; however, civil marriages performed in foreign jurisdictions, including same-sex marriages, are recognized with full marital rights under Israeli law.[1][2]
Marriages performed in Israel are only legally recognized when registered with one of the 15 religious marital courts recognized by the state, none of which permit same-sex marriage. In November 2006, the High Court of Justice ruled that same-sex marriages performed abroad may be registered in Israel.[3]Consequently, Israeli same-sex couples who wished to have their marriages recognized by the government had to marry outside Israel, in a jurisdiction where such marriages were legal, and then register upon returning home. In July 2022, the Central District Court ruled that marriages performed via an online civil marriage service established by the U.S. state of Utah, including same-sex marriages, are legal in Israel, removing the necessity of leaving the country to get married.[4][5] The ruling was upheld by the Supreme Court in 2023.[6]

Marriage in Israel - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_in_Israel

CagedBirdInACage · 09/07/2026 22:35

ThatCyanCat · 09/07/2026 22:33

They don't conduct gay marriages but if a couple marries elsewhere, the state recognises and respects it, and that really is better than any of its neighbours. Sorry.

Why are you sorry, are you preventing gay people from marrying in Israel? Israel don't allow gay people to marry, the same way Egypt and Turkey don't. You don't need to be sorry for that unless you are responsible of course.

Jane379 · 09/07/2026 22:34

nunamenuyear · 09/07/2026 17:41

Their country. Their rules.

Ofc they're entitled to ban, it doesn't make it right. They should be criticised.

Was apartheid, or Saudi Arabia banning women from voting, to name 2, also 'their country, their rules'?

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 09/07/2026 22:33

ThatCyanCat · 09/07/2026 22:33

They don't conduct gay marriages but if a couple marries elsewhere, the state recognises and respects it, and that really is better than any of its neighbours. Sorry.

Some people on here hate Israel

ThatCyanCat · 09/07/2026 22:33

CagedBirdInACage · 09/07/2026 22:30

They don't let gay people get married in Israel, the same as Egypt and Turkey so I'm not sure how much respect they have for gay people either tbh.

They don't conduct gay marriages but if a couple marries elsewhere, the state recognises and respects it, and that really is better than any of its neighbours. Sorry.

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 09/07/2026 22:31

I meant to say Middle East countries, not gay countries.

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