To ask about totally inappropriate behaviour at wedding?

Says you 😆

the person who starts a thread about thinking their “good friend” and been “totally inappropriate” and hates fact that most of us tell you that you’re being daft and judgey. And desperately try to change our minds so we bitch about your “good friend”!!

Sounds like Eastenders episode!

You’re the type of person to start a thread on AIBU about your “totally inappropriate” “good friend” desperately trying (in vain) to get posters to basically bad mouth her.

He will soon enough see through you.

How old are you?

Dunno about other MNers, but my DH gives me a pearl necklace every time I give him a BJ.

I loves that I do...

🤣🤣🤣🤣

I haven’t shagged in a haha for years. I think that was the last time I heard the word used.

@Moveoverdarlin "Whether he’s a strange guy or a guy you’ve been seeing two months, unless you force him to take an STI test before embarking on a sexual relationship it makes no difference."

What's all this "forcing" about ?

I would hope that any guy I was considering a sexual relationship with would want to practice safe sex, otherwise he wouldn't be the guy for me.

Whether he’s a strange guy or a guy you’ve been seeing two months, unless you force him to take an STI test before embarking on a sexual relationship it makes no difference.

Chief bridesmaid could suck off lead singer behind the toilets and be fine for all those diseases. But the right honourable OP could give the bass player a blowie in three months time and be just as likely to catch something.

I was replying to the poster that asked why a woman would perform oral sex on a man if she got nothing in return. I answered honestly and said because it’s nice, many women enjoy it, as this thread has proved. Obviously if you catch a disease it’s unfortunate, but only engaging in sex acts with people you have known for a long time doesn’t prevent that.

Oh god……at my wedding a friend who I’d not seen in years was invited with her husband whom I’d never met. Great wedding then at the beginning of the evening do when others were turning up she was absolutely hammered……they both were. About 7.30pm she was giving him a lap dance then got onto the dance floor with him……no one else really up dancing just yet and was really dirty dancing with him…….really dirty dancing……simulating blow jobs etc. My new husband’s elderly great aunt asked if I’d paid them to get people up dancing 🤣🤣. Anyway…….she puked under a table, blew her nose on the table cloth and got a taxi out of there at about 9pm crying her eyes out 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Moveoverdarlin "It’s a turn-on. It’s fun. It’s naughty. Women like that thrill just as much as men."

Would women be as thrilled to contract a STI because of performing oral sex on a strange guy? OP has already said this band member has form for this, so this behaviour is just risky and plain stupid.
It can transmit herpes, HPV, gonorrhea, syphilis, and chlamydia and there's nothing 'fun' about any of that.

One wedding I went to had a no kids rule...except for one very precocious 10 year old who thought she was "grown up". Anyway, said child kept trying to join in with the adults who were getting drunker and a bit rowdier and ended up getting jostled and bit her tongue. Her answer to this was to storm out of the venue and walk the streets, which then meant everyone not me had to go and search for her.

Im not a bot if you were talking about me. I was so confused by a poster saying the 2 were married and cheating that after reading the op 3 times and couldn't see where they had got that information I asked ai if it was there and I was just not seeing it.

It turned out the poster wasnt talking about the op, but another post that I had replied to. It would have been helpful for them to explain what they meant, but they preferred to be 'clever' and wouldn't answer for a few questions.

So not a bot. And not slop either.

HTH

Totally agree mate, some people are insufferable

Things sure have changed here on Mumsnet Mountain

Yes it is a bit inappropriate to be sucking off someone/be sucked off by someone at a wedding, especially if kids might be running around, but they very likely didn't think they would be seen. I definitely don't think she is in anyway a slag though, just makes bad location choices when drunk. Literally just the location that is a bit of an issue.

I can't judge anyone because I had sex with my ex in the woods at his father's wedding. We walked back in during the speeches. Very disrespectful.

It’s a turn-on. It’s fun. It’s naughty. Women like that thrill just as much as men. Well some do. A lot of the Emily Bishop types on here seem to only have sex in their M&S nighties in the confines of their 1940s bedrooms.

Isn't this a scene from a comedy film?

Is she single? Then it is none of your fucking business. She can nosh off whoever she likes.

You sound ridiculously dramatic, prudish and judgemental.

Agree.

He probably took you to find his pal in the hopes you would do the same thing.

Its the middle of wedding season so Id say he is having fun and keeping you on a thread.

I also reckon he is riddled.

I don’t think this is going to happen unfortunately!

You started a thread
in AiBU of all places
asking mumsnet whether we agreed your “good friend” had been “totally inappropriate”

and then you have proceeded to argue with the many posters not wholeheartedly agreeing with you