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To ask about totally inappropriate behaviour at wedding?

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Notallthatx · 06/07/2026 12:50

Was at a seemingly lovely wedding at the weekend. Beautiful setting and lovely ceremony.

One of my friends was chief bridesmaid and she had put so much effort into making the day perfect for the happy couple. But she started to drink a lot after the ceremony and by the end of dinner she was very tipsy and all over the singer from the wedding band. They had been playing some acoustic songs throughout the day and she kept making requests. It was obvious she fancied him.

Later on, one of the other guys from the band was lovely and asked if I had seen their singer because they were setting up for their evening set. I mentioned that my friend was also missing so went to look for them together. We joked that maybe they had eloped or something.

But nothing prepared me for what I was about to witness. Behind the outdoor toilets, my friend was down on her knees giving the singer from the band oral. I was mortified and the other guy from the band told me his friend had done this a few times. We are not even sure if they seen us and I’ve been too embarrassed to bring it up with my friend.

On the up side, the other guy from the band was really sweet and we danced a bit later that night and swapped numbers.

What is the craziest thing you’ve ever witnessed at a wedding?

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Sortingmyself · 06/07/2026 12:58

ex-friend was seen/heard shagging in the loos on our wedding day. It was with her DH tbf but even so...🙄

Lordofmyflies · 06/07/2026 12:55

Gross! One of our guests at our wedding disappeared with another guest. They met after being seated on the same table for the wedding breakfast and it was noticeable that they were tipsy and into each other. They were missing for about 2 hours and reappeared at 1am both in their sexy nightwear!

fannysyraunt · 06/07/2026 12:53

Cool story. I love that for you.