I’ve been taking extra care with what I eat the last week, it’s been tough, I’ve kept DH updated and he knows how difficult it has been, but I’ve done great and I’m really chuffed for sticking to ‘being good’. Hopped on the scales, I didn’t get the result I expected, a loss, but a very small loss.
His immediate reaction was to laugh in a smug way, I called out his reaction and he immediately said he didn’t mean it like that, he was having a joke but it genuinely felt like he was scoffing, like Ha! You tried so hard and couldn’t reach your goal! Ha at you! (He didn’t say this but he might as well have)
We’re not in a good place at the moment anyway (in the trenches with 2 v young kids currently) and had a talk last week where I did actually say I feel he tells me he loves me but secretly hates me and doesn’t want to see me ‘win’ in the same way I do for him.
I don’t know if I’m being overly sensitive…I am hungry after all!
Am I being unreasonable here? Anyone been through similar?