To be annoyed at disruption in a theatre show?

People who make noise somewhere where, traditionally, one would expect quiet.

This also applies to people who can't stfu and keep asking what's happening.

People who loudly critique the acting.

People who eat crisps and sweets in crinkly wrappers.

Sometimes, yes.

You're not wrong OP. Inclusivity is great where possible but it isn't in every situation. In a theatre, for most shows, you need to be quiet. If you can't then I don't think its the place for you. Unfortunately there will always be activities that aren't fully inclusive, that is okay.

Oh I can read, I just wanted you to clarify that you consider the behaviour of disabled people to be 'acting up'.

The behaviour is acting up, again (as I already said) that is not just for disabled people but others who may behave in an unacceptable manner. Can you read or are you deliberately being obtuse?

Really sorry that happened to you, it’s so frustrating when people work hard and it is ruined by others. That persons carers should be ashamed of themselves.

Being disabled = 'acting up'?

I perform in Am-drams, 2 shows a year. Last year we did a show in a raked theatre: for those that don’t know, this is a type of theatre where the seats start at stage level and graduate upwards. We use white spike tape to denote “stage” from audience leg space and they do not mix.
A disabled person, presumably with some sort of learning disorder was seated stage right, directly where there is a large pre-set throne and small table. This person had decided to use the table and dragged it across to his seat, and put drinks and snacks on it.
This was frustrating and 3 times we had false starts, with our stage crew having to remove the stuff off the table and drag it back.
Towards the end of the show, my job was to carry a fully loaded tray, turn sharply on one heel and then stand behind the throne, putting the tray on the table. Once again the table was missing, he had stuffed it NEXT to him, so it was actually up the raked steps.
Not only that, he had spilt sweets over the corner of the floor so when I went to turn, I wobbled on my heels and ended up throwing half the tray over the floor. Luckily, someone playing a “servant” saw what had happened and appeared with a broom and refilled my water glass, before the “king” actress came on stage.
He had been loud and screamed during the performance several times, laughed when something really horrific happened to our lead character and was generally disruptive, but just lack of etiquette from both him and the person he was sat with was beyond deplorable. I wouldn’t have minded if it were an autism friendly show, or if it had been “expected” that we had learning disability that close, but I only got informed about the table moving after the show, and therefore I had no idea that he had become obsessed with one of our set pieces.
incredibly frustrating on the actors behalf.

Everyone is welcome but if they start to act up and disrupt others then they need to leave. Whether that be disabled people, babies, young children, drunk adults or just downright rude people. It’s really that simple.

If it's so obvious could you name them please.

Which disabled people aren't allowed to be somewhere they will disturb others?

But the person having a fit would be disrupting the show for everyone too.

Just trying to get which disabled people are allowed out to places and which aren't.

Read the thread. It’s obvious.

If this person isn't able to control their voice or movements, then the theatre isn't the right place for them. Absolutely not the person's fault, because they can't help how they are, but it is the fault of the people with that person, regardless if family or carers.

One person can't trump the enjoyment of the 100's of others also attending the performance and paid money.

Blimey. How incredibly disruptive. Talk about obtuse! Heres a great example of why theatres need to make it clear who the show is appropriate for. The theatre is for people who can sit quietly. DuH!

Money back may help you to travel back to see it?

I agree with this point

A refund is little comfort if this is a once in a lifetime thing for you to see this event, you travelled specifically for it and it was ruined. Yeah, you get your money back (or the person who bought the gift does) but your long awaited for experience was ruined. Thats a huge disappointment.

I have stated my case, I was just curious as to how far the segregation should go.

What are the acceptable and unacceptable disabilities?

YANBU. Anyone who is likely to involuntarily make a lot of noise during a show shouldn't be at a non-relaxed performance. I'd try to get a refund and spend it on a treat - meal at a posh restaurant etc.

But where does it end the opposite way too? How much noise in this example would be acceptable before the person should be removed?

My neighbour and friend has a severely disabled autistic son who is 22.
She is an excellent parent.
Difference is between her and you, she knows what is appropriate for all concerned and what is and isn’t acceptable for all concerned, not just her son.
Perhaps it’s not everyone else who is awful, as you have stated on here.
It would help if you checked your attitude.

then it is on all of us to request more of these performances, surely? Potentially, if audience members request refunds, theatres will be keener than ever to offer relaxed performances.
Having said that, I love a weekday matinee and at my local theatre it is hard to find one of those that is'nt a production with adaptations for people with "learning disabilities or autism( heightened house lights, lower sound volumes, and dedicated chill-out/quiet spaces) and chilled performances for those with dementia or neurodiverse needs, as well as babes in arms"
or BSL interpreted. So far each of these I have attended have still been most enjoyable.
Are you sure you didn't inadvertently book an adapted production?