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Neighbour cultivating fox den

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Sunnyday14558 · 05/07/2026 09:25

Our neighbour has actively been getting foxes to nest in her garden. We live on the outskirts of a city so I’m not entirely sure why she’s luring them into a semi detached property from woodland half a mile away. Anyhow, we now have a family living in her garden and the noise at night is keeping us awake. We have two children under 4 and have found a dead rat in their play area and fox poo all over the lawn. The patio also stinks from fox wee so we can’t open our windows downstairs. I literally have no idea what to do as we’ve tried fox deterrents before and nothing seems to work. I want to confront her about it but I’m pretty sure she’ll accuse me of being mean to the foxes. A someone please give me some thoughts on how to approach this? Is encouraging foxes to live in an urban garden really kind for them? I ask because it sounds like they’re ripping each other apart at night with the fighting.

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crikeymikey123 · 06/07/2026 18:42

Totally agree about cats, murdering bastards.
My neighbour also feeds the foxes and I like it because i'm nature deprived (London)

BeverleyBrooks · 06/07/2026 18:42

All of the people on here saying foxes are awful because they kill other animals - rabbits, chickens, mice etc - well for one they are a predator species, that’s what they do and it’s the way that nature keeps a balance, and it’s why mice and rats reproduce so prolifically. Foxes eat a lot of mice and rats thereby keeping those populations under control (well they would if humans weren’t so crap at disposing of their own filth, and didn’t leave food and rubbish on the streets).

But secondly what about cats? They also kill other animals, often birds and frogs. They crap in the flower beds. Their poo carries toxoplasmosis. I have had much more trouble in my garden from cats than I ever have from the foxes that wander in. My kids saw a neighbour’s cat pouncing on the poor fledgling blue tits we’d had nesting in the garden.

So why are posters on here calling foxes ‘vermin’, advocating putting poison in food, but not saying the same about cats?

Booboobagins · 06/07/2026 18:40

QueenofFox · 05/07/2026 11:17

My neighbour does this as well- even has dog bowls for them. It’s absolute batshit. They are vermin. Following for solutions

They are not vermin, we are. They live in territories, have natural population control, we willy nilly take up land wherever we can for him use. We don't give a rats arse about who is affected.

I love your neighbour for her thoughtfulness, @Sunnyday14558 but her actions are misplaced. She needs to work with the wildlife trust so it's properly managed and not impacyful on the foxes or any other animal including humans.

Ref the smell buy some fabulous artifical grass cleaner and use that to disinfect it all.

SadiraOfTyr · 06/07/2026 18:30

LilacHam · 05/07/2026 14:14

If you include roads and car parks as well as housing, less than 10% of the UK is built on.

I can only think that people that think mankind has built on/destroyed every piece of land don't leave their street very often.

Oh come off it. We have no natural landscape left in the UK. Virtually everything you look at is man made, even our national parks are almost entirely manmade landscapes. Hardly any ancient woodland left, heathland down to the last few percent. Wetlands almost all gone.

Just going by the amount of land that has a building or road on it and pretending that everything else is suitable habitat for wildlife is grossly disingenuous. We are one of the most wildlife depleted countries in the world.

TheChickenRun · 06/07/2026 18:24

When I got hens all advice about deterring foxes was deploying male wee around the boundary.

I obviously couldn’t do it and men were surprisingly reticent so relied on my brother’s occasional visits.

if only foxes knew to be scared of women!!

gardenflowergirl · 06/07/2026 18:20

Just get one of the gadgets from the garden centre that emits a high pitch sound that they don't like, they'll soon find a new home.

anditmakesmesmile · 06/07/2026 17:56

Urban fox hunting. On Lambrettas.
That's what we need!

TeaWithASplashOfMilkPlease · 05/07/2026 21:42

Pearlstillsinging · 05/07/2026 20:17

Goodness knows how anyone can think they have foxes in their garden with no smell. Foxes scent mark everywhere and it stinks. We have foxes around, which is fine, they might get rid of some of the rabbits, but we can certainly smell them. And they don't often venture into the garden, because of the dogs.

We had a vixen raise a family of seven cubs under our shed, so they were around from February to late July, and you couldn’t smell anything in the garden at all.

When we took down the old shed two years later, the den was exposed, and that had no smell either.

StarDolphins · 05/07/2026 20:23

sesquipedalian · 05/07/2026 10:21

Foxes are a menace. Don’t forget they have been known to attack babies - there are several reports if you google. https://news.sky.com/story/fox-could-have-ripped-baby-to-pieces-in-attack-at-familys-home-11250657

Someone writing in the Guardian who had trouble with foxes wrote that in terms of a deterrent, “Most effective of all, however, has been the most hi-tech solution – a passive infrared device connected to a garden hose which senses motion, triggering a quick and noisy arc of water towards the intruder.”

What a load of neurotic nonsense🤣

Frequency · 05/07/2026 20:18

Sunnyday14558 · 05/07/2026 20:08

They do but unfortunately the ones we have found are half chewed and left in our kids play area 😔

I appreciate this isn't pleasant, but if the rats were not dead in the kids' play area, they'd be running around it alive, during the night, urinating and potentially leaving behind leptospirosis. Whatever is killing these rats is doing you a favour.

Also, half-chewed rats are more in the wheelhouse of cats than foxes. Foxes eat or bury their kills. Cats don't. Are you sure it's not a neighbourhood cat doing this?

Pearlstillsinging · 05/07/2026 20:17

Goodness knows how anyone can think they have foxes in their garden with no smell. Foxes scent mark everywhere and it stinks. We have foxes around, which is fine, they might get rid of some of the rabbits, but we can certainly smell them. And they don't often venture into the garden, because of the dogs.

Frazzled89 · 05/07/2026 20:13

fetchacloth · 05/07/2026 15:24

YANBU
Foxes are vermin and carry diseases. They also attack people's pets.

Foxes aren't classed as vermin actually, and the they have a low risk of transmitting disease to humans.

Sunnyday14558 · 05/07/2026 20:08

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/07/2026 15:06

I was just about to say that. And mice too. But as I’ve seen and the cat has caught rats in my garden this year the foxes aren’t catching them all.

They do but unfortunately the ones we have found are half chewed and left in our kids play area 😔

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MeetMeOnTheCorner · 05/07/2026 19:22

@Crwysmam Badgers will decimate a lawn looking for bugs. Worse than just about anything else. Deer are destroying the beach woods here and they are far too numerous. 2 types and they just breed like rabbits. We have an issue with too many red kites - other birds hate them near their nests.

Foxes have colonized cities. They should not be there in such numbers. They really should not be encouraged and, like cats, you will never keep them out. Some London foxes are huge. There’s still plenty of room in the countryside for a healthy population of foxes.

Happyjoe · 05/07/2026 19:17

Sorry, those saying foxes do not attack pets, they do. My own cat was cornered by two foxes, late night security guard chased them away, thankfully. And I've seen a fox twice on my evening walks try and get a cat off a fence.

Wildlife, I've seen them chase squirrels for dinner but the squirrel got away. I've also seen one try to get inot the hedgehog box we had in the garden where a little hedgehog ran to. I ended up having to stay up about 3hrs, chasing the persistent fox with a hose, before it finally gave up on the hope of an easy meal.

Anyone who thinks foxes do not attack are daft imo. They need to eat.

Loubissou · 05/07/2026 19:16

We have foxes living in our garden. They come and go as they please without me encouraging them. It is lovely when they bring their cubs out. And I have seen them eating rats too.

What is the neighbour doing to actively encourage them?

WerewolfOfLoudon · 05/07/2026 19:14

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WerewolfOfLoudon · 05/07/2026 19:12

fetchacloth · 05/07/2026 15:24

YANBU
Foxes are vermin and carry diseases. They also attack people's pets.

No they don't. Stop spreading lies.

WerewolfOfLoudon · 05/07/2026 19:06

rageconsumesme · 05/07/2026 10:58

Her front garden has no boundaries, kind of open plan and fronts onto an open grass area/footpath where dogs are walked.

It's your responsibility to keep your dog under control. Why was it able to leave YOUR garden?

CatherinedeBourgh · 05/07/2026 19:06

No self respecting fox will enter the garden of a big dog

Then the foxes that are noisily shagging in our garden and making our 60kg dog go crazy must not be very self respecting!

I still love them though.

TheEntitlement · 05/07/2026 19:01

We have had foxes living nearby for decades, very rarely any bother at all.

Then a neighbour decided to start feeding them and it's become absolute hell the past couple of years.

They feed them raw chicken from their door, morning and evening which the foxes then take to neighbouring gardens to consume, discarding anything they don't want and burying the surplus. They hang around for hours, waiting to be fed and defecate, urinate and vomit everywhere, they frequently pull the bins out and bring rubbish into our gardens on a daily basis.

What concerns me most of all is that the vixen no longer has any fear of human beings and will enter our properties if we leave the door open. Two weeks ago, I was putting washing out and I saw the vixen coming out of my backdoor with my cats bowl of biscuits. Unfortunately my cat must have tried to defend himself because he had a puncture wound to his shoulder and I've ended up with a vets bill for over £200.

There is no speaking to this individual as they have convinced themselves that the foxes will die without them feeding them and won't hear any different.

The reality is, that it is they themselves, that are the biggest threat to these wild animals because they have broken down the animals natural defense, caution around humans and made them visible during daylight hours rather than after dusk.

I'm all for helping nature, put out a bowl of water and maybe offer some dog biscuits when it's very cold but to feed twice daily, despite knowing the distress it is causing your neighbours is another level of selfish.

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Jane143 · 05/07/2026 18:09

Monty36 · 05/07/2026 10:54

We get foxes. Doesn’t bother us in the slightest. Yes there is some poo. But no smells. And I don’t live in fear of anyone being attacked. They would be more terrified of humans than anything.

Since mankind has decided to own every small piece of land, cut down endless woods to build houses it is no surprise we come into contact with other animals.

We do share the world with other species. It isn’t ours to own by ourselves. Although we are doing a fine job of frankly doing that and messing it up into the bargain.

I agree

Jane143 · 05/07/2026 18:08

LilacHam · 05/07/2026 10:53

It's dangerous for the wildlife.

And can cause numerous problems with pets, wildlife attacking humans because they have no natural fear anymore.

Can even cause structural damage to gardens, outbuildings and houses.

Sorry but that’s not true

TheClocksFast · 05/07/2026 18:04

Foxes made a den under my shed about 8 years ago and they had six babies and it was wonderful to see them all running around. Some of the adults visit my garden daily, which I enjoy.

That said, they can be a total pain for all the reasons mentioned, so I’m not surprised you’re not happy.

Incidentally, ours dug a massive tunnel between mine and my neighbours garden 😫

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