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AIBU to think child tracking implants would be useful until age 12?

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LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:02

Is it a thing? I was just thinking. When my kids were born, if there had been the option to put an implant tracker in their arm, let’s say for £100, I’d have done it. I’d propose all trackers are removed at age 12, to allow teens more responsibility and freedom, but before that age - why not? I can’t think a scenario my kids need to be somewhere I don’t know about. If kids were microchipped it would solve kidnappings. And estranged parents could know where their kid was.
What do you reckon?

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Kallos · 04/07/2026 16:21

Jennalong · 04/07/2026 16:19

Can't remember now but they were under social services at the time because school refused to have them because he used to attack the staff and during working / school hours he was awarded 3 carers at home to look after him ( by now a teenager ) so maybe them .

I can’t imagine the look on their faces when asked of a microchip could be installed in their child.

Given SS involvement, perhaps they weren’t surprised

Loubissou · 04/07/2026 16:20

How dystopian.
So when a woman is trying to leave her violent partner, she has to consider also how to remove a tracker from her children.

Insanity

mathanxiety · 04/07/2026 16:19

That sounds like a very draconian answer to what is basically a you problem.

If you have massive anxiety about your child's safety then you need to deal with that via the medical route, for yourself.

Jennalong · 04/07/2026 16:19

Kallos · 04/07/2026 15:32

Who the hell did she ask???

Can't remember now but they were under social services at the time because school refused to have them because he used to attack the staff and during working / school hours he was awarded 3 carers at home to look after him ( by now a teenager ) so maybe them .

Nowisthetimeforicecream · 04/07/2026 16:18

Kidnappers would just cut tracker out. Haven't you watched films?

Lunde · 04/07/2026 16:17

FadedRed · 04/07/2026 15:08

What’s to stop this ‘abductor’ kidnapping your microchipped child and removing the tracking device with a sharp knife?

Not a new idea - it was a plot point on the 2013 TV series "Crossing Lines" when a Russian oligarch's son was kidnapped and the kidnappers just cut out the tracker

Frequency · 04/07/2026 16:07

AprilMizzel · 04/07/2026 15:49

I had three kids never once lost them once.

There are usually procedures for finding lost kids at supermarket, shopping centers and big events and these days often phones to track.

I actually wonder if it could make parents less focused - assuming as they know where kids are they are safe rather than in serious trouble in water for example.

I lost DD2 a couple of times; she was a runner as a toddler and completely oblivious when she was older. I lost her once on the way home from school. She was a couple of feet in front of me, and I was watching her. I looked away for a couple of seconds when DD1 asked me a question, to look at DD1 and answer her question. When I looked back, DD2 was gone.

She'd ducked into the park, deciding to walk home a different way, and being oblivious, she just assumed we had seen and would follow. By the time she realised we weren't behind her, she was almost home, so she thought she might as well just keep going. Meanwhile, DD1 and I had gone back to the school, into all the shops, checked the play area at the park...

On another occasion, she caused an entire hotel to go into lockdown. She'd come back from the kids club and was having a tantrum that they'd turned off the hot chocolate machine early. Because of the tantrum, we were not the only ones watching her. All of a sudden, she made a run for the reception and then vanished. No one saw which way she went when she ran into reception, and the CCTV only covered the exit. We knew she had not left the hotel, but even with dozens of people scouring the hotel for her, we could not find her. Eventually, the staff made her a hot chocolate, and everyone went around the hotel calling out to her that her hot chocolate was getting cold, and she appeared as quickly as she had vanished. To this day, we still don't know where she was hiding and she cannot remember to tell us.

The school also lost her when she went to London in Y6. She wandered into a shop without thinking of telling anyone. It took them 20 minutes to find her.

If you've never lost a child for a short time, that's probably more luck than anything else.

Putting a tracker in DD2 might have been tempting if it were an option, but I doubt I would have actually gone through with it.

PrincessTiabeanieMariabeanie · 04/07/2026 16:04

LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:29

Could be useful when you lose your kid. My neighbour lost her kid in a shopping centre last weekend. For about 30 minutes. She said it was the worst experience of her life!

People would just get lazy.
My mum got one of those keyrings that beep so you can find lost keys when they first came out. She made no effort not to lose them after that.

Kallos · 04/07/2026 15:59

LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:53

Yeah there’d have to be a way to avoid hacking or unauthorised access to the data

Any one wanting to kidnap a child would cut it out op

it really is that simple

Kallos · 04/07/2026 15:59

basoon · 04/07/2026 15:55

Kidnapping by a stranger is exceptionally rare. Most child abductions are by a parent

And they’d cut it out

BertieBotts · 04/07/2026 15:58

LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:29

Could be useful when you lose your kid. My neighbour lost her kid in a shopping centre last weekend. For about 30 minutes. She said it was the worst experience of her life!

You could put an airtag or other thing of this type in their backpack or attach it to their shoe or whatever.

Someone else mentioned severely disabled children who are prone to running off - this is something people do in that case as a sort of extra safety net on top of always having adults supervise them, having door alarms etc.

Kepler22B · 04/07/2026 15:57

How would they be powered? Things like AirTags need to be charged. Ones in pets don’t need charge as they aren’t trackers they are ID chips that need a scanner to read.

Ridiculous idea.

DrDisrespect · 04/07/2026 15:56

aliceyyyy2654 · 04/07/2026 15:04

What in the dystopian nightmare is this

Yep, it's very black mirror

WhatNextImScared · 04/07/2026 15:56

LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:08

Well only the parents could follow the child. And lost that access if court ordered.

Famously, government IT is extremely secure 👀.

I simply cannot believe you can’t see the logical nightmare that this is.

WhatAMarvelousTune · 04/07/2026 15:55

LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:53

Yeah there’d have to be a way to avoid hacking or unauthorised access to the data

I’m not talking about unauthorised access. I’m talking about a father accessing data he is allowed to access and therefore locating a refuge his partner has fled to.

basoon · 04/07/2026 15:55

Kidnapping by a stranger is exceptionally rare. Most child abductions are by a parent

LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:53

WhatAMarvelousTune · 04/07/2026 15:20

Only about 50 children a year are abducted by strangers in the UK (and have an average age of 11 so a lot would fall outside of your plan anyway). Obviously that’s 50 too many, but I imagine far more than 50 children leave with their mothers to escape abuse at the hands of the father/partner. Women’s refuges would be very easily found.

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Yeah there’d have to be a way to avoid hacking or unauthorised access to the data

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WhatAMarvelousTune · 04/07/2026 15:53

AprilMizzel · 04/07/2026 15:49

I had three kids never once lost them once.

There are usually procedures for finding lost kids at supermarket, shopping centers and big events and these days often phones to track.

I actually wonder if it could make parents less focused - assuming as they know where kids are they are safe rather than in serious trouble in water for example.

Plus it really focuses the attention on the risk that is much smaller (stranger abduction) vs the risk that is much larger (harm from a family member).

LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:52

Happyjoe · 04/07/2026 15:42

Just track the mobile? Nearly all kids have mobiles now.

Not little kids

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takealettermsjones · 04/07/2026 15:49

LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:41

Think she’s about 37

🤣🤣🤣 puerile, but I did laugh 😂

AprilMizzel · 04/07/2026 15:49

LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:29

Could be useful when you lose your kid. My neighbour lost her kid in a shopping centre last weekend. For about 30 minutes. She said it was the worst experience of her life!

I had three kids never once lost them once.

There are usually procedures for finding lost kids at supermarket, shopping centers and big events and these days often phones to track.

I actually wonder if it could make parents less focused - assuming as they know where kids are they are safe rather than in serious trouble in water for example.

Kallos · 04/07/2026 15:45

Op do you now see how silly this is 🤞

MaidOfSteel · 04/07/2026 15:44

Oh good lord, no!

Happyjoe · 04/07/2026 15:42

Just track the mobile? Nearly all kids have mobiles now.

LucyLocker · 04/07/2026 15:41

Iloveeverycat · 04/07/2026 15:36

How old.

Think she’s about 37

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