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To be surprised this estate agent wasn’t sacked?

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Easack · 03/07/2026 22:10

We listed our house with the biggest estate agent in our area (also with the best reviews/reputation).

We approved the photos to be used and description to be added to the usual portals such as RightMove.

Shortly after it went live, a friend told me it had been posted on our town’s community Facebook page. On one of the living room photos, the TV on the wall had been edited to include a couple having sex.

I immediately called the estate agent who got back to me shortly after, apologised and said they’d remove the photo and instigated a full investigation.

They contacted me today and said they had identified it was a junior colleague who did this ‘as a joke’ and that they’d been reprimanded. They confirmed they’ve kept their job.

I am perplexed by this. Surely that is a sackable offence?

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Goodadvice1980 · 13/07/2026 19:14

Do let us know if they find you a buyer OP!

YANBU.

nonomo · 10/07/2026 07:23

I’m such a child because I thought this was hilarious, however I can absolutely see that it wouldn’t be funny if I was the one trying to sell a house.

I don’t know if I’d expect him to be sacked. Sounds like he was having a bit of a joke in the office and then accidentally uploaded the jokey photo instead of the normal one?

I don’t think the estate agent should have commented on whether the person kept their job or not.

deeahgwitch · 09/07/2026 17:15

If the estate agents are members of a professional body I would report the incident to the professional body.
It was extremely disrespectful to a client.

MatildaTheCat · 08/07/2026 18:34

BlackRowan · 07/07/2026 07:42

Don’t know what kind of firms you worked for. Magic circle law firms would also have initial free chat and not start billing straight away

The point is that on MN this free chat is frequently advised to an OP ( as seems to be the case here), as being the only legal advice they will need in order to make some kind of claim.

It may be free at that point but it certainly isn’t charity or a meaningful approach to a legal dispute in most cases.

manticlimactic0 · 08/07/2026 10:27

Easack · 03/07/2026 22:17

What an insightful reply..

True though. They didn't even have to tell you he didn't get sacked

BlackRowan · 07/07/2026 07:42

Lemonymint · 03/07/2026 23:43

I wonder why people expect a free 30 minutes or an hour with a solicitor but somehow don't suggest that to plumbers or electricians. I suppose some solicitors might do a free 30 minutes as a loss leader but no law firm I have ever been associated with would have entertained the idea of working for free for 30 minutes let alone an hour. We have liability insurance, rent, staff wages, training costs, costs for accessing specialist databases, and all the overheads any other business will have. We are not set up for doling out free legal advice.

Don’t know what kind of firms you worked for. Magic circle law firms would also have initial free chat and not start billing straight away

BlackRowan · 07/07/2026 07:41

MatildaTheCat · 03/07/2026 23:22

The mythical ‘free hour’ in which solicitors will give you all the advice you need to gain significant compensation.

Has anyone in RL actually found this marvellous service in a situation like this?

Yes that’s pretty common. Solicitors most of the time don’t charge for initial compensation where they give you broad strokes of what you can expect /how much it’s going to cost / is it worth it.

experienced this with most expensive solicitors as well as regular ones

Cosyblankets · 06/07/2026 07:35

I'd be taking my house straight off the market with them and making it clear as to why.

Amethystmama · 06/07/2026 07:18

I would be looking for a new estate agent!

EvieBB · 05/07/2026 21:49

Vaxtable · 03/07/2026 22:17

Now I would go back and say due to the embarrassment for you you expect them to halve their fee

...or report them? Surely there's an ombudsman you can complain to?

nevernotmaybe · 05/07/2026 15:15

Easack · 03/07/2026 22:17

What an insightful reply..

You're on the aibu section, it is completely on topic and relevant to that.

TheLoyalSquid · 05/07/2026 14:37

I’d terminate the contract immediately and go elsewhere. Also a google review stating what happened and advising people to beware of their unprofessionalism. If they’re not taking your house sale seriously and behaving like kids, you’re wasting your time. You need to have a good working relationship with your estate agent and they’ve already blown it just for a laugh. You’re going to pay a lot of money to these people, you’re the client. Maybe if its starts hitting their commissions & profits they might grow up.

Brokentoes85 · 05/07/2026 00:54

It's not the end of the world. If you aren't happy, go with someone else.

CrayonCritic · 04/07/2026 23:20

Yes, it’s incredibly unprofessional, and they should lose their job over it.

I also think you should stay out of it. Hoping someone gets fired when the outcome doesn’t actually affect you feels quite grudging, and it’s probably not great for your own mental wellbeing.

The thing is, what happened wasn’t just unprofessional, it was grossly inappropriate. This isn’t a mechanic’s garage in the 1990s! It’s a professional workplace in 2026. Accessing or using sexual content like that at work is so far beyond acceptable in our current society that it’s astonishing, right?!

Personally, I’d walk away and find somewhere else, without paying any fees.

abracadabra1980 · 04/07/2026 23:14

Sorry OP but I laughed out loud at this. The naughty office junior has always made me giggle. So long as it wasn't your own faces transposed onto the screen, it makes a great story for future parties and I'd use the whole scenario to get a huge discount. Wouldn't care less whether the culprit was sacked.

ThatMauveMaker · 04/07/2026 22:51

I would withdraw your property from them, then it has cost them your fee. And leave a bad review explaining what has happened. Might take it more seriously then.

Maisey1991 · 04/07/2026 22:32

What’s happened as a result, have you told them you aren’t going with them any more, are they offering you discount of services as an apology etc?

Susan7654 · 04/07/2026 22:24

I would leave them a review on google describing what happened and the outcome. Warn others that they do it. They dont deserve such a high regard.

Schoolchoicesucks · 04/07/2026 18:08

I agree that you don't get a say in their internal disciplinary proceedings. I would, however be expected to be released from my contract with them and be putting the house on the market with another agent. No way would they be profitting from sale of my house when it had become the subject of ridicule through the actions of their staff member.

Jules2025 · 04/07/2026 17:55

Easack · 03/07/2026 22:10

We listed our house with the biggest estate agent in our area (also with the best reviews/reputation).

We approved the photos to be used and description to be added to the usual portals such as RightMove.

Shortly after it went live, a friend told me it had been posted on our town’s community Facebook page. On one of the living room photos, the TV on the wall had been edited to include a couple having sex.

I immediately called the estate agent who got back to me shortly after, apologised and said they’d remove the photo and instigated a full investigation.

They contacted me today and said they had identified it was a junior colleague who did this ‘as a joke’ and that they’d been reprimanded. They confirmed they’ve kept their job.

I am perplexed by this. Surely that is a sackable offence?

You might be able to get out of your contract as it’s a breach if they put up photos not approved by you. I’d also remove listing with them. If they’re a big brand, check if there’s an escalation route. If not, check if they’ve opted in some voluntary qualification as if that’s the case, there would be someone you can appeal to. Reputable estate agents rely on those schemes given they’re largely unregulated. It’s your home and reputation at the end of the day so I wouldn’t let it go.

court18 · 04/07/2026 17:34

Pull the listing and instruct elsewhere.

C8H10N4O2 · 04/07/2026 17:32

BilgeVole · 04/07/2026 08:09

Really odd attitude.

If I did anything like this in my profession, my feet wouldn’t touch the ground on the way out the door.

Think about it from the OPs perspective. She tells her “funny family story” to a friend, who tells another friend, who tells another. Which of those friends do you think will then give the EA a wide berth when they come to sell?

Why would you have a total liability with no judgment in your office; an accident waiting to happen, that directly impacts your business.

I agree. Apparently EAs still operate in the 1980s. This type of behaviour is zero tolerance in most companies these days.

I would change agent, I see no reason why the OP shouldn’t leave a simple, strictly fact based review for them as its has caused her inconvenience and embarrassment.

JustMyView13 · 04/07/2026 17:19

You can probably end the agreement and list with someone else under breach of contract. I doubt that imagery portrayed your property in a positive light, or worked to maximise the sales price. You probably have clauses in your agreement to that effect.

EsmeSusanOgg · 04/07/2026 16:31

Vaxtable · 03/07/2026 22:17

Now I would go back and say due to the embarrassment for you you expect them to halve their fee

Or allow you out of your contract with no costs so you can go with another, professional outlet.

Boomer55 · 04/07/2026 16:30

snackatack · 03/07/2026 23:47

you could repot it to the police and seek compensation - its that serious if I'm honest.

The police won’t be interested, and there wouldn’t be grounds for any Compo.