New DP overreacting?!!

There's a distinct fodder gathering posting style though.

I understand why he was disgusted. But his idea that women shouldn't do this is not becoming to him.

He doesn't sound that into you if he's prepared to make threats like that.

It can come across as very disrespectful. And unpleasant for the people around you. I wouldn't appreciate someone doing this deliberately.

I don't fart in front of people, mostly because I have a high fibre vegan diet and they smell, so I don't want to subject anyone to that. Because I'm considerate, respectful and not a dick.

This.

Two separate issues
First is that deliberately farting in bed is disgusting, and it's disrespectful to your partner whether you're male or female.
Second is that he thinks women don't fart, that's a problem. But if he's not been farting in bed with you, it was probably a shock that you thought that was ok.

If you need to leave the room for this reason often enough to attract curiosity then you have digestive issues or a poor diet, or both.

Just to add my stepdad does disgusting rancid farts all the time because "he can't help it"
Luckily I no longer see him

I've always farted in front of my husband but then I'm weird. If your partner ever farts in front of you dump his ass for being a hypocrite

I don’t think they’re hypocrites.

if a man I was with did that it would be an immense turn off.
it’s not funny or sexy or attractive.
yes we all do it accidentally at times its a normal bodily function but to think it’s ok to ‘let one go’ and think nothing of it is totally yuk. You might have put him off forever.

You aren't compatible. It's fine he has that deal breaker, as long as he applies the same standard to himself. I wouldn't like it and would avoid doing it, but that's how I was brought up. The men around me didn't do it and unlike a lot of men on here, managed to not piss all over the toilet. If posters are to be believed about the jobs they do, they are controlling themselves at work.

The stuff people post on here is just weird.

Or worse🤔

He’s not a ‘DP’ after 2 months.

You are still in the very early stages of dating where you find stuff out about him.

You now know he has a red line on farting and is probably a bit sexist. If farting is your thing and you prefer your men not to be arseholes now is the time to escape.

if you can hold your farts and don’t mind a bit of casual sexism then you stay in the relationship that may build towards partnership

You've killed me with your deliberate farting 😂😂😂

Everyone farts. Even you.

I think that breaking wind is something to do on the toilet, nowhere else. OP has a different view.

Just incompatible.

Walking out of the room every time you need to will be more disruptive than just doing it

Dump him. That's no way to live. Him judging you so harshly for a natural human function is so out of order.

How would he cope if you became really ill? Would he treat a girl differently to a boy if he had children? He is sexist, judgemental and has no compassion.

Yeah, 'cos farting is sooo funny 🙄
Everyone does it, they have to but why the performance, laughing and joking about it? People like that sound about 10. [no desrespect to 10 year olds].
Bathroom or just fart discreetly if possible, no need to draw attention to it.

My DH thinks this. But according to the nhs, people fart on average 20 times per day and for some people it is a lot more. I can’t believe everyone goes to the bathroom every time.

farting is like sneezing. Your body does it sometimes and you apologise and try not to sneeze on food. But there is no point getting angry with someone for an accidental sneeze or an accidental fart.

You should go to the bathroom. I suspect that he will be put off you now.

I’m genuinely intrigued. Do you sit at home and every time you feel the need to fart, get up and leave the room? Surely that’s disruptive and just drawing more attention to it?

No, that’s vile. Sometimes farting near people is unavoidable and shouldn’t be a big deal. Deliberately choosing to fart near other people when you could go somewhere else is gross.

The only unreasonable thing from his is the “women don’t do that” comment. Potentially he has some sexist views. But he’s still not wrong to object to farting around people, as long as he doesn’t do it himself.

Farting should only take place in the toilets, no matter whether male, female or whatever other sex is now available.

This. It’s gross and you should do it in private

Well now you know he isn't one to go with whatever way the wind blows.

If you want to be free to fart as and when you have one in the pipe in your own home, then he is not the man for you. At least you didn't trap his head under the duvet.

There is no right or wrong here.

You agree between you what is acceptable. Now if he's trying to hold you to different standards than himself, that's another issue.