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AIBU to be angry about primary school iPads without parent consultation?

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Doormouse79 · 03/07/2026 12:29

AIBU to be furious that our primary school trust pushed through iPads for Year 3/4 without engaging with parents?

Posting because I’m honestly so frustrated and I’d really appreciate some advice from other parents.
My child is at a Surrey school within Xavier Catholic Education Trust. The Trust has rolled out a 1:1 iPad scheme for Year 3 and Year 4 children: so we’re talking about 7, 8 and 9-year-olds, not teenagers.
The issue isn’t that I’m anti-technology. I’m really not. I understand schools use iPads and apps now. But this feels like a huge change to the way young children are being taught, and it seems to have been pushed through before parents were properly asked, informed or listened to. The Trust seems heavily involved with a Hong Kong-based/ international venture-capital backed company who appear to be developing their products based on our children's data. That's not necessarily suspect or wrong, but shouldn't we be entitled to explanations? Surely this cannot be right?
A large group of parents (around 40 across the three year groups) raised concerns. These weren’t just people moaning about screen time. Parents asked reasonable questions like:

  1. Are iPads really needed every day for children this young?
  2. What is the educational benefit?
  3. How much screen time are they actually getting?
  4. What happens to the children’s work and information once it’s uploaded?
  5. Where is the children's data going and being stored in the world?
  6. Who can see what they’re doing?
  7. What checks were done before this was introduced?
  8. Can parents opt out or have an alternative? (We have been told NO).

Instead of being properly engaged with, parents feel we’ve been fobbed off.
Requests for a proper meeting were declined. We’ve had generic reassurances and glossy-sounding explanations, but not clear answers to the actual questions being asked.
One of the things that really bothers me is that, as far as we’ve been told, there wasn’t a proper written risk assessment (a "Data Protection Impact Assessment") done before this was rolled out. Given this involves young children using iPads, school apps, online platforms, stored schoolwork and teacher monitoring, I find that hard to understand.
There is also apparently a system where teachers can monitor what pupils are doing on the iPads in real time. I’m not saying teachers shouldn’t supervise children — of course they should. But surely parents are entitled to know exactly how this works, what the limits are, and what safeguards are in place?
Another thing that feels uncomfortable is that staff from the Trust seem to have been involved in presenting alongside Goodnotes / EdTech projects connected with the sort of technology now being used in classrooms. Maybe that’s all perfectly above board, but if the Trust is that closely involved with promoting this kind of thing, shouldn’t they be extra careful to show parents that they’ve properly and independently checked whether it’s right for our children?
What’s also maddening is that this scheme was apparently still “in development” when introduced, and there didn’t seem to be solid evidence yet that it actually improves learning for children this young. Yet it has still been pushed ahead and expanded.
Parents haven’t been offered any meaningful alternative either. So in practice, it feels compulsory. You either go along with it or your child risks being the odd one out.
The tone from the Trust has really upset people too. Rather than treating parents as people with legitimate concerns about their children, the response has felt defensive and dismissive, almost as though we are being awkward for asking basic questions.
I just don’t think this is good enough.
This is about young children. It’s about how they learn, how much time they spend on screens, what happens to their schoolwork and personal information, and whether parents are being respected.
AIBU to think a school trust should not be rolling out something this significant without proper consultation, clear answers and proper checks first?
Has anyone else challenged an academy trust over something like this? Where would you go next — governors, the Trust board, the Diocese, ICO, Ofsted, MP?
I don’t want to be labelled “that parent”, but I also don’t think parents should be expected to just shut up and trust the system when the system won’t answer straightforward questions.
Would you escalate this formally? And where would you start?

OP posts:
Dontbesuspicious · 03/07/2026 21:54

If you have a legitimate concern that your child's data is being shared to a 3rd party without your consent you can report this to ICO for further investigation.
Have you signed anything to give consent for your child to use the ipads? Did you get an answer on who is viewing the work once completed? If not then i’d say you have reason to report and hopefully get clearer answers as you have concerns.

Phoenixfire1988 · 03/07/2026 21:53

You normally have to sign a consent form

Soontobe60 · 03/07/2026 21:27

ThatLemonBee · 03/07/2026 21:07

You are lucky ! In my kids previous school was from p1 and I told tem my concerns too as she has adhd and would 100% prefer to write on a iPad than handwriting. Her handwriting now in p5 is awful and we changed schools 🏫 n p3 and they where shocked for the access to the iPad that early too . They now use them on p5 and I can see why but I don’t see the need on p1 and p2 when they are actively develeoping writhing and numeracy skills .

What level has she reached in her writhing skills?

ThatLemonBee · 03/07/2026 21:07

You are lucky ! In my kids previous school was from p1 and I told tem my concerns too as she has adhd and would 100% prefer to write on a iPad than handwriting. Her handwriting now in p5 is awful and we changed schools 🏫 n p3 and they where shocked for the access to the iPad that early too . They now use them on p5 and I can see why but I don’t see the need on p1 and p2 when they are actively develeoping writhing and numeracy skills .

Pistachiocake · 03/07/2026 20:59

Think most schools have them now? Round here anyway. There is a private school that doesn't, and you could homeschool, but think in our area that would be your only options, and if you work away, that might be quite difficult.
Or you could ask any teachers that might post on here if there's state schools in your area that aren't using them?

MandemChickenShop · 03/07/2026 20:48

blubberball · 03/07/2026 13:07

The iPads in schools do annoy me tbh. It's been a lot of trouble with them getting lost/broken. It's another expense to pay out for. It's something else to lock away at night and argue over. They get in trouble for messing around playing games on them in lessons. Everyone complains that kids are on screens too much, and are losing skills like handwriting, but then schools give everyone an iPad. I don't think they help

this with bells on. too much screen time say the government but allow schools to move to screen based learning. absolutely ridiculous

PloddingAlong21 · 03/07/2026 20:38

Iloveagoodnap · 03/07/2026 13:10

I agree with you. No need. I think my 90s education with exercise books and text books, with homework you had to write and give in and that your mum could see evidence of, was far better than the education my two now college aged boys have had. I never knew what homework they were doing because it was all online and a lot of it they finished at school. Or it was stuff like online maths quizzes which bounced about from concept to concept and didn’t consolidate any learning.

I used to teach primary and several years ago I was doing a day’s supply in a junior class. I was working with one group of kids, another had to research an animal in a book and write down facts and another group had to do the same but research on the internet. At the end of the lesson when I checked how much the groups had got written the one using the books had quite a bit written down and the one using the internet had nothing because there was too much info and they didn’t know what they were looking for and what info to use etc. I thought there and then that children using information books was far more beneficial for them!

I am not disagreeing with your statement saying the written research was more in-depth than the online research, but this is exactly the reason it should be taught and encouraged to do online research. The wah of the world is online and prompt engineering (what you ask, how you ask, to get answers is a skill). That should be taught in school nowadays.

CountFucula · 03/07/2026 20:38

I’m a teacher - 100% in agreement op. Keep at it and speak to governors.
IPad use - it has a place eg maths fluency but that is 20 mins a day tops TOPS

WarriorN · 03/07/2026 20:33

Saturnalio · 03/07/2026 19:36

Wait im confused... What's the difference with the computer sessions we had at schools, including primary schools, which was similar game-based learning, back in 90s?

they use them for everything. The iPad is technically the child’s

WarriorN · 03/07/2026 20:32

Focalpoint · 03/07/2026 20:22

Not getting the outrage to be honest. When my kids were in primary we actually fundraised for iPads about 2015 I guess, they were on a trolley that recharged them and got wheeled around the various classrooms. All work done on it was educationally appropriate, they were locked to certain apps etc.

And then in secondary the schools local to me all have iPads or chromebooks, that are loaded with digital versions of the text books. They used Google classroom to communicate with teachers, Google slides etc for projects. It’s all managed by an educational software company so locked other than for school stuff.

They obviously write on paper as well but a lot of the work is electronic. Education doesn’t appear to have suffered in any way. only complaints from parents are the cost.

not in the UK so used for paying for school stuff in the state system.

that’s different; the schools where they do what the op describes each child has an iPad that they take home and bring to school. Most lessons use it and all homework is done on it

we have a trolley though and I still prefer stand alone computers for IT work.

WarriorN · 03/07/2026 20:30

MargeryBargery · 03/07/2026 12:43

I've worked in year 5 with iPads for the last 8 years.
I did my best to retrain, embrace a certain amount of inevitability about technology use in classrooms and I've tried to see the positives.
However I have ended up thoroughly convinced that we need a serious rethink.
I've been teaching 35 years and have seen how children's learning journey has changed beyond recognition in the last 10-15 years.
Technology has it's place, but it's definitely overused ( in my school anyway) to the detriment of pupil's attention span and acquisition of basic skills.
I have fought hard and long this year with school management and have succeeded in reducing the usage by 75% next year.
Schools need look at what's happening in Scandinavian countries where technology use in classrooms is being peeled right back.

I'm sorry this is your situation OP.
And year 3 and 4 sound very young to be introduced to this type of learning. I wouldn't be too concerned about safety because we do have very strict controls..but I just despair sometimes about the complete inability to concentrate on the spoken word or traditional text that comes as a result of screen usage.
I'd definitely keep pushing for information in your position.

yes this.

have also actually seen IT literacy dive since moved to iPads from a set of 3 computers per classroom (send school)

Sugarplumfairycakes1 · 03/07/2026 20:26

PrincessofWills · 03/07/2026 20:09

This sounds very similar to what was going on at OLA (Our Lady's Abingdon) and may have contributed to their insolvency and subsequent closure.

See also Arthur Terry Learning Partnership. Seems to be a pattern with I-pad provision.

Focalpoint · 03/07/2026 20:22

Not getting the outrage to be honest. When my kids were in primary we actually fundraised for iPads about 2015 I guess, they were on a trolley that recharged them and got wheeled around the various classrooms. All work done on it was educationally appropriate, they were locked to certain apps etc.

And then in secondary the schools local to me all have iPads or chromebooks, that are loaded with digital versions of the text books. They used Google classroom to communicate with teachers, Google slides etc for projects. It’s all managed by an educational software company so locked other than for school stuff.

They obviously write on paper as well but a lot of the work is electronic. Education doesn’t appear to have suffered in any way. only complaints from parents are the cost.

not in the UK so used for paying for school stuff in the state system.

BotterMon · 03/07/2026 20:20

Your question is around parent consultation. It's not a private school so they have absolutely no need to consult with you.
However your points around use if iPads are valid and maybe presenting them with the Swedish research would be a starting point.

FunnyOrca · 03/07/2026 20:12

Saturnalio · 03/07/2026 19:36

Wait im confused... What's the difference with the computer sessions we had at schools, including primary schools, which was similar game-based learning, back in 90s?

Is this a serious question?

My experience was my primary school got 1 computer per year group in 2000. In 2002 they got 1 class set of mac books to share throughout the school. This increased to a second set in 2005. We maybe used them once per week for an hour. That works have been maximum use. We learned how to type, use search engines, and use Microsoft office. It does not compare to what I teach now.

My school’s computing curriculum teaches year 3s to login in to desktops, use the font and size function in MS word, and learn typing through games. In iPads it “teaches coding” through an app that is just a game they can mess about trial and error style. My school has a parade of such apps introduced from Nursery to boast about coding but the children would actually learn more from doing a jigsaw puzzle.

On top of that they have maths homework, grammar exercises, spelling activities, topic research, times table stars, ebook platforms schools buy into… my school is not a big one for screen usage. We are monitored by SLT with the aim of keeping it low, but even by Y3 they are using iPads daily, sometimes multiple times a day. I don’t think they learn well on them. They don’t retain and from the moment the iPads are out, I’m working 10x harder to keep their attention and deliver instructions. I don’t think of myself as a strict teacher but I have to be the complete with the blue light!

tttigress · 03/07/2026 20:11

They seem a bit out of date to me.

I thought a lot of schools had gone down the IPad route and found it not fit for purpose.

PrincessofWills · 03/07/2026 20:09

This sounds very similar to what was going on at OLA (Our Lady's Abingdon) and may have contributed to their insolvency and subsequent closure.

Soontobe60 · 03/07/2026 20:06

We have chromebooks in our school, 1 per child. We use them in lots of lessons to supplement and enhance their learning, not as a replacement for pencils and exercise books!
As an example, in one English lesson the children were looking at writing dialogue then using inverted commas accurately. They had a document that built up dialogue in speech bubbles that each child contributed to. On my screen I could see in real time what each child was writing, and support their editing during the lesson. Children could see when they had made grammar or spelling errors instantly so knew what they needed to correct. By the end of the lesson, we had a bank of dialogue, correctly spelled and with appropriate grammar ready to use for the next lesson. I had no marking to do as all feedback was done effectively in the lesson.
In the next lesson, they had their bank of speech bubbles on their chromebooks. I modelled how to change these from speech bubbles into dialogue with the addition of reported clauses using correct punctuation.
Again, they wrote these on their Chromebooks, I was able to see their work live and support with editing, they could see where there were errors and hence self edit.
Once they had completed their sentences, they then copied these into their exercise books in order to practice their handwriting.
Without the Chromebooks, if this was all done in their books, I would have had to spend at least an hour marking books, children would have had to revisit their errors next lesson before moving on, having forgotten what they’d done the day before and good handwriting would have gone out of the window.

BusMumsHoliday · 03/07/2026 19:57

I'm not anti tech outright; I don't think using a maths app in combination with written work, oral mental maths etc is a bad thing. But the evidence is pretty clear that children do not learn better through screens. There is no research case that using screens primarily or exclusively gives better outcomes.

I'd also have serious concerns about ties between the EdTech company and the school (how were the systems they are using put out for tender? Is this value for money?) and as you say, what is happening to my DC data. Tbh, I would be looking to move my child.

There seems to be very little accountability in MATs to the parents, children and communities they serve. It's one reason I really tried to avoid MAT schools with my own, even though I've worked with some very good trusts.

WolfRamHeart · 03/07/2026 19:51

Id be more pissed off that they are using ipads!

We're an android family, and dont like anything about sodding apple products

Soontobe60 · 03/07/2026 19:51

RoseOliviaAu · 03/07/2026 17:28

Yes I would be angry. My child would not be using them. Notebooks and pens or I’m moving them.

😂😂😂

What do you think they’re doing with them?

MaryMayMiss · 03/07/2026 19:49

My experience as a teacher is that as soon as the ipads are out learning ends and messing around begins. Weve lost the plot, childrne should be reading books and writing with a pen not staring at a screen. There no evidence that ipads improve learning its all nonsense.

Saturnalio · 03/07/2026 19:36

Wait im confused... What's the difference with the computer sessions we had at schools, including primary schools, which was similar game-based learning, back in 90s?

TheBookShelf · 03/07/2026 19:30

@ProfessorTiddles Google indicates that IT decisions in that particular trust are made at individual school level.

ProfessorTiddles · 03/07/2026 19:21

My DC attend a school in this trust and this isn't a "thing" there- is it a school decision or a broader trust one?

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