To have told my sister she was unprofessional and inappropriate? * [Content warning: concerns baby loss]

Has she always been a psychopathic cunt or did she turn into one overnight? I’d be steering clear of her, she is clearly not normal or reasonable in her judgement.

Then send it all to her work. Then tell her and say "let's hope they have your sense of humour and not mine". She sounds utterly abhorrent and i'd absolutely wipe the smile of her smug little face.

My beautiful ds2 died at 7months old. Justi reading this has made me cry.. Some people just shouldn't be allowed to care for others.

She may technically have consent to take photographs/videos of the interiors of peoples homes but that consent us for the purpose of marketing the property for sale or rent. The sharing of photos/videos fir any other purpose is likely to be a breach of data protection so you could (and should) report her to the information commissioner.

Hee behaviour is really unprofessional and she is showing a complete disregard for the privacy and security of her clients.

You should have commented as soon as she started sending pictures from inside people's homes, it's obviously a serious invasion of privacy. Does she post any of this more widely? If so, I would send her employers a link.

Every single video crossed a line. She is breaching the trust of every person whose house she enters.

she's an estate agent. Not that excuses it in any way

Totally agree. The laughing about the state of people's houses should be enough this is RIGHT over the top.

Related or not, why would you want such a horrible person in your life? I would threaten to send screenshots to the company she works for (or if she owns the business then I would tell NTSELAT)

then block and get this toxicity out of your life!!!

self employed estate agent.

Tauranga · Today 10:22
Inmyuggs · Today 00:10
Tell her to her boss and the person who's privacy and trust she broke.
What a utter bitch.
Really?

yes really

I have a photo of my stillborn son next to my bed, so he's the first and last thing that I see everyday. I would be utterly broken hearted if someone took a photo and was sharing it with people I didn't know, it is such a personal thing.

People's homes are their safe spaces. Your sister is being very very unkind here at best.

She sounds like an utter dickhead, what a horrible thing to do.

She probably thought that just sending it to you and your mother she would be safe . The fact you told her how unacceptable it is has put her on the defensive and she is trying to justify herself instead of just admitting that you are right .

She deserves to lose her job.

If me calling out your bad behaviour offends you… stop behaving badly!!

I’m angry at your sister OP. How dare she attack you? The healthy and correct response is ‘Do you know what, you are right. I won’t do that again. Thanks for feeling able to say it.’

The mum's probably scared if she gets on the wrong side of her she'll un-alive her for the inheritance when the time comes. I'd also be scared if I'd bred what is clearly a psychopath.

She sounds like she has a personality disorder. Good thing she's a woman, if she was a bloke I bet she'd have a side line in serial murder.

That is really really awful

Keeping the peace is how people feel emboldened to keep behaving badly. Keep the peace at what cost?

Well done for calling this out. She might not have liked the feedback but she will think twice now.

I would go as far as to report it to her employer. If she is providing a service in people homes, they must be vulnerable in some way. How can the public trust services if this behaviour goes unchecked? Well done. You did the right thing.

What a horrific thing to do. Is she a healthcare worker? She should find another job. That poor family.

Wow, sue me.

I'm beginning to think you're just trip-trapping here.

@Cheeseandolivesplease Does your job also not involve retracting your words when you're wrong?! You’ve misattributed someone else’s words to me and not corrected it. 🤔

Reply - I said what I said - deal with it. You're shouting at the wind.

Then leave an annoying emoji like this one 😌

Then mute the chat and let her scream at no one.

She sounds like psychopath - like honestly, who does that??