To have told my sister she was unprofessional and inappropriate? * [Content warning: concerns baby loss]

@Ponoka7 He doesn't know how to deal with death - he gets confused about how people "show" grief; in the main he finds it incredibly overwhelming.
But this is kind of of moot point here as the OP has confirmed her sister is neurotypical.

Yeah, that's me. Does he know that death is final?

@Ponoka7 Autism is a hugely diverse spectrum. I can give you my brother as an example. Incredibly academically intelligent, worked in a highly professional job until he took early retirement, has a number of degrees and postgraduate qualifications. But he still struggles hugely with social etiquette and conversation filters, for example.
He would find things "very weird" that neurological people find normal and vice versa.

Where those adults who held professional jobs? How many autistic people who have degrees, or hold full time jobs have you worked with, who don't understand the finality of death? I'm interested because me and my adult children and possibly my youngest GC are autistic. We are all capable of passing exams, working full time etc though.

Just saw she is self employed op and cant edit. I hope something stops her doing this op. As a bereaved mother of my two beautiful twins, this would crush me. My photos of them are so precious and anyone who is lucky to see them in our home is expected to treat them with dignity

I lost my twins at birth two and a half years ago. Worst week of my and dh's life. I'd never get over it if someone especially a professional did this. I hope you will report it. She invaded something so personal and tragic and exploited that poor family. If this was me, I'd make sure to contact her workplace and insist
she was let go from her job. Its unforgivable. My photos of my baby sons are sacred. Not some instagramable joke. This is such an upsetting post.

Any videos is unprofessional and commenting people's homes that she is being paid to sell is unprofessional.

I'd ask her to stop sending me any videos.

I hate it when the D. M prints stuff from here, if it wasn't for @Girlsonahill privacy I wish they they would with this one.

Please everyone don't get cross with other posters for getting some of the op wrong. It was a very difficult for me and others to read all of it at first without reacting.

my point is that its not a grey area.

Quite but who is going to tell the clients? I don't think the OP will and certainly no one else in the family is going to.

she will have been given permission for certain uses. I am willing to bet that sharing them on a group chat and making snarky comments is not one of those uses.

I suppose it's a grey area, because as an estate agent she will have been given permission to take photos inside the property. Obviously what she did in sharing that particular photo, with that description, with her family was 100% wrong and just appalling.

I do think it would be worth reporting to the Information Commissioner - she really should not be sharing photos of clients homes with family at all regardless of the content. I agree that the content of this latest "share" with you is particularly insensitive and lacking in compassion but sharing anything really calls into question her professionalism.

There is. Here: National Trading Standards Estate and Letting Agency Teams - National Trading Standards .

Vile. Intrusive. And I sincerely hope she doesn't take their money after that.
There must be some kind regulator you can report her to. I'd happily do it for you!

Have you read the whole thread?

Why does that matter

You seem to be the only person in your family with some empathy and compassion. Your sister is obviously the worst as she posted the photo and the caption to mock the client whose baby had tragically died. Your mum seems to automatically take her side, irrespective of how awful she is being.

It's your decision whether to fall out with your sister or not. If you decide that you don't want a relationship with her, it's none of your mum's business. She has managed to raise a complete arsehole by never corrrecting her awful behaviour. Well done OP for being a decent person, even though you are being painted as the bad guy.

Does your mum and sister know that you have posted a thread on MN?

I honestly gasped when I read this. Yes it's absolutely shocking and goes against every possible standard of behaviour, both professional and moral. Well done OP for calling her out on it.

So she is self-employed. Does she run her own estate agent business? I think she should be reported to whoever gives an estate agent their licence to operate.

OP, do you know why she thinks she is above everyone else? Has she always been like that?

Imagine if a police officer shared them on a WhatsApp group.

She lacks any common sense. At least you know now not to trust her.