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Pubs open til 5am, children encouraged to miss school by the England manager.

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canthavetoomanylights · 02/07/2026 21:35

Surely this is going too far. I wouldn’t agree with it if it was the final.

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canthavetoomanylights · 03/07/2026 17:16

lovecotswoldsliving · 03/07/2026 17:11

So protestors are idiots too?

I didn’t say that. I said those who need a policing.
It is perfectly possible to protest without trouble. Just as it is to watch sport.

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Puzzledandpissedoff · 03/07/2026 17:11

HelenaWilson · 03/07/2026 01:05

If it’s not live then what’s the point? Either watch or don’t watch, but watching it hours after everyone else seems pointless

Anyone else thinking of the Likely Lads here?

Sure am Grin

What's wrong with watching it recorded anyway? Providing you avoid hearing the score it's surely the same match, presumably watched with the same people who also won't know what happened?

Mainly though, why is this in AIBU and not the section which was created for it?

lovecotswoldsliving · 03/07/2026 17:11

canthavetoomanylights · 03/07/2026 17:10

I say the protestors who need policing detract from their cause as much as football idiots detract from the game.

So protestors are idiots too?

canthavetoomanylights · 03/07/2026 17:10

lovecotswoldsliving · 03/07/2026 16:52

what do you say when all the police have to attend protests? Especially the pro Palestine ones?

I say the protestors who need policing detract from their cause as much as football idiots detract from the game.

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Smeuse · 03/07/2026 17:08

LuckyHazelFox · 03/07/2026 17:02

Great point.

What has a pre planned and organised march have to do with the police criticising the late timing of this announcement?

Weird to shoehorn that into a football thread.

LuckyHazelFox · 03/07/2026 17:02

lovecotswoldsliving · 03/07/2026 16:52

what do you say when all the police have to attend protests? Especially the pro Palestine ones?

Great point.

lovecotswoldsliving · 03/07/2026 16:52

canthavetoomanylights · 03/07/2026 16:22

I see the police are rather put out by this late decision. Can’t blame them really when they have rotas to fill.
The fact that the police expect to have to manage resources speaks volumes about what fans are expected to behave like.

what do you say when all the police have to attend protests? Especially the pro Palestine ones?

SpidersAreShitheads · 03/07/2026 16:51

RaininSummer · 03/07/2026 10:50

I was disgusted hearing what the England manager said. He needs to butt out of parental decisions and also not be so dismissive of schools and how the kids will be after that late night.

Have you actually heard the press conference with your own ears or are you just basing your opinion on a few headlines?

Because I suspect the latter.

Thomas Tuchel was ASKED by a journalist to give a message to parents who had children who wanted to stay up.

His reply was light-hearted and tongue in cheek. Context matters.

lovecotswoldsliving · 03/07/2026 16:50

dottiedodah · 03/07/2026 15:59

Mischance Saying that its just some guys kicking a ball around.misses the point ,it brings kids together and makes for some sort of unity.same as tennis or whatever as Nelson Mandela said "Sport has the power to change the world" esp football as it is something all classes of kids can do

When you live in poor countries and you see the kids paying with nothing on their feet and having the time of their lives - you get it.

faithfultoGeorgeMichael · 03/07/2026 16:48

I don't give a sht about football tbh, but I am a working class woman whos husband and son are OBSESSED. Flags, shirts (DH has every one since he was 4 all in a pile for guests 😂) beer, screaming, they love it. I love them loving it. When this bigoted "I am a middle class person and I despise those oiks" nonsense starts it makes me strongly dislike the people doing it and feel they hate my family.
It might be irrational but a lot of working class people feel that way. Why do you want to take away or reduce something so many men enjoy?
They are not to blame for those who behave badly and the England team are a group of mostly working class men who worked extremely hard as children to get where they are now. Your hatred says a lot about your bigotry imo.

SheWillBeTheDeathOfMe · 03/07/2026 16:41

ovals · 03/07/2026 15:50

The pursed lip crew. Always ready to put a downer on anyone having fun.

Faces like Dot Cotton licking piss off a nettle

SheWillBeTheDeathOfMe · 03/07/2026 16:39

My work have announced an 11am start on Monday to allow everyone to enjoy the football. I was going to go to bed but feel contractually obliged to go to the pub with my son now.

LuckyHazelFox · 03/07/2026 16:33

A load of nonsense pearl clutching from football haters.

canthavetoomanylights · 03/07/2026 16:22

I see the police are rather put out by this late decision. Can’t blame them really when they have rotas to fill.
The fact that the police expect to have to manage resources speaks volumes about what fans are expected to behave like.

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dottiedodah · 03/07/2026 15:59

Mischance Saying that its just some guys kicking a ball around.misses the point ,it brings kids together and makes for some sort of unity.same as tennis or whatever as Nelson Mandela said "Sport has the power to change the world" esp football as it is something all classes of kids can do

ovals · 03/07/2026 15:50

KaleidoscopeSmile · 03/07/2026 15:31

She's right though.

If she's like me she can picture all of the pursed, cat's anus mouths as they're writing their righteous posts

The pursed lip crew. Always ready to put a downer on anyone having fun.

KaleidoscopeSmile · 03/07/2026 15:31

SummerDive · 03/07/2026 15:20

Holier-than-thou attitude for saying parents should boundaries in place fir their dcs??

I’m getting very confused here. Isn’t that …. normal???

She's right though.

If she's like me she can picture all of the pursed, cat's anus mouths as they're writing their righteous posts

thisfilmisboring123 · 03/07/2026 15:21

lovecotswoldsliving · 03/07/2026 14:36

You just said what everyone else wanted to…

I can’t bear the air of superiority- always the same in these football-related threads.

As if everyone who wants to watch the match is some sort of wife-beating, flag-bearing thug.

I don’t doubt there are problems surrounding it, but when you’ve got what 15-20 million? football fans, there are bound to be some wrong-uns.

SummerDive · 03/07/2026 15:20

thisfilmisboring123 · 03/07/2026 13:35

Oh do fuck off with your holier-than-thou attitude.

Holier-than-thou attitude for saying parents should boundaries in place fir their dcs??

I’m getting very confused here. Isn’t that …. normal???

SummerDive · 03/07/2026 15:18

Redpaisley · 02/07/2026 22:14

But in Spain they do and it doesn’t harm the kids.

They also nap in the afternoon and have very different working hours.
Dont compare what isn’t comparable

never2return · 03/07/2026 14:44

PermanentlyExhaustedPigeonZZZ · 02/07/2026 22:28

I still don't understand why kids don't watch it at 6.30am before school rather than the middle of the night live.

This is the way

lovecotswoldsliving · 03/07/2026 14:36

thisfilmisboring123 · 03/07/2026 13:35

Oh do fuck off with your holier-than-thou attitude.

You just said what everyone else wanted to…

Nousernameideaaga · 03/07/2026 14:29

If mine wants to watch I think we will send to bed as usual , then wake up at 5am (with no access to spoilers) then watch before school so she can go to school having watched it without being over exhausted.

Might not be the right decision for everyone, but that would be the right decision for us

YourAmplePlumPoster · 03/07/2026 14:28

Maybe teachers want to watch it too. They could just open the schools for the afternoon - maybe later hours of starting and finishing.

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