“All the trimmings” - to find this quite vile?

Love it.

I wouldn't be able to resist lying naked under the covers with Yorkshire puddings placed strategically 😅
Its really clumsy wording, but surely him being excited for a bit of dressing up on a weekend isnt an offence?
It is annoying that the standards for them are so different to ours though although I really really cant imagine getting excited about seeing a guy in any type of lace😅 men liking lingerie feels like a very standard preference not a porn thing so im interested in that perspective.
Its fair to say ah that gives me the ick. But If he understands and apologises I wouldn't punish him with a sex ban unless you dont want to be together.

A lot of people have said suspenders and stockings are old-fashioned, but I thought men of all ages liked them. I don't wear them as I'm fat and would look stupid, but I'd wear them if I had the body for it and IF I wanted to. (I wouldn't be taking requests for it, though.)

For pure sexiness, I thought black lingerie including stockings and suspenders, or a basque and stockings, were a classic that people of all ages like. If I had the body and a boyfriend I fancied, that get-up would be my go-to. Am amazed to hear that people think they're old-fashioned.

A Redcoat! 🤣🤣🤣

Your partner can’t wait to have sex with you. Enjoy.

Some people, men AND women, do have saggy bodies.
Fact.

Why did you say saggy?

I personally wouldn't bad an eyelid . Where has sense of humor gone .No wonder so many marriages break up .

Sorry, but this comment made me giggle - a 'Titanic painting' moment with couple of strategically placed Yorkshire puds & a parsnip for when he comes in 'brandishing the roses & champagne'..... have you been together long? If so, then just tell him how it made you feel - if not long, & you think he is worth it - again have that conversation - is he young or old enough to think that this was romantic / appropriate? (BTW - I have nothing against stockings etc, but wouldn't take kindly to being told to wear them).
Oooh, now I want to suggest those bandage type surgical stockings & Charlie Chaplin suspenders..... (& I also fancy some roast potatoes). Have a good weekend, however it works out, & please update?? x

Indeed 😂

I'm neutral on this one with no strong opinion. It did cross my mind if the OP would have felt better if he'd said bring your warm undies it's still cold at night 😂

I'm not British. But I don't appreciate a man telling me to wear something like he's ordering a damn burger with ketchup at MickeyDees.

I don't know what this says about me, but my partner saying this to me would probably get me going a bit!

Honestly, this. It's like a parallel universe here sometimes.

Pass the smelling salts quick, this is Mumsnet FFS. 😬

Yuck.

No this is simply just a mumsnet view, no one I know in real life wouldn’t react this way including my 80yo grandmother

Portnoys liver?

It wouldn’t bother me in the slightest

Can I ask if this is a particularly British attitude to sex and lingerie? I am not British. I adore wearing lingerie that makes me look and feel wonderful and I know the sort of that thing that suits me and put time and effort into sourcing the right thing. My boyfriend is also not British. Maybe relevant as I am asking about cultural things that we are Latin American. His pleasure in my body/lingerie is lovely and definitely turns me on to see it, but he would love me in anything! He also loves the fact that I am an independent woman, have outspoken views, a high powered career etc I get that everyone is different and this request should be seen in the context of the whole relationship though.

I think a joint of meat would be more fun.

He just told you to bring lingerie, specifically with garter belt and stockings like you're his weekend gf order.

Want fries with that, asshole?

I wouldn't be going.

If someone gave me a shopping list of sexy stuff to bring without a reciprocal list of turn ons, Id be feeling like a mail order girlfriend. It would bring on a heave of ‘oh, now I have to go do this”. Fuck no, life’s too short.

Yes that’s where my mind went.

I think he's learning that quite quickly.