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To think that there should be some consequences for Judge Nicholas Rowland

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BerryTwister · 02/07/2026 18:40

I’ve just read that the boys who raped and filmed 2 girls have had their non custodial sentences changed to custodial ones. Judge Nicholas Rowland had originally let them off with non custodial sentences, but there was a public outcry and the Attorney General got involved. In court today it was stated that he had made a mistake, and the boys were remanded in custody.

I can’t find any information about what happens to Nicholas Rowland. Maybe nothing. But I really think there should be some consequence. Maybe some retraining, or perhaps not being allowed to try cases involving sexual violence against women and girls for a while.

In any other job, if you made such an error of judgement, you wouldn't just be allowed to carry on as you were.

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WrongKindOfFeminist · 04/07/2026 10:33

Babyboomtastic · 04/07/2026 10:24

So you want me to tell you which bits you've missed when I'm not you and don't know which bits you've read and not read.

I'm not psychic 😂.

You find discussions of child abuse worthy of a laugh emoji.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 04/07/2026 10:28

@OtterlyAstounding Oh don’t be ridiculous! Just bizarre to think this. The sentencing guidelines take in many factors and Lady Carr said the judge weighed up the facts very carefully. His conclusion was incorrect but at least give people credit for doing a difficult job and inevitably it’s not an exact science. The sentence has been changed so why keep on about it?

Babyboomtastic · 04/07/2026 10:24

WrongKindOfFeminist · 04/07/2026 10:16

I see. So no particular bits that you think are being missed or overlooked.

So you want me to tell you which bits you've missed when I'm not you and don't know which bits you've read and not read.

I'm not psychic 😂.

OtterlyAstounding · 04/07/2026 10:24

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 04/07/2026 10:15

@OtterlyAstounding No, it should not happen. There’s a current debate about putting the age of responsibility up to 14. Like just about everywhere else. Maybe you should look at the justice systems for juniors elsewhere because we are not going to adopt your draconian ideas.

Of course not, because that would involve having an ounce of compassion and respect for women and girls, and being willing to hold men and boys accountable for their crimes against them – which as you say, will never happen.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 04/07/2026 10:18

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 04/07/2026 09:42

@WrongKindOfFeminist@OtterlyAstounding Why are you making things up? It’s not compassion to rehabilitate young offenders if we can. We don’t lock up dc for very long periods so you are way out in your expectations and it won’t happen. The victims have been considered by Lady Carr. Did you read what she said?

No. I asked about your consideration for the victims.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 04/07/2026 10:16

Babyboomtastic · 04/07/2026 10:12

What a strange question, as I have no idea which bits you decided not to read.

And absolutely you can have an opinion. But I'm the same way that someone who tries to review a book who only read the first chapter, your opinion will be under informed.

If you don't know fully what happened then you are in no position to judge either what should happen to these boys or the decisions made by judges who have read it all.

I see. So no particular bits that you think are being missed or overlooked.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 04/07/2026 10:15

@OtterlyAstounding No, it should not happen. There’s a current debate about putting the age of responsibility up to 14. Like just about everywhere else. Maybe you should look at the justice systems for juniors elsewhere because we are not going to adopt your draconian ideas.

Babyboomtastic · 04/07/2026 10:12

WrongKindOfFeminist · 04/07/2026 09:22

Well, thats your opinion. Which particular bits are you so keen for others ro read? What do you think anyone has missed?

What a strange question, as I have no idea which bits you decided not to read.

And absolutely you can have an opinion. But I'm the same way that someone who tries to review a book who only read the first chapter, your opinion will be under informed.

If you don't know fully what happened then you are in no position to judge either what should happen to these boys or the decisions made by judges who have read it all.

OtterlyAstounding · 04/07/2026 10:09

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 04/07/2026 09:42

@WrongKindOfFeminist@OtterlyAstounding Why are you making things up? It’s not compassion to rehabilitate young offenders if we can. We don’t lock up dc for very long periods so you are way out in your expectations and it won’t happen. The victims have been considered by Lady Carr. Did you read what she said?

Making what up? And what's your point? Just because it won't happen, doesn't mean it's not what should happen.

Also, it amuses me that you call them 'dc' – having read what they did and how they behaved, there's nothing 'dear children' about them.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 04/07/2026 09:42

@WrongKindOfFeminist@OtterlyAstounding Why are you making things up? It’s not compassion to rehabilitate young offenders if we can. We don’t lock up dc for very long periods so you are way out in your expectations and it won’t happen. The victims have been considered by Lady Carr. Did you read what she said?

OtterlyAstounding · 04/07/2026 09:26

WrongKindOfFeminist · 04/07/2026 09:19

All this compassion and care for 'minors'. What about the girls who were gang raped? Not a word about their wellbeing? What's the 'balance' for them?

Well, you see, they were probably sluts who were 'asking for it', not like those poor, disadvantaged young boys who didn't understand how not to rape, and need everyone's help and support 🙄

WrongKindOfFeminist · 04/07/2026 09:22

Babyboomtastic · 03/07/2026 20:47

They are horrid to read, it i don't think you can have an informed opinion on the case unless you do read it all.

Fortunately, you don't have to force yourself to read it, but then I don't think you can criticise the decision making of people who have read it.

Well, thats your opinion. Which particular bits are you so keen for others ro read? What do you think anyone has missed?

WrongKindOfFeminist · 04/07/2026 09:19

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 03/07/2026 23:05

@WrongKindOfFeminist Did anyone ever tell you “two wrongs don’t make a right”? For dc, in particular, the states role is mostly trying to rehabilitate these boys. It’s not prolonged incarceration or retribution. It’s people like you who whip up vigilante groups and it’s wrong. The state is not about imprisoning minors for very long periods. There must be a balance and I think the court of appeal sentence is correct.

All this compassion and care for 'minors'. What about the girls who were gang raped? Not a word about their wellbeing? What's the 'balance' for them?

WrongKindOfFeminist · 04/07/2026 09:14

'Baying'

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 04/07/2026 08:54

The victims are considered within the sentencing mechanism. They are for every case but they don’t make the sentencing guidelines or get to say what the sentence is. When young people are the perpetrators, sentencing guidelines are not the same as adults. The guilty dc are not “catered to” unless you mean attempts at rehabilitation? Obviously that’s one of the outcomes the Justice system is looking for and that’s no bad thing. It’s clear for some offenders it certainly can work.

As for going over the judges cases! A bit late for that. Any inappropriate sentences would have been called in, as with any other judge too. All this baying for retribution is ludicrous and clearly shows misunderstanding of our system. Of course judging quality matters but a witch hunt? Really not acceptable.

OtterlyAstounding · 04/07/2026 01:25

EnidSpyton · 03/07/2026 15:37

@WrongKindOfFeminist @OtterlyAstounding

I totally get your anger. I am furious at the leniency of rape sentences too.

But in this case, I am approaching it from the perspective of someone who works with teenagers, and with prisoners.

I have worked in a school with boys like this. Low intelligence. SEN. Poor impulse control. Usually chaotic home lives and poor parenting in the mix - often parents with low intelligence and SEN too, and drug/alcohol abuse, domestic violence, emotional/physical abuse, poverty, neglect, etc. A lot of them wound up in trouble with the police but they were not evil or monsters. They were children who had been horrifically let down by the adults around them, and hadn't been given the tools to function normally in society.

When it comes to the boys in this case, the reality is we can't lock them up for life for what they have done. The law doesn't allow us to.

So we have to think about - when their sentence ends, what do we want the outcome to be? That they are back out on the streets raping more girls? Or that they are able to reintegrate into society successfully without reoffending?

Statistically, the latter option is much more attainable if they don't go to prison. That will have partly been why the original judge went down that sentencing route. Young people are statistically proven to be less likely to reoffend if they don't go to prison but instead serve a community sentence (up to 50% less likely), and that is the result that is better ultimately for society as a whole, even if it's not immediately better for the victim.

This is the challenging and difficult nature of discussing sentencing and punishment and so on. It's not just about the victim and what's best for them. Of course it should be, but it can't be, because if, as in the majority of cases of crime, there is a reality that the perpetrator will not be in prison forever, there has to also be thought to what the outcome of that will be, and how to reduce the chances of there being future victims of that perpetrator.

As someone who volunteers in the sector, has interacted with a lot of prisoners and people working in the justice system, and has done a lot of reading around the subject, I am clearly coming at this from a different perspective than the majority of people on this thread, and I don't think that's a problem - it's a discussion forum, and all views should be valid and open to exploring.

I am angry about what happened to the girls. I am so sad for them and the trauma they have experienced, and I have a huge amount of empathy for them and their families.

But having taught hundreds of 14 year olds in my career, I can tell you that something has gone very, very wrong in these boys' home lives for them to have done this. It doesn't excuse what they have done or mean they don't need to be punished - I am just not convinced prison is the right form of punishment if the desired outcome is rehabilitation, which in my view, it should be when we're looking at people who are very young and have a lot of life left to live.

It's interesting how the victim is thrown under the bus at every point in your framework. First raped, then forced to accept that her attackers will get a slap on the wrist because it's better for them and everyone else, and meanwhile the focus is on the offenders' rehabilitation, never mind the fact that the victim's mental and emotional health may have been permanently severely damaged, and she may never live a normal life.

Girls and women are just supposed to put up with their rapists being coddled, for the good of society? The burden of suffering is being placed on them? They must bear the harm of someone else's crimes, while the criminal is catered to? No. That's not acceptable.

As I said, someone who will rape as a boy is even more dangerous than the average adult offender – what will they escalate to by the time they get to adulthood? How deeply, irreversibly ingrained is their hatred of and disdain for women and girls? How likely are they to ever not be abusive/dangerous to the women and girls around them? Given their learning disabilities, damaged upbringings, and current actions, I find it difficult to believe they'll ever be a net positive or even a net neutral within society.

The law should put the burden of their crimes back on the attackers, not the victims. The best way to ensure they're not a danger to the public is to either lock them up forever, or execute them. I don't particularly care which, but as I said before, humans – especially dangerous, misogynistic males – are not an endangered species. There's no need to try to preserve those who insist on harming others.

Wipeywipey · 03/07/2026 23:07

I am so glad to see a thread on this as I felt exactly the same. I really hope they go back over every rape case he has ever presided over and check up on the perps and his track record of understanding the rapist' mindset. I also suspect that if they searched his devices they would have some interesting findings.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 03/07/2026 23:05

@WrongKindOfFeminist Did anyone ever tell you “two wrongs don’t make a right”? For dc, in particular, the states role is mostly trying to rehabilitate these boys. It’s not prolonged incarceration or retribution. It’s people like you who whip up vigilante groups and it’s wrong. The state is not about imprisoning minors for very long periods. There must be a balance and I think the court of appeal sentence is correct.

ALovelyPinkUnicorn · 03/07/2026 20:48

WrongKindOfFeminist · 03/07/2026 20:29

It's 'savage' to think that rape should mean prison. I see.

Well yes, I do wonder about women who are more concerned with the wellbeing of the rapists with their virtual signalling savage of us @WrongKindOfFeminist

Babyboomtastic · 03/07/2026 20:47

WrongKindOfFeminist · 03/07/2026 20:29

I found the graphic descriptions of child sex abuse hard to read. I read more than enough.

They are horrid to read, it i don't think you can have an informed opinion on the case unless you do read it all.

Fortunately, you don't have to force yourself to read it, but then I don't think you can criticise the decision making of people who have read it.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 03/07/2026 20:29

Babyboomtastic · 03/07/2026 19:57

So you're passing judgement on the sentences despite not being able to stomach reading what was found to have actually happened?

I found the graphic descriptions of child sex abuse hard to read. I read more than enough.

WrongKindOfFeminist · 03/07/2026 20:29

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 03/07/2026 18:37

@WrongKindOfFeminist We don’t have Gaols for 14 year olds. You don’t seem to understand the justice system for children. They are deprived of their liberty but they need help to prevent reoffending if at all possible. All this retribution and locking up gets us nowhere and you are not in charge of sentencing or anything to do with the law. Crimes are interpreted for severity and other issues, and judges weigh up various considerations. This judge weighted incorrectly and it’s been changed. You savage views are not helpful and won’t ever be adopted.

It's 'savage' to think that rape should mean prison. I see.

Babyboomtastic · 03/07/2026 19:57

WrongKindOfFeminist · 03/07/2026 17:20

I don't believe these boys are monsters. I know they are rapists.

I've no doubt there are reasons for their behaviour.

I don't think rape is an accident, or something that happens to any lad who is confused or stupid or has a bad day. It's likely going to be the outcome of longstanding trauma and abuse and bad circumstances and treatment. Especially in a case like this - I have to admit I couldn't stomach reading all of the details but what I read suggested they were organised, had intent, recorded it, menaced the victims, and knew enough to know what they were doing.

Unfortunately that isn't considered bad enough to jail them.

Jail is necessary for their safety as well as that of the girls, if you want to consider that.

When a community feels that justice hasn't been done, it puts people in a dangerous situation. It inflames tension. It can lead to far worse outcomes than a loss of liberty for a few years.

I suggest jail is going to be more likely to 1. remove these boys from their contextual situation that has caused the behaviour, 2. protect the girls, 3. show that justice has been done, 4. offer more opportunities for treatment of the offenders.

Yes, rehabilitate and treat them when they're in there. But get them off the streets and out of the situations where they have offended.

Other things that need considered are : the effect on the community, on girls and women in the local area and beyond. The cost of treating the victims for possibly a long time. The trauma of a trial that has come to nothing may worsen that.
Trauma from abuse like this can be life shattering. They may not recover. The effect on other boys who see them getting away with it and may feel that maybe rape isn't such a big deal after all, maybe it even has cachet.

Given that young males have the highest offending rate of any group, it's mindblowing to me that there are assumptions of leniency.

So you're passing judgement on the sentences despite not being able to stomach reading what was found to have actually happened?

JJkate · 03/07/2026 18:40

@MeetMeOnTheCornercan you show us statistics that the approach you advocate for is working in this country? I'd be interested to see that.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 03/07/2026 18:37

@WrongKindOfFeminist We don’t have Gaols for 14 year olds. You don’t seem to understand the justice system for children. They are deprived of their liberty but they need help to prevent reoffending if at all possible. All this retribution and locking up gets us nowhere and you are not in charge of sentencing or anything to do with the law. Crimes are interpreted for severity and other issues, and judges weigh up various considerations. This judge weighted incorrectly and it’s been changed. You savage views are not helpful and won’t ever be adopted.