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To be disappointed my scan was normal

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cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 17:15

I saw a physio ages ago and was told I likely had a torn meniscus.

I’ve finally had the scan and the report says all is fine, just a small cyst. It could be a ganglion or a parameniscal. But it’s all fine.

I’ve got an appointment booked in with an orthopaedic consultant to discuss the scan properly but I’m almost sad that I just have to live with this pain now. For the last year I’ve been in agony, every step hurts, and now it turns out it’s just me being a baby.

I could cry, I really thought that I was about to find an answer and a cure. But this is just how I live my life now. I can’t imagine another 70 years of this agony.

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FatBottomGirlz · 01/07/2026 21:09

I had something similar - no ganglia’s but meniscus irritation but no tear. It’s finally getting better with physio

CypressGrove · 01/07/2026 21:05

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 20:37

If I was able to pay for surgery privately I’d agree, but I’ll be going through the NHS. I can see it now - because I can walk and I’m not actively dying, they won’t do anything.

You are just making this up.

WhatcakeshalIbaketoday · 01/07/2026 21:03

You have not made a fool of yourself OP and you have not taken painkillers for no reason. Pain is not normal and is the body’s warning system that something is up. Stick with this and don’t give up.

Elsvieta · 01/07/2026 21:00

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 18:13

A ganglion is painless though and wouldn’t cause the degree of pain I’ve got in my knee

Ganglions aren't always painless - I had one in my wrist that was quite painful.

There IS something wrong with you - you're in pain. You just have to keep pushing for the right diagnosis and treatment. I know it's a slow process and can grind you down, but there's no reason to be this defeatist or to think you've been "stupid" etc.

Kassalah · 01/07/2026 20:57

Look into Glucosamine supplements - they really helped with my knee issues.

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 20:54

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 17:25

But that’s not important. The mri is fine, my knee is fine. I just feel like such a baby. I’ve been in this much pain because of a ganglion cyst, which is a painless benign cyst. What an idiot I am

OP excruciating pain in my knee took a long time, referral to a rheumatologist and blood tests to diagnose. It was rheumatoid arthritis. I was told that what was showing up on the scans was likely a cyst - it wasn’t. It was a pocket of excess synovial fluid in the joint which the rheumatologist later drained. I realise you’re very young but RA does happen to younger people. Can you ask for a referral to a rheumatologist to get checked out ?

bittertwisted · 01/07/2026 20:54

Lovelyview · 01/07/2026 20:04

Benign means it isn't cancer not that it isn't a problem.

They operated on my son’s knee
i used my workplace private cover for his face as it was classed as plastics and the waiting list was huge, I was worried about the scar on his face, and I had the choice

the NHS absolutely were willing to remove the second one

noshade · 01/07/2026 20:50

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 20:37

If I was able to pay for surgery privately I’d agree, but I’ll be going through the NHS. I can see it now - because I can walk and I’m not actively dying, they won’t do anything.

They haven't told you that. You're just leaping to conclusions. Draining a cyst isn't a big expensive operation so I'd be amazed if they didn't try that given the amount of pain you're in.

HalzTangz · 01/07/2026 20:49

Raccoonsmacaroons · 01/07/2026 17:35

OP why are you equating cyst=no pain?

Because she believes Dr Google over strained medical professional

Feralbookworm · 01/07/2026 20:47

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 17:25

But that’s not important. The mri is fine, my knee is fine. I just feel like such a baby. I’ve been in this much pain because of a ganglion cyst, which is a painless benign cyst. What an idiot I am

Ganglion cysts aren’t always painless. I have one on my wrist and at times it nips the nerves and its agony. They themselves are painless but they can interfere with surrounding structures.
knee pain is not nice company. I struggled for years, I’ve little meniscus left but they wouldn’t operate as at the time I was about your age. The only thing that ever helped me (I’m now 38) was starting to work out regularly and building the muscle in my legs. More muscle has taken the pressure of my knee cap. It’s sore to start but if you go easy and build it up it might help.

CrochetHooked · 01/07/2026 20:43

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 20:37

If I was able to pay for surgery privately I’d agree, but I’ll be going through the NHS. I can see it now - because I can walk and I’m not actively dying, they won’t do anything.

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Notasbigasithink · 01/07/2026 20:42

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 17:15

I saw a physio ages ago and was told I likely had a torn meniscus.

I’ve finally had the scan and the report says all is fine, just a small cyst. It could be a ganglion or a parameniscal. But it’s all fine.

I’ve got an appointment booked in with an orthopaedic consultant to discuss the scan properly but I’m almost sad that I just have to live with this pain now. For the last year I’ve been in agony, every step hurts, and now it turns out it’s just me being a baby.

I could cry, I really thought that I was about to find an answer and a cure. But this is just how I live my life now. I can’t imagine another 70 years of this agony.

Look into neuroplasticity. Its a real thing where your body perceives danger and creates pain signals. The pain is 100% there and 100% real btw. Your body needs to learn how to turn off the over sensitive alarm. Look up John Sarno or Dan at Pain free you. Lots of free information and advice. Its been a game changer for me.

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 20:37

noshade · 01/07/2026 20:34

I don't understand why you say the scan found nothing when in fact it found a cyst. I ran your report through Chat GPT without any prompting or mentioning pain and it said:

What happens next?

Treatment depends on your symptoms:
If the knee is only mildly painful, doctors often recommend physiotherapy, activity modification and monitoring.

If the cyst is causing persistent pain, catching, or limiting activity, an orthopaedic specialist may discuss draining it or arthroscopic surgery to remove it, though many never need an operation.

If I was able to pay for surgery privately I’d agree, but I’ll be going through the NHS. I can see it now - because I can walk and I’m not actively dying, they won’t do anything.

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MMUmum · 01/07/2026 20:35

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 17:24

My knee is fine. It’s just painful, and now I feel like such an idiot. My GP has said now that the mri is normal I won’t be able to get a prescription from them for painkillers, and codeine has been the only thing that helps. So now I just look like such an idiot. I’m in this much pain and it’s absolutely fine.

You can buy Co Codamol over the counter at pharmacies, low dose but might keep you going til you see Consultant

noshade · 01/07/2026 20:34

I don't understand why you say the scan found nothing when in fact it found a cyst. I ran your report through Chat GPT without any prompting or mentioning pain and it said:

What happens next?

Treatment depends on your symptoms:
If the knee is only mildly painful, doctors often recommend physiotherapy, activity modification and monitoring.

If the cyst is causing persistent pain, catching, or limiting activity, an orthopaedic specialist may discuss draining it or arthroscopic surgery to remove it, though many never need an operation.

Becausemymumtoldmeso · 01/07/2026 20:33

Ask for blood tests- not everything shows up on scans! Investigate your symptoms and read up on forums to see what sounds similar. This is how I got diagnosed with ankylosing spondylitis- ultimately my scans showed up my messed up spine through work damage but I asked for specific blood tests which showed up À.S and explained all the other unusual symptoms I had! Good luck- you really have to fight for answers nowadays. Pain is a reaction to something in your body- it could be an anti inflammatory disease you have! X

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 20:23

Dandelionsandseapinks · 01/07/2026 20:22

I wish my scan was normal. 🤨 my meniscus tear was 1.5 yesrs ago and im 4 months post surgery now with plenty of pain and suffering still

I’m sure you can understand then just how awful a year of pain every single day is, and you can imagine how awful it would be to have no end in sight

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 01/07/2026 20:23

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 20:10

Sadly not.

To be honest when I talk about what I’ve lost and how much of a toll it’s taken on me in the last year I am genuinely moved to tears. It really has destroyed so much of my life

That is absolutely understandable, @cantdothisanymor - constant pain is exhausting and depressing. But hopefully your consultant will be able to help you with the next steps, and this is one step towards a diagnosis.

It might also be worth talking to him about pain relief, in case there are better options available for you.

Dandelionsandseapinks · 01/07/2026 20:22

I wish my scan was normal. 🤨 my meniscus tear was 1.5 yesrs ago and im 4 months post surgery now with plenty of pain and suffering still

Ilikesundays · 01/07/2026 20:21

“. I’ve been in this much pain because of a ganglion cyst, which is a painless benign cyst.”
Well It obviously isn’t painless because you’re in pain. Just because the scan didn’t show anything else doesn't mean it isn’t this cyst causing the pain and the orthopaedic surgeon will know how to deal with it. Stop beating yourself up.

Kokonimater · 01/07/2026 20:19

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 20:10

Sadly not.

To be honest when I talk about what I’ve lost and how much of a toll it’s taken on me in the last year I am genuinely moved to tears. It really has destroyed so much of my life

Let the doctor see this. Cry in front of him. Do whatever it takes. You deserve to be listened to and taken seriously. I cried to the consultants secretary to get my steroid injection speeded up. And I wasn’t faking it.
i couldn’t take it anymore! Xx

stichguru · 01/07/2026 20:16

OP loads of people have cysts drained and/or removed. Unless pathology post removal shows cancer, or the cyst is in a particularly awful spot, they are rarely life threatening, or even serious.

Personally I have had one done on my neck because it rubbed against my t-shirt and one done from my breast, because they wanted to double check it. I have no idea why you are so sure that the "The NHS won’t operate on a benign, painless growth" because they sometimes DO, and have for me twice, so unless you have been specifically told by the orthopaedic specialist that they won't operate on YOUR growth, you have NO IDEA whether that is true.

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 20:10

Kokonimater · 01/07/2026 20:08

I think when you see the doctor you’ve got to really lay it on thick. I know the horrible sickening pain. Can you take someone with you to help you not be fobbed off? X

Sadly not.

To be honest when I talk about what I’ve lost and how much of a toll it’s taken on me in the last year I am genuinely moved to tears. It really has destroyed so much of my life

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Kokonimater · 01/07/2026 20:08

I think when you see the doctor you’ve got to really lay it on thick. I know the horrible sickening pain. Can you take someone with you to help you not be fobbed off? X

Namechangeforbabynames · 01/07/2026 20:07

cantdothisanymor · 01/07/2026 18:00

The NHS won’t do that and I can’t afford to do it privately. I have a private consultation booked but I think I’ll cancel it and ask my GP to review because I think the extra £200 will be a waste of time

They will do that, if clinically indicated which your pain would warrant.

having worked in an orthopaedic clinic, this isn’t a “normal” scan. It’s found a potential cause for your pain. It would absolutely warrant discussion of treatment options with an orthopaedic surgeon for management - whether that’s steroid injection, surgery or rehabilitation of some sort.

I understand how upset you feel not to have the answer you expected but you have an answer - this isn’t a “normal” scan.

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