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What's pissing us all off today?

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GreenFootstool · 30/06/2026 20:52

What's pissing me off today is a misogynistic man trying to throw me under a bus today on Teams in front of 30 colleagues ranging from my level to five levels above me.

I had messages from five different people during the call asking if I was OK.

The man is like bloody Teflon - no grievances seem to stick to him. I left work early and went the pub with the dog. Fuck him and the horse he rode in on.

I'm here to ask for solidarity for anyone else who is thoroughly pissed off today and see if we can fume together.

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Whorulestheroost1 · 01/07/2026 07:00

I am pissed off at my house chain. 8 of us altogether and my sellers are dictating that they can only move on two days out of a 2 month period which of course somebody else can't do. They have been entitled wankers all the way along and if I didn't love the house so much I would have told them to shove it up their arses months ago!

Charlize43 · 01/07/2026 06:51

What is it with people shouting into their phones on buses and trains?

Without wanting to appear racist I've noticed it is always people from different cultures. Impossible to read my book on the train yesterday as the African woman with the impressively loud booming voice sat in the next set of seats in front doesn't give a shit about any of the other passengers and is intent on broadcasting her conversation across the whole carriage.

Quietness on public transport is soon to become a thing from a bygone era - pre mobile phones.

Noise Cancelling headphones added to my Christmas list.

CoffeeBeansGalore · 01/07/2026 06:41

@violetcuriosity Try searching evaporative cooling unit on Ebay. I found some starting at £170.
They work well & are lighter weight than AC units.

MinnieMountain · 01/07/2026 06:32

Feeling a bit crap yesterday afternoon has turned into a virus. I know I'm ill because I actually managed to get 8 hours sleep for a change.

NoArmaniNoPunani · 01/07/2026 06:29

Why are so many burger buns brioche? Who wants a sugary burger?

Elmo230885 · 01/07/2026 06:28

I'm pissed off at whichever neighbour it is that has a cockerel in a built up residential area. I'm also pissed off that when I tried to figure out which exact house it was so I could speak to them I was met with complete vitriol for having an issue with it. Now instead of being a grown up and talking to people I'll pinpoint the house and complain to the council.

BirdsongSunshine · 01/07/2026 06:19

Pissed off with my micromanaging team leader! Takes ALL of my willpower not to tell her to fuck off countless times a day!

violetcuriosity · 01/07/2026 06:15

I’m pissed off that I’m having a really shit year. I had tonsillitis in March which caused an extremely rare autoimmune attack on my brain and spinal cord which is taking a long time to recover from. I’m having said tonsils removed today which is going to be shit in itself. I have young kids and no idea how that’s going to work. I’ve been desperately looking for a portable AC unit, along with the rest of the country and there’s none in stock. I just want to be able to recover in a reasonable temperature 🤒 .

Menopausio · 01/07/2026 06:14

First full day off in ages and Ive woken up with a stonking headache which is going to turn into a migraine ( pain has migrated to my left eye) Ive got shit loads to do today .

EdinaMonsoon · 01/07/2026 06:02

Wide awake at 4am this morning. Finally gave up trying to get back to sleep & came downstairs to make coffee. 30 minutes & a coffee later, I am feeling less annoyed & considerably more relaxed.

DH gets up a little while later (he was snoring & deeply asleep when I left the bedroom). I gently decline his offer of a hug…because I’m feeling irritable and menopausal AF & don’t want to be touched. This is apparently unacceptable and leads to much heavy sighing, thereby undoing all of the nice relaxing feelings I was experiencing & leading me away from my book and relaxing thoughts, straight to MN to moan about it 🥴

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 01/07/2026 05:30

I’m pissed and haven’t been able to sleep for days!

My mum was diagnosed with a terminal illness last week. She is now oxygen‑dependent 24/7 and has extremely limited strength — she cannot stand, cook, or manage basic daily tasks.

When I visited her at the weekend, her living conditions were deeply concerning. She lives with an alcoholic partner, and there is a feral dog in the home that makes it unsafe for visitors or carers. My mum was sleeping on a filthy mattress placed directly on bare, dirty floorboards.

I did what I could during my visit: we decorated her main living spaces, laid carpets, and built her a proper bed. Her partner is unable to help due to severe gout caused by his alcohol addiction, and my sibling is not currently providing support.
I live 3.5 hours away.

My mum needs daily assistance, but she is emotionally dependent on her partner and refuses to leave. I could potentially work from Scotland, but she has no internet access and no space for me to stay.

The only nearby family accommodation is my cousin’s home, which is nearly two hours away by public transport each way. Meanwhile, my husband, children, and life are here.

I have contacted all relevant services, and she is now on waiting lists, but I am extremely worried about her welfare — particularly her ability to feed herself and remain safe in her current environment.

Nsky62 · 01/07/2026 04:53

Busfriend · 30/06/2026 21:35

The weather. Another heatwave next week. My perimeno body can’t take another 30 plus degree week sweating just getting dressed in the morning. And taking care of two young children in the heat

It’s no fun, I have ten temperature variations, ( done menopause, now Parkinson’s the cause).
Drinking lots of cold water helps, pure cotton bedding helps me, hopefully you’re not in pain, often get aches myself

Nsky62 · 01/07/2026 04:47

Alittlefrustrated · 30/06/2026 22:09

Day 12 of the summer virus from hell. No signs of improvement - just switching from symptom to symptom. I could cry.

Hoping you recover soon x

ENormaStitts · 01/07/2026 04:11

I've just realised that I've run out of table napkins....

Meteorite87 · 01/07/2026 03:46

MotherTuckinGenius · 30/06/2026 21:20

I’m pissed off because I’ve spent the last few hours telling myself that my sneezing is just a bit of hay fever and it’s now flaming obvious it’s a full blown cold 🤬

Summer colds and flu are just as awful as in the winter. Absolutely get blaming allergies for a long period.

DanielleTheSpanielle · 01/07/2026 03:09

piscofrisco · 30/06/2026 23:59

We had a snail rats nest under the house. Traps were set by the pest controller and must have been successful as the whole downstairs now smells like putrid dead rat. Dh is away for work leaving me to deal with three kids, three dogs and a currently unlivable house.

We had hundreds in our loft and walls - the smell passes very quickly! Make sure you get a professional exterminator to come and find where they got in to your house and block it up so you don’t get a second infestation like we did - it was even worse than the first one 😕

SnobblyBobbly · 01/07/2026 02:11

I’m pissed off that my daughter is on the other side of the world and hasn’t bothered to even read my last WhatsApp message from 3 days ago let alone reply! Yes there’s a time difference, but we know the good windows and she’s just letting them roll by! Meanwhile it’s now gone 2am, I’ve got horrendous hayfever, work in the morning plus travel to an event and can’t sleep with those little worries creeping in! Honestly sometimes - bloody kids!

DoubleDoubleDown · 01/07/2026 01:45

I'm pissed off that I have to sit in traffic chaos because so many drivers don't get the concept of zipper merging.
On the upside tomorrow is a bank holiday and I have the rest of the week off. Time to crack the 🍷 open.

SparklyGlitterPants · 01/07/2026 01:34

House Spiders!
Creased myself trying to escape the bathroom and not fall in to my sons room at the same time.
Honestly I'm impressed with the agility I shall never display again along with the self-restraint I showed in not burning the house down.
That particular horror was the 3rd in 24 hours and I am beyond terrified of them.
I know it's mating season but those horny fuckers can go creeping for a shag somewhere that isn't here.

Stripfencingohno · 01/07/2026 00:36

SlimShandy · 30/06/2026 23:13

Because someone else will get just the right side of completely fucked off that they will do it for them? I'm not even asking for him to DO anything, other than agree to pay for half of it.

"But what type of windows will they be? What will they look like? What if they're rubbish fitters and we have a problem?"

Well Dave, they will be in exactly the same place the current ones are because that's where the big holes in the walls are. They will be see-through, they will open and close, and they will look like pretty much every other double-glazed window you have ever seen. If there's a problem, I can pretty much guarantee that you will do fuck-all about it and leave it to me to deal with, so no need for you to worry poppet.

Story of my life too

piscofrisco · 30/06/2026 23:59

We had a snail rats nest under the house. Traps were set by the pest controller and must have been successful as the whole downstairs now smells like putrid dead rat. Dh is away for work leaving me to deal with three kids, three dogs and a currently unlivable house.

SlimShandy · 30/06/2026 23:13

Stripfencingohno · 30/06/2026 22:23

I can relate to that last sentence. Why do so many men expect their lives to be run for them? It’s so exhausting and demoralising

Because someone else will get just the right side of completely fucked off that they will do it for them? I'm not even asking for him to DO anything, other than agree to pay for half of it.

"But what type of windows will they be? What will they look like? What if they're rubbish fitters and we have a problem?"

Well Dave, they will be in exactly the same place the current ones are because that's where the big holes in the walls are. They will be see-through, they will open and close, and they will look like pretty much every other double-glazed window you have ever seen. If there's a problem, I can pretty much guarantee that you will do fuck-all about it and leave it to me to deal with, so no need for you to worry poppet.

SabreIsMyFave · 30/06/2026 23:03

I'm feeling like shit because I've got tonsillitis! 😫Swallowing is a huge challenge, and ice cream and yogurt and cold drinks is all I can get down. I ache from head to toe, and I hardly slept last night because of the stabby pains in my throat. Woe is me. 😢

THAT is what's pissing me off today @GreenFootstool 😆

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Cleo65 · 30/06/2026 23:00

Life......

TallSturdyGirls · 30/06/2026 22:54

Isitevensummer · 30/06/2026 21:36

Wilko closing. Today I had a really busy day at work, my elderly dad was freaking out and needing frequent support in between juggling work and needed a random assortment of things - think sympathy card, pint of milk, fence paint, a pack of screws, dog food, a new door mat, some stationary items and shampoo for me and said dog. I hate shopping and want to get it over as soon as possible. When Wilko existed, I could have run in and got all this really quickly. Now theres stupid B&M with the rude check out staff, or lovely home bargains which is tiny and does not have most of what I need. But Wilko always came through for me. Hoping we get a Range at some point.

We lost our Range, Wilko, Poundland and, Quality Save. Just have a B&M left
😭