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AIBU to think Blue Badge holders can use parent and child spaces?

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winterwonder1 · 30/06/2026 16:29

This article says that Blue Badge holders can't park in P&C spaces but I thought they could and that they were a legal requirement whereas P&C was a courtesy? Have I been wrong all these years? Can Blue Badge holders park in parent and child spaces? | Oxford Mail

Blue Badge parking warning for parent and child spaces as fines issued

Blue Badge holders have been fined for parking in some parent and child bays, in one of the most misunderstood rules in UK car parks

https://www.oxfordmail.co.uk/news/national/uk-today/26241069.can-blue-badge-holders-park-parent-child-spaces/

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walrushurricane · 01/07/2026 19:09

BullshitCentral · 01/07/2026 18:19

The shop had their rules and stuck to them so the disabled person got a fine. She should have used the correct space.

Or the shop should not be discriminatory.

emuloc · 01/07/2026 19:06

MeganM3 · 01/07/2026 18:53

Parent and child spaces are for babies & young children with their adult.
Not for disabled blue badge holders who can use the disabled bays or wait for one to become available.

That is your opinion, and you are welcome to it, but I am not going to wait around for a BB space to open up, if there are P&C spaces available.

TigerRag · 01/07/2026 19:01

MeganM3 · 01/07/2026 18:53

Parent and child spaces are for babies & young children with their adult.
Not for disabled blue badge holders who can use the disabled bays or wait for one to become available.

Wait how long for?

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 18:59

MeganM3 · 01/07/2026 18:53

Parent and child spaces are for babies & young children with their adult.
Not for disabled blue badge holders who can use the disabled bays or wait for one to become available.

Nope. Unless it’s on private land, it’s perfectly acceptable for someone with a blue badge to use a P&C space if there are no BB spaces left, or they are inaccessible to the person with the badge. BB spaces are legally enforceable, P&C spaces are not, they are a concession only. Might be a good time to mention the number of parents I’ve seen parking in a P&C space, leaving the child/children in the car.

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 18:56

plomh · 01/07/2026 18:18

If you are going to park in a blue badge bay, the person named on the badge needs to leave the vehicle or be picked up (such as from a medical appointment at hospital).

If the person isn’t going to leave the vehicle, the vehicle needs to be parked elsewhere. My DM’s late cousin got fed up with people parking in the blue badge with the disabled person sitting in the car whilst an able person (usually an adult child) gets out and runs to the chemist, bank etc

As it’s one of the rules. You could have the blue badge revoked if found guilty

It can also result in a fine of up to £1000 for abuse of the badge. The information provided by local authorities when issuing the badges has been updated to make it clearer that you can’t just rock up to a disabled space if you’re not leaving the car, or being collected/dropped off. I think the confusion arises because it’s perfectly legal for a designated driver to use a disabled persons’ motability car to run errands for them, but they cannot use the blue badge unless the disabled person is with them and leaving the vehicle.

MeganM3 · 01/07/2026 18:53

Parent and child spaces are for babies & young children with their adult.
Not for disabled blue badge holders who can use the disabled bays or wait for one to become available.

Seawolves · 01/07/2026 18:52

I frequently use P&C spaces with a blue badge. My blue badge holder is well under the age of 12 and often the badge allows me to park for free so pop it in the windscreen.

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 18:45

BullshitCentral · 01/07/2026 18:19

The shop had their rules and stuck to them so the disabled person got a fine. She should have used the correct space.

If the disabled person can demonstrate that there were not enough spaces, or that they were not accessible enough to allow them to access goods and services, as per the the provision made by the Equality Act 2010, there is a potential claim for disability discrimination. Retailers and landowners know this but they rely on most people not knowing their rights.

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 18:41

Honeyhonayboo · 01/07/2026 17:44

No, disabled spaces on private land are not subject to the same laws as council owned land. That is just a legal fact.
A fine not being enforced after appeal doesn’t change that.

BB spaces on private land don’t carry the same legal weight I agree, but under the Equality Act 2010 private service providers have a legal duty to make reasonable adjustments for disabled people, which includes providing and maintaining a certain number of disabled bays. While the official Blue Badge rules don't strictly apply, car parks enforce them to meet that legal requirement.

In most cases I’ve gone straight to the retailer, or where they don’t own the car park, the landowner - it’s pointless approaching the parking company, who will only tell you that you’ve breached their terms and have to pay the fine.

Denying access to goods and services because of disability is an offence under the Equality Act 2010, so if the lack of available disabled bays means that you are unable to access these services without breaching the terms and conditions, you can argue that the retailer/landowner failed to make reasonable adjustments. It’s my experience that if you explain this, most will cancel the ticket to avoid potential discrimination claims.

BullshitCentral · 01/07/2026 18:19

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 18:02

It depends on where the P&C spaces are located. If they are nearer the entrance than the disabled spaces, then they have a point.

The shop had their rules and stuck to them so the disabled person got a fine. She should have used the correct space.

plomh · 01/07/2026 18:18

If you are going to park in a blue badge bay, the person named on the badge needs to leave the vehicle or be picked up (such as from a medical appointment at hospital).

If the person isn’t going to leave the vehicle, the vehicle needs to be parked elsewhere. My DM’s late cousin got fed up with people parking in the blue badge with the disabled person sitting in the car whilst an able person (usually an adult child) gets out and runs to the chemist, bank etc

As it’s one of the rules. You could have the blue badge revoked if found guilty

Mischance · 01/07/2026 18:14

It really isn't simple and seems to vary as to who owns the land. In our local underground council owned car park the parent child spaces are near the lift and the there are more of them. There are fewer disabled bays and they are miles from the lift .
I can park in any bay nearer the lift with my blue badge, but I need the ability to open the door wide in order to get me and my rollator out!
So .... what to do? I do not want to finish up losing my blue badge!

suki1964 · 01/07/2026 18:06

I use them if I have my badge on display

I need to open the car door fully to be able to get in and out of the car and if the disabled bays are full P&C it has to be

I dont have a huge car - mini - not my fault parking bays in car parks are so tiny

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 18:02

BullshitCentral · 01/07/2026 17:52

A supermarket by us caused a shitstorm by fining a disabled person without a child for using a parent and child space. They enforce that their parent and child spaces are only for those with children. It’s private land, they can do what they like.

It turned out that there was disabled parking spaces available but the person had decided they wanted to use a parent and child space, so the disabled person looked a bit silly.

It depends on where the P&C spaces are located. If they are nearer the entrance than the disabled spaces, then they have a point.

Sirzy · 01/07/2026 17:57

I think that reflects a lot worse on the supermarket!

I use P and C spaces when I am with DS at a local supermarket. The P and C spaces are directly outside the door. The disabled spaces are across the road with no clear walkway. When with a disabled 16 year old it’s much much safer to not have to navigate a road in a busy car park. You can’t carry a 16 year old like you can a baby!

TigerRag · 01/07/2026 17:55

BullshitCentral · 01/07/2026 17:52

A supermarket by us caused a shitstorm by fining a disabled person without a child for using a parent and child space. They enforce that their parent and child spaces are only for those with children. It’s private land, they can do what they like.

It turned out that there was disabled parking spaces available but the person had decided they wanted to use a parent and child space, so the disabled person looked a bit silly.

Was the P&C parking closer?

BullshitCentral · 01/07/2026 17:52

A supermarket by us caused a shitstorm by fining a disabled person without a child for using a parent and child space. They enforce that their parent and child spaces are only for those with children. It’s private land, they can do what they like.

It turned out that there was disabled parking spaces available but the person had decided they wanted to use a parent and child space, so the disabled person looked a bit silly.

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 17:45

ConverselyAttired · 30/06/2026 17:58

I see them all the time. I have just left the supermarket. Parent spaces (opposite in shot) are full and all 5 of these bays are empty:

Edited

That’s in your area. Provision is patchy across the country because in densely populated areas there are never enough spaces. And the fact is that more and more blue badges are awarded for non physical disabilities based on PIP assessments, so actual walking ability isn’t checked in these cases, just assumed.

Honeyhonayboo · 01/07/2026 17:44

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 17:41

Yes, there is. Disabled parking is protected by law. P&C spaces are not. I was a disability outreach worker and supported quite a few clients in fighting fines levied by private parking companies who are only interested in the money. Not one of the cases we appealed were fined. It looks bad. Because it is.

No, disabled spaces on private land are not subject to the same laws as council owned land. That is just a legal fact.
A fine not being enforced after appeal doesn’t change that.

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 17:42

Maybeitllneverhappen · 30/06/2026 17:59

I'm surprised by this. My mum has a blue badge and specifically asked a traffic warden one time when there were no blue badge spaces, but there were parent and child ones. The traffic warden told of course she could. 🤷‍♀️

And the traffic warden was correct. The reason people get fined for parking in blue badges without a valid badge is because they are enforceable by law. P&C spaces are a concession and not legally enforceable.

ThreadGuardDog · 01/07/2026 17:41

Honeyhonayboo · 30/06/2026 16:57

They are private car parks, there’s no law that says a disabled badge has priority over what the space is intended for whether that’s parent and child spaces, drop off spaces, or e charging.

Yes, there is. Disabled parking is protected by law. P&C spaces are not. I was a disability outreach worker and supported quite a few clients in fighting fines levied by private parking companies who are only interested in the money. Not one of the cases we appealed were fined. It looks bad. Because it is.

winterwonder1 · 01/07/2026 10:54

We are short of both BB and P&C spaces in our local supermarket and retail park, although I do wonder if that's partly because neither are enforced regularly enough so they are often filled with selfish arses with big cars who are saving their doors getting dinged.
Maybe if they were properly used there would be enough to go round?

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caffelattetogo · 01/07/2026 10:21

Definitely not enough P&C spaces in the car parks we use.

emuloc · 30/06/2026 18:34

TigerRag · 30/06/2026 17:29

Where are these mythical loads of disabled spaces? We usually find there's plenty of free parent and child spaces but not disabled spaces

There are not enough where I live, that is for sure. I will continue to use a p&c space if no bb spaces are available though.

caffelattetogo · 30/06/2026 18:05

Maybeitllneverhappen · 30/06/2026 17:59

I'm surprised by this. My mum has a blue badge and specifically asked a traffic warden one time when there were no blue badge spaces, but there were parent and child ones. The traffic warden told of course she could. 🤷‍♀️

Maybe it was a council car park? The rules seem to be different for supermarket and retail unit type car parks which are privately owned.