Size 16, 5'2, hate my arms. What tops are actually flattering?

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ThatPinkCrab · 29/06/2026 19:32

Hi all, I’m 29, size 16 and only 5’2. My biggest bugbear is my arms - I just don’t like how they look and I’ve been hiding in cardigans all year. I’m a JSS1 tutor so I need stuff for work and church too, but everything I try either feels too tight across the arms or just drowns me because I’m short.

I’ve mostly been wearing loose t-shirts but I look boxy and it’s making me feel frumpy. I’d love to find tops that cover my arms without looking like ‘mum in a car park’ if that makes sense. I’m fine with sleeves, but I don’t know what necklines or cuts actually suit a short, curvy frame. Budget is around £20-£40 per top, and I shop mainly at M&S, New Look, or online.

So please be honest - what cuts, sleeves, or styles are actually flattering for size 16 and 5’2? Are wrap tops or 3/4 sleeves better? Any specific brands that work for real bodies? Links or photos welcome! Thank you in advance, I really need the help.

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Overtheatlantic · 30/06/2026 02:41

A style like this might be flattering overall with a slightly longer short sleeve and v-neck. It’s plain and simple and should fall nicely with a good bra.

canuckup · 30/06/2026 02:24

I have big upper arms and unless in a swimming costume I keep them covered. I wear t-shirts that are mid length upper arm in summer, rest of the year between wrist and elbow.

All I can say is avoid batwing sleeves. They make me look like a linebacker

AmberUser · 30/06/2026 02:19

I've got similar proportions to you, OP! Cowl neck top with long sleeves suits me. Butterfly sleeves are great in hot weather. I also find peasant dresses really flattering. Good luck!

Gettingbysomehow · 30/06/2026 00:30

I wear three quarter length sleeves because my arms are disgusting after weight loss. They are very flattering.

CheekyTealFawn · 30/06/2026 00:26

I work as a bridal stylist and arms are the most common insecurity I would say!

I have the same insecurity, took me a long time to figure out what I feel good in. Best thing for arms is floaty sleeves with a bodice (idk none wedding dress term for it, but basically the chest and stomach area) that is a little tighter. V neck and low scoop neck also really helps, the angle pulls the eye in where arms are usually biggest. Very square neck usually doesn’t work but depends on the individual.

also, having something that covers the part where your armpit meets your chest at the front - the arm clit, if you will - does wonders for making arms appear slimmer. So off the shoulder tops or one sleeve tops that cover this part. Yesterday I wore a tight fitting top with floaty very short sleeves and it’s the best I’ve felt in a long time

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