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AIBU to think the teachers were unprofessional about my son's lunch?

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SonnyHoney · 29/06/2026 18:07

My 16-year-old son went on a biology trip today. He's currently doing A levels. He took a portion of fried mince (seasoned) and rice that he made yesterday with him. It was a fairly large portion. He is underweight and has been bulking by eating lots of protein and carbohydrates.

He said that both of his biology teachers put him on the spot for a good few minutes about his lunch choice. They were laying into him about how he needs more fibre in his diet and they didn't pick on anyone elses food. He is actually quite a shy lad, and he finds it hard to stick up for himself against adults.

I told him he needs to stick up for himself, and he said it was very hard to stick up to his biology teachers. Which I do understand as mentioned he is a 16 year old lad, and they are two women in their late 30s. He says that one of these teachers in particular is always picking on him. Other people in the class have noticed it as well, supposedly.

Am I being unreasonable to think its highly unprofessional for 2 teachers in their 30s to put a shy lad on the spot in front of all his peers and make him feel uncomfortable about his food choices for several minutes.

I've been a scout leader, and I'm now a guide leader and I'd never treat a teen like this.

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ShetlandishMum · 29/06/2026 18:16

His lunch is none of their business.

Darragon · 29/06/2026 18:14

YANBU teens are sensitive and people shouldn’t be commenting on his food. Grown women should know better.

ToKittyornottoKitty · 29/06/2026 18:14

I’m surprised he’s still going on trips, haven’t the exams finished now?
They don’t sound like they are being particularly horrible, but he’s 16 now he needs to stand up for himself on minor things like this.

OhBumBags · 29/06/2026 18:09

You haven't given an example of them 'laying into him'?

What sort of things did they say apart from he needs more fibre?