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AIBU to ask if I can report my neighbour's bright blue house?

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Katey83 · 29/06/2026 13:43

I live in a terraced house. My neighbours have painted the back of their house bright blue (think swimming pool blue / like the Mikanos blue). It is horrible and looms over my garden. It’s really going to spoil my enjoyment of my space to have to look at this every day. I spoke to the wife earlier this morning and said it was not to my taste and would they consider changing and she said ‘the beige of your house isn’t to my taste but it’s your house. This is my house.’ And shut the door in my face. WIBU to report them to the council? Can I even do so? Surely you can’t just paint any offensive colour and expect neighbours to live alongside it?

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TY78910 · 29/06/2026 19:41

Katey83 · 29/06/2026 13:56

I would say this is the colour though their window sills and edgings are in white.

www.designboom.com/architecture/blue-house-yard-workspaces-london-05-22-2017/

That’s play doh blue 🤣🤣🤣🤣 ghastly

MrsMoastyToasty · 29/06/2026 19:40

You should visit Bristol. This is how houses are painted

AIBU to ask if I can report my neighbour's bright blue house?
Unpaidworkmakestheeconomytick · 29/06/2026 19:39

happysinglemama · 29/06/2026 18:38

Karen behaviour

Can we leave misogyny out of the paint discussion.
It spoils it somewhat.

Londonmummy66 · 29/06/2026 19:37

Where I am in south London there are lots of pretty coloured houses - its great.

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 29/06/2026 19:37

Heereforagoodtime · 29/06/2026 19:36

You can feel however you want.

That doesn't mean you should also go onto your neighbour's property, knock their door and disturb their peace to tell them you don't like something about their house.

If living communally is such a bother, you need to relocate to a detached property, in the middle of nowhere!

She'd probably complain that some of the wildlife were too colourful.

Heereforagoodtime · 29/06/2026 19:36

Katey83 · 29/06/2026 14:30

I feel I’m getting quite a hard time of it. Ok. I understand I can’t change their house or complain. Surely it’s ok to feel a bit annoyed that my lovely garden will now not be such a sanctuary for me. The colour really is overbearing in our street where the other homes are mostly white/beige, brick or pebbledash?

You can feel however you want.

That doesn't mean you should also go onto your neighbour's property, knock their door and disturb their peace to tell them you don't like something about their house.

If living communally is such a bother, you need to relocate to a detached property, in the middle of nowhere!

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 29/06/2026 19:35

Terfarina · 29/06/2026 19:33

I think it’s hilarious that you knocked on neighbour’s door and asked them to repaint because you don’t like the colour. In what world would someone do that!

It's just so funny, isn't it?

AgentPidge · 29/06/2026 19:33

I would have a look at your local council's website and see if there are any restrictions. Otherwise, I think you'll get used to it. At least it's not as bad as noise from neighbours.

Terfarina · 29/06/2026 19:33

I think it’s hilarious that you knocked on neighbour’s door and asked them to repaint because you don’t like the colour. In what world would someone do that!

user67584329 · 29/06/2026 19:32

Qualitypinnacle · 29/06/2026 16:15

If it's good enough for posh Chelsea it's good enough for anywhere! Paint yours a jolly colour and start a trend

Godfrey Street. We used to live round the corner from there. It was lovely and cheerful on those endless grey winter days.

We now live in a different area of London, well known for colourful houses. The tourists love them.

Embrace it OP.

Okiedokie123 · 29/06/2026 19:32

Katey83 · 29/06/2026 13:59

I don’t understand this

What’s the story in Balamory wouldn’t you like to know?

I think this is a classic MN example of most people commenting would probably hate this if it was their situation but very happy to be reasonable about it because it’s not their problem it’s yours.

Can you grow some tall plants etc to screen the view a bit?

Verycivilbiker · 29/06/2026 19:30

BillieWiper · 29/06/2026 18:14

But I think you've got no choice. By all means speak to the council but unless it's listed or conservation they can have it as they please.

I mean if it had 'fuck off' in giant letters then maybe not but it's just a blue wall.

I think it may well do now they know the OP's feelings! 🤣

XenoBitch · 29/06/2026 19:29

Booboobagins · 29/06/2026 19:28

You can, it's a streen scene matter, the planners might be interested, but don't be surprised if they don't care too...

Some people have horrible taste.

I voted YANBU.

It is the back of the house.

Booboobagins · 29/06/2026 19:28

You can, it's a streen scene matter, the planners might be interested, but don't be surprised if they don't care too...

Some people have horrible taste.

I voted YANBU.

8misskitty8 · 29/06/2026 19:28

Is it this house ?? 🤣

AIBU to ask if I can report my neighbour's bright blue house?
TransportNerd · 29/06/2026 19:27

@LaPerruque Haha, I was just about to mention the Headington Shark! I used to live just around the corner from it, it's fantastic.

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 29/06/2026 19:27

LaPerruque · 29/06/2026 19:22

Which is obviously considerable.

This thread has made me think of the Headington Shark. Which got retrospective planning permission with the comment from the relevant planning inspector that 'any system of control must make some small place for the dynamic, the unexpected, the downright quirky'.

Yes! Down with beige pebble dashing and grey windows!

XenoBitch · 29/06/2026 19:27

worldshottestmom · 29/06/2026 19:12

I know I love it tbh. House near me has no top windows and newspaper covering the bottom ones, and here they are arguing over a blue wall. Life is good

One of my back bedroom windows is half covered by a temporary paper blind from when we moved in (16 years ago) and a shredded bin liner.
My neighbour is a gossipy twat though, and she has windchimes. So the window is staying that way 😆

8misskitty8 · 29/06/2026 19:25

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dh280125 · 29/06/2026 19:22

I really thought this post was going to be an Only Joking. But apparently not.

XenoBitch · 29/06/2026 19:22

Frequency · 29/06/2026 19:16

I assume it is because they decided to paint their house blue without first seeking OP's permission; therefore, they must pay to remedy it.

OP should ask for compensation also for the mental suffering she experienced from looking at the blue paint.

It is affecting her mental health and giving her the blues 😆

LaPerruque · 29/06/2026 19:22

Frequency · 29/06/2026 19:16

I assume it is because they decided to paint their house blue without first seeking OP's permission; therefore, they must pay to remedy it.

OP should ask for compensation also for the mental suffering she experienced from looking at the blue paint.

Which is obviously considerable.

This thread has made me think of the Headington Shark. Which got retrospective planning permission with the comment from the relevant planning inspector that 'any system of control must make some small place for the dynamic, the unexpected, the downright quirky'.

AIBU to ask if I can report my neighbour's bright blue house?
Ptikobj · 29/06/2026 19:20

Couldyounot · 29/06/2026 18:21

Ah, I get it. You think he's common, right?

This is a bit bonkers too. I'm by no means wealthy but I can afford decent clothes and I also still wear some clothes with holes in if I'm just pottering about at home. Not everyone cares so much about their appearance. In fact (just due to circumstances) I know a handful of genuinely old money rich/middle class folk and have noticed that they generally do not care what they look like nor what they drive (pick their kids up from the local private school in muddy wellies, holey jackets, drive old cars etc). They have nothing to prove. Being comfortable in old clothes isn't indicative of 'common' anymore than designer clothes and a neat appearance means you're well-off and a member of the bourgeoisie.

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 29/06/2026 19:19

worldshottestmom · 29/06/2026 19:12

I know I love it tbh. House near me has no top windows and newspaper covering the bottom ones, and here they are arguing over a blue wall. Life is good

Love it! 😂

MonstrousRegimentRocks · 29/06/2026 19:19

Frequency · 29/06/2026 19:16

I assume it is because they decided to paint their house blue without first seeking OP's permission; therefore, they must pay to remedy it.

OP should ask for compensation also for the mental suffering she experienced from looking at the blue paint.

They could counter sue for depression brought on by her beige pebble dashing.