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To think these men are the real gold diggers?

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Wehaveallthetimeintheworld · 28/06/2026 22:58

Memes/posts about this on Ig

Saying that nowadays the real gold diggers are men that expect women to do the majority of childcare/household things, plus expecting them to work and bring in a good wage. I’m seeing more and more of this with friends

Where have all the men gone and are these the equivalent of modern day gold diggers

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Boreded · 29/06/2026 01:07

Posted on wrong thread

ofcolitas · 29/06/2026 00:57

Yanbu i commented on a post the other day saying that it used to be a matter of principle that a man would be a provider and got told i must be about 100 years old.

DeftGoldHedgehog · 29/06/2026 00:56

Cocklodgers. Lazy fuckers. They have always existed, it's not new.

Wagyue · 29/06/2026 00:21

It's a regular theme on MN where women are the main breadwinner whilst carrying the full mental load, childcare drops and collections, house work, vooking and laundry.

Total workhorses.
Paying and doing it all.
Total madness.

Swissmeringue · 29/06/2026 00:21

Labour diggers is the term I've heard

JuliettaCaeser · 29/06/2026 00:20

Agree. There need to be a new name for them though. Will have a think!

totootwo · 29/06/2026 00:19

I think people are a bit confused at women's labour being utilised by men for their own gains, being a new concept! It's not new, capitalism literally depended on women holding up the home. Albeit the expectations have now increased for women.

Wehaveallthetimeintheworld · 29/06/2026 00:12

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