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AIBU to feel proud of myself for going to a gig by myself ?

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Carriemac · 28/06/2026 21:30

I’m 68 and went to see the Cure in another city by myself when my sister was ill at the last minute . I’ve never done it before boy I had a brilliant time

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Carriemac · 29/06/2026 16:47

Iwiicit · 29/06/2026 00:51

I'm recently widowed and have booked to see Duran Duran by myself in October. I'm a bit scared but also stupidly excited. I wanted to go and see them when I was 16 but couldn't get tickets. Now here I am, a mere 40 years later!

I’m so sorry for your loss .

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StripyShirt · 29/06/2026 17:10

Fantastic! Well done!!

Lifeomars · 29/06/2026 17:27

Just been watching bits of their Belfast gig on Instagram and it looked wonderful, very joyous. I've been to gigs by myself when it has been a band or singer nobody else i know is into and its always been a good experience because you are with fellow fans.

Fupoffyagrasshole · 02/07/2026 19:17

Brilliant op! I’m glad you did it and had fun

im going to the the system of a down concert next week (or week after) alone

my husband wanted to come but we couldn’t get a babysitter and the tickets were mega pricy so he got me one and I’m gonna go myself

I’m so excited 😆

Noce · 02/07/2026 19:20

Good for you! I often want to do this but I’m a bit far from the larger cities which have the gigs (and don’t want to get a late night train alone)
did the twilight sad support?

Carriemac · 02/07/2026 22:05

Yeah , caught the end of Twilight they sounded good although im
not familiar with their music

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Maddy70 · 02/07/2026 22:41

I did it once because my friend dropped out. Hated the thought. Honestly had the best , inhibited time. I've been to many since and definitely prefer solo gigs I'm glad youve discovered the secret ;)

Carriemac · 03/07/2026 07:38

Thanks Maddy I feel weirdly proud of myself

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