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Sandals and crusty feet at work

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Offherrockingchair · 28/06/2026 19:47

AIBU to think that walking sandals and flip flops are not professional workwear? Yes, it’s been ridiculously hot, but I don’t want to see brittle yellow toenails, crusty dry skin and, in one case, flakes and chunks of skin hanging off the manky trotters of my colleagues 🤮 At the very least, if we are going to be subjected to your toe cleavage, have a pedicure first. And don’t get me started on the smelly ones!

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WestwardHo1 · 30/06/2026 11:17

MasterBeth · 28/06/2026 22:08

I find all of this body fascism really disturbing.

Maybe they find your face or hands revolting. Maybe they hate your haircut or your dry lips.

The state of someone else's feet is really none of your business.

Absolutely agree. Do you complain about other parts of other people's bodies? What other bits do you find unacceptable? It might be that someone really objects to your upper arms, your shins, your chin, your fingers, your face even. I wonder if they have done a post on MN about it?

BettyJoanPerske · 30/06/2026 11:15

Anarchy99 · 30/06/2026 08:44

I am always incredibly clean, that is a courtesy to myself more than others. My clothes are appropriate for wherever I am.

Please tell me how I owe anyone else anything? Should I have to subject myself to the cost and unpleasantness of a pedicure as a ‘courtesy’ to others? Why?

I bite my nails - do I owe others a duty to put false nails on, use hand cream etc?

Please explain why I am expected to go through expense and potential stress just to keep others from being mortally offended by my existence.

I am unattractive - should I have cosmetic surgery? What about weight loss surgery? How far should this duty go?

To be fair, nailbiting is pretty gross.

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 11:13

Overtheatlantic · 30/06/2026 11:10

You should probably go live in a forest somewhere because being a part of society isn’t your thing. And you like to try to shame those of us who care about hygiene and basic appearance. It won’t work on me. The vast majority of people in our society do care; you are an outlier.

The only shaming is coming from those who insist their standards of aesthetics are in fact basic hygiene. Nobody has tried to shame anyone for what they want to do to themselves, only for judging other people who don't want to do the same.

Overtheatlantic · 30/06/2026 11:11

SadiraOfTyr · 30/06/2026 10:56

I had no idea flossing was 'essential' - I've never bothered, never had a filling. Also, removing dead skin on feet - what dead skin? Only time I've had dead skin is after a blister has healed and that can be trimmed away with scissors. And I never get blisters anyway, as I don't run ultras any more.

It’s only essential if you don’t want bad breath but some of you obviously don’t care. 🥴🤢

Overtheatlantic · 30/06/2026 11:10

Anarchy99 · 30/06/2026 09:40

I did read your post.

You don’t ‘owe’ anyone else a thing when it comes to your own appearance.

If I wore open toed shoes then you would see I have next to no toenails and the soles of my feet are probably not great. Do I owe it to others to take care of how my feet look if they don’t bother me?

You should probably go live in a forest somewhere because being a part of society isn’t your thing. And you like to try to shame those of us who care about hygiene and basic appearance. It won’t work on me. The vast majority of people in our society do care; you are an outlier.

SadiraOfTyr · 30/06/2026 10:56

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 10:36

Does someone actually need to be a dentist to know that flossing is essential or a podiatrist to know that removing dead skin is also essential? The reason so many elderly people have to see a chiropodist is because they can no longer reach their own feet to do essential foot maintenance - nothing to do with aesthetics. Charities like Age UK offer foot care services for elderly people for this very reason.

I had no idea flossing was 'essential' - I've never bothered, never had a filling. Also, removing dead skin on feet - what dead skin? Only time I've had dead skin is after a blister has healed and that can be trimmed away with scissors. And I never get blisters anyway, as I don't run ultras any more.

Anarchy99 · 30/06/2026 10:50

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:08

Flossing teeth is absolutely essential. The ignorance on this thread is catastrophic.

What is ‘catastrophic’ on this thread is the hyperbole from people who are so shallow that they don’t see the difference between cleanliness and cosmetic.

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 10:45

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:37

I'm a regular user of both as are all members of my family. We know what we need to do ourselves every day as routine hygiene and what professionals are for.

Why people are so resistant to basic hygiene tasks is very mysterious. There's an odd pride in being gross.

Yes, I do the same.

However, I'm more concerned with my appearance than with sharing a dislike for those who can't access the same provisions I can.

I don't care about what others are doing.

Dry feet? I don't care.
Cracked heels? I really don't care.
Hairy toes? None of my business.
Imperfect teeth? Good for you!

My life isn't dull enough to be looking at feet 🤣

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 10:41

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 10:36

Does someone actually need to be a dentist to know that flossing is essential or a podiatrist to know that removing dead skin is also essential? The reason so many elderly people have to see a chiropodist is because they can no longer reach their own feet to do essential foot maintenance - nothing to do with aesthetics. Charities like Age UK offer foot care services for elderly people for this very reason.

You do realise that these NHS provisions are under an immense amount of pressure, right? Many people can't access these services.

A. They may need to wear sandals if they're having difficulty wearing other types of shoes.

B. They may not be able to floss their teeth due to severe dental issues.

People need to mind their own business and worry about their own precious lives.

CRITICAL THINKING.

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:37

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 10:21

Are you a dentist and podiatrist?

I'm a regular user of both as are all members of my family. We know what we need to do ourselves every day as routine hygiene and what professionals are for.

Why people are so resistant to basic hygiene tasks is very mysterious. There's an odd pride in being gross.

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 10:36

MrsShawnHatosy · 30/06/2026 10:33

Have you never tripped over an unexpectedly deep step or unexpectedly raised part of the pavement? Are all surfaces totally flat where you live? I live on a tree lined street, old, rooty trees and the pavements are very uneven.

If I were walking on such a pavement, I would not be focusing on a stranger's feet.

I mean, good gracious, it's odd walking around with your gaze lowered to the ground, trying to pinpoint dry feet, cracked heels and hairy toes. To then make a post about your dislike for dry feet is audacious and ridiculous.

My life has substance. I don't care about how other people look after their feet.

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 10:36

Does someone actually need to be a dentist to know that flossing is essential or a podiatrist to know that removing dead skin is also essential? The reason so many elderly people have to see a chiropodist is because they can no longer reach their own feet to do essential foot maintenance - nothing to do with aesthetics. Charities like Age UK offer foot care services for elderly people for this very reason.

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:35

backformoreofthesame · 30/06/2026 10:15

Dead skin comes off when you wash and towel dry . basic hygiene nothing fancy.

No it doesn't, as the whole basis of this thread has amply demonstrated.

MrsShawnHatosy · 30/06/2026 10:33

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 09:53

Some of us actually have good posture and walk with our heads held high.

Lowering my eye level to the ground to observe the appearance of feet is not something I do.

I look at faces. I don't look at feet.

Have you never tripped over an unexpectedly deep step or unexpectedly raised part of the pavement? Are all surfaces totally flat where you live? I live on a tree lined street, old, rooty trees and the pavements are very uneven.

Melarus · 30/06/2026 10:25

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:08

Flossing teeth is absolutely essential. The ignorance on this thread is catastrophic.

Seeing as you regularly pay 18 euros for a special soap that you use only on your feet, Ceramiq, I'd venture to say you are not a reliable authority on what constitutes essential hygiene

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 10:21

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:10

Removing dead skin is basic fundamental hygiene. Nail varnish is cosmetic though, like lots of cosmetics, can also be useful for camouflaging bits of you that aren't especially nice to look at.

Are you a dentist and podiatrist?

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 10:15

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:08

Flossing teeth is absolutely essential. The ignorance on this thread is catastrophic.

Disagreement about the difference between cleanliness and aesthetics is not ignorance.

backformoreofthesame · 30/06/2026 10:15

Dead skin comes off when you wash and towel dry . basic hygiene nothing fancy.

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:10

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 10:04

What's basic grooming? I would say keeping clean is and anything else is extra and entirely optional.

Some people think treatments and removing dead skin and painting your nails and all kinds of extras are required. I disagree.

Removing dead skin is basic fundamental hygiene. Nail varnish is cosmetic though, like lots of cosmetics, can also be useful for camouflaging bits of you that aren't especially nice to look at.

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 10:08

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 08:24

Brushing is basic cleaning, same as washing your feet. Flossing is highly recommended but not actually essential.

All this special cleaning and removing skin and moisturising and oiling is all a completely optional set of steps above and just being clean.

Many people are quite happy being clean without worrying about being aesthetically pleasing to some other random person's arbitrary level.

Flossing teeth is absolutely essential. The ignorance on this thread is catastrophic.

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 10:08

BrownBookshelf · 30/06/2026 10:06

This thread must be quite a read for the foot fetishists.

Absolutely.

There are many in this thread, including a man who's jealous of other men wearing sandals.

I've read it all 🤣

BrownBookshelf · 30/06/2026 10:06

This thread must be quite a read for the foot fetishists.

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 10:04

Hugely amused by those whose glance never deigns to descends below eye height! I'm relieved to say that I can observe floor to ceiling whilst at work and moving around the world. Fortunately that means that I can observe to get up for someone wearing a foot boot (as in medical) on the tube. I could see when my children's shoe laces were untied or the hem of my colleague's skirt had come undone and I could offer her a needle and thread to put a few stitches in before she went into a meeting.

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 10:04

Jk987 · 30/06/2026 09:59

It’s basic grooming! If you’ve got any pride sort your feet out before exposing them in the workplace!

What's basic grooming? I would say keeping clean is and anything else is extra and entirely optional.

Some people think treatments and removing dead skin and painting your nails and all kinds of extras are required. I disagree.

Jk987 · 30/06/2026 09:59

It’s basic grooming! If you’ve got any pride sort your feet out before exposing them in the workplace!