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Sandals and crusty feet at work

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Offherrockingchair · 28/06/2026 19:47

AIBU to think that walking sandals and flip flops are not professional workwear? Yes, it’s been ridiculously hot, but I don’t want to see brittle yellow toenails, crusty dry skin and, in one case, flakes and chunks of skin hanging off the manky trotters of my colleagues 🤮 At the very least, if we are going to be subjected to your toe cleavage, have a pedicure first. And don’t get me started on the smelly ones!

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BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 20:25

teaandtoastwouldbenice · 30/06/2026 20:02

I worked with a man who wore flip flops every day of the year, snow, rain whatever, his feet were out. I did not like it.

You should have cast your gaze away from his feet.

teaandtoastwouldbenice · 30/06/2026 20:02

I worked with a man who wore flip flops every day of the year, snow, rain whatever, his feet were out. I did not like it.

Fizbosshoes · 30/06/2026 19:58

ObelixtheGaul · 30/06/2026 18:40

My feet are terribly ticklish. It's always put me off. It's not a pleasant sensation, to me, I can't even bear my husband touching my feet. It sounds so relaxing when people talk about it, but my feet recoil at the prospect.

I feel the same....and i dont like the idea of a facial either!

I dont have manicures because my nails get wrecked at work, but I think im pretty presentable and hygienic! I put cream on my feet every day, and paint my own nails in summer. I had a nail infection a year or 2 ago and got it professionally treated.

ObelixtheGaul · 30/06/2026 18:40

user67584329 · 30/06/2026 17:02

Or lack thereof 😅

I have to say, I don't quite understand the posters who are horrified by pedicures. I absolutely love mine. Every other week. Feet in warm lavender scented water, lavender scrub, stress releasing massage, file straight across, paint. In between, some Cerave moisturiser before bed at night. I don't know what's not to like!

My feet are terribly ticklish. It's always put me off. It's not a pleasant sensation, to me, I can't even bear my husband touching my feet. It sounds so relaxing when people talk about it, but my feet recoil at the prospect.

ObelixtheGaul · 30/06/2026 18:32

Overtheatlantic · 29/06/2026 13:04

No part of what I wrote contradicts that. It still doesn’t make it any less valuable because we want to make the best of ourselves to the extent that we can.

I must be lucky in the foot department. I have always had good feet with no effort. It's the only bit of my body I am happy with. It helps I have never worn high heels or court shoes to excess so I don't have my mother and sister's cramped together toes and bunions.

Women have always been hard on their feet. It's all very well pumice-ing and nail painting but the real damage is done by years of pushing all your weight down into a small toe-space.

I thank my narrow feet for never really getting into the typical smart heeled shoe. I can't really wear slip-ons, devastating though that was as an 80s teen before Mary Janes had a sort of retro chic. I had to wear buckled shoes like a five year old. Boy, was I grateful boots were in in the 90s.

Melarus · 30/06/2026 18:07

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 18:01

You've jumped the shark there

yeah, she/he can't be for real. I shouldn't have fallen for it 😖

backformoreofthesame · 30/06/2026 18:03

BettyJoanPerske · 30/06/2026 17:43

Of course it is!

Could you provide some evidence of this please ?

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 18:01

BettyJoanPerske · 30/06/2026 17:43

Of course it is!

You've jumped the shark there

Melarus · 30/06/2026 18:00

BettyJoanPerske · 30/06/2026 17:25

I'm sorry but a hit dog hollers. I must say that this thread is a bit of an eye opener. I wouldn't dream of going out in public with unshaved legs or armpits, unfiled feet or yellow toenails and cracked cuticles. It makes me wonder what other people consider basic hygiene.

Omg. So let me get this straight, Betty Joan.

  1. A poster who, by her own admission, keeps her body "incredibly clean" and wears appropriate clothing, but who does not have conventionally attractive feet, gets fed up with being called manky, rank, only fit to live in a forest segregated from humanity, etc.
  1. You decide that her defensive attitude is enough to prove that she has poor hygiene overall.
  1. You then list the ways in which you adhere to other standards of conventional beauty, which no one else has even mentioned, to prove your superiority.

Nice.

BettyJoanPerske · 30/06/2026 17:43

Instructions · 30/06/2026 17:27

You think that shaving legs is basic hygiene? Oh dear.

Of course it is!

backformoreofthesame · 30/06/2026 17:31

shaving legs and armpits may actually be unhygienic and unhealthy

it was a marketing ploy by a razor company way back and it started in the states. Naturally

my toenails are currently black but I can assure you they are clean and no one would be poisoned even if they ate their tea with them

BlueFahrenheit · 30/06/2026 17:29

Instructions · 30/06/2026 17:27

You think that shaving legs is basic hygiene? Oh dear.

How illuminating.

I didn't know shaving your legs was for hygiene purposes.

🤣

Instructions · 30/06/2026 17:27

BettyJoanPerske · 30/06/2026 17:25

I'm sorry but a hit dog hollers. I must say that this thread is a bit of an eye opener. I wouldn't dream of going out in public with unshaved legs or armpits, unfiled feet or yellow toenails and cracked cuticles. It makes me wonder what other people consider basic hygiene.

You think that shaving legs is basic hygiene? Oh dear.

BettyJoanPerske · 30/06/2026 17:25

Melarus · 30/06/2026 17:21

oh come ON. We've had page after page of people calling feet rank, minging, cheesy, revolting, crusty ... really strong language specifically chosen to make sandal-wearers and non-pedicurers feel bad.

You have no idea what that poster looks like, not the faintest. (The post you quoted wasn't even about that.) You just want to get on your high horse and insult her.

I'm sorry but a hit dog hollers. I must say that this thread is a bit of an eye opener. I wouldn't dream of going out in public with unshaved legs or armpits, unfiled feet or yellow toenails and cracked cuticles. It makes me wonder what other people consider basic hygiene.

Melarus · 30/06/2026 17:21

BettyJoanPerske · 30/06/2026 16:34

I'm sorry but the more you talk, the more convinced I am that you must be pretty unkempt and that those around you are just too polite to say so.

oh come ON. We've had page after page of people calling feet rank, minging, cheesy, revolting, crusty ... really strong language specifically chosen to make sandal-wearers and non-pedicurers feel bad.

You have no idea what that poster looks like, not the faintest. (The post you quoted wasn't even about that.) You just want to get on your high horse and insult her.

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 17:19

user67584329 · 30/06/2026 17:02

Or lack thereof 😅

I have to say, I don't quite understand the posters who are horrified by pedicures. I absolutely love mine. Every other week. Feet in warm lavender scented water, lavender scrub, stress releasing massage, file straight across, paint. In between, some Cerave moisturiser before bed at night. I don't know what's not to like!

I don't think anyone has expressed anything like horror. Lack of interest isn't the same as dislike. I've never had a pedicure because I can't be arsed and it's never occurred to me to do so, not because I find the concept unpleasant.

user67584329 · 30/06/2026 17:02

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 16:49

@user67584329 indeed it is quite mad. I think we should blame the whale oil. 😁

Or lack thereof 😅

I have to say, I don't quite understand the posters who are horrified by pedicures. I absolutely love mine. Every other week. Feet in warm lavender scented water, lavender scrub, stress releasing massage, file straight across, paint. In between, some Cerave moisturiser before bed at night. I don't know what's not to like!

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 17:00

SadiraOfTyr · 30/06/2026 16:36

And the dentist and the osteopath had a chuckle over it during their weekly golf round.

Like so many other posters, you seem to be living somewhere in the middle of the 20th century with your crusty feet and male health care professionals and golf.

It's 2026. Your 20C standards are completely unacceptable.

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 16:49

@user67584329 indeed it is quite mad. I think we should blame the whale oil. 😁

user67584329 · 30/06/2026 16:45

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 10:04

Hugely amused by those whose glance never deigns to descends below eye height! I'm relieved to say that I can observe floor to ceiling whilst at work and moving around the world. Fortunately that means that I can observe to get up for someone wearing a foot boot (as in medical) on the tube. I could see when my children's shoe laces were untied or the hem of my colleague's skirt had come undone and I could offer her a needle and thread to put a few stitches in before she went into a meeting.

Yes. Between the you need to buff your toes with a 3 carat diamond and cream them with whale oil extracted in the dark of a Norwegian January midwinter night before you leave the house posters and the my eyes never descend below the horizon line, I've never noticed anyone else's knees/feet/shoes/skirt/trousers in my life, this thread is pretty bizarre.

RoseOliviaAu · 30/06/2026 16:40

Stop staring at people’s feet and do your work. Busy body.

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 16:38

Anarchy99 · 30/06/2026 16:32

Ah but the difference is that I wouldn’t even notice your feet or whatever, much less judge, because I mind my own business and I honestly am
not sufficiently interested in others.

Live your life and let others do the same. If you can’t go out without judging people then it’s for you to deal with. It does not make you a better person than them.

Says the poster who has spent so much time on here judging other people's "wanky soaps", "treatments", "perfectly pedicured" etc! Come on now.

BettyJoanPerske · 30/06/2026 16:37

SadiraOfTyr · 30/06/2026 16:36

And the dentist and the osteopath had a chuckle over it during their weekly golf round.

What makes you say that? Do you think that you know better than medical professionals?

SadiraOfTyr · 30/06/2026 16:36

Ceramiq · 30/06/2026 15:31

We don't agree. Ensuring that your feet are in perfect condition is a public good as well as a personal hygiene matter.

My husband had an Achilles tendon repair. Six months later he was at the dentist and she could tell by looking in his mouth that he'd had an accident and sent him straight off to the osteopath to realign his body and jaw before even more damage was done to his teeth.

And the dentist and the osteopath had a chuckle over it during their weekly golf round.

MargoLivebetter · 30/06/2026 16:34

DappledThings · 30/06/2026 16:25

But nobody has claimed being dirty or leaving themselves with injured skin is a good idea. It's a difference of opinion over what constitutes "self-care" and where that tips over from hygiene into grooming.

I've never had a pedicure, I've never treated my feet with anything. If there is dry skin on my feet that's left over from showering and drying then it isn't noticeable to me and if it's noticeable to anyone else I don't care. That's not me not taking care of myself or failing to perform anything basic.

It's no different to my face. I use no skincare because I'm not interested. I have rosacea which is untreated and sometimes flares up. I'm sure my red bumpy face is offensive to some and seen as not taking care of myself but it's clean and washed so what anyone else judges it as is their problem.

Edited

Which is why I went into great detail in an earlier post about what constituted self care and how I considered it to be what I would do for those who couldn't do it for themselves. Again, had absolutely nothing to do with aesthetics - just basic self-care, which will of course differ from person to person depending on age and circumstances.