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Could a peace wristband appeal to those feeling politically homeless?

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Whatnow777 · 28/06/2026 12:48

I think what happened on October 7th is disgusting and honestly my worst nightmare as a mother - if one of my children were captured and tortured like those hostages. I also hate the rise of anti-Semitism in this country. At the same time, I am pro-peace and do feel for those innocent people in Gaza. I’m also anti-Hamas and feel that the regime should be abolished, and I do not want Sharia law in this country.

I have met people wearing ‘Pro Palestine’ bracelets who are anti Istraeli/ anti Jew (I have spoken to said people) and that scares me. (I know it might not be all).

The reason why I am posting this now is I have noticed so many of these wristbands and nothing in support of the Jews, for everything they have gone through /are going through.

My thoughts are that there may be a vast number of people who share my views, who want Jews to be protected in this country, who do not want sharia law in our country, who oppose the extremist acts that have been perpetrated in this country against whoever, and who also wish for peace for both Israelis and Palestinians.

It feels like our voices are not heard because we are not ‘one-sided’ as such, but perhaps are one sided in terms of being against hate and terrorism.

AIBU to think a wristband centred on peace, humanity and opposition to extremism could resonate with people who feel politically homeless in the current debate.

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Whatnow777 · 28/06/2026 13:05

mondaytosunday · 28/06/2026 13:02

No. Unless there’s a direct charitable organisation selling these thing to raise money in support of whatever cause they don’t mean a thing. It has been suggested that fewer than 10% of these bracelets, whatever the cause, are actually official.
What charity are you suggesting? Otherwise buying a bracelet that vaguely supports ‘peace’ is just making money for the mass produced marketer in (most likely) China.

Yes, you're right, it would be appropriate for funds to go to Red Cross for that sort of thing

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madnessitellyou · 28/06/2026 13:04

47 years of being subjected to antisemitism.

Yes. A bracelet is what is needed.

mondaytosunday · 28/06/2026 13:02

No. Unless there’s a direct charitable organisation selling these thing to raise money in support of whatever cause they don’t mean a thing. It has been suggested that fewer than 10% of these bracelets, whatever the cause, are actually official.
What charity are you suggesting? Otherwise buying a bracelet that vaguely supports ‘peace’ is just making money for the mass produced marketer in (most likely) China.

WhateverMate · 28/06/2026 13:02

SoSoLong · 28/06/2026 12:58

I assume the quiet majority feel like this. But virtue signalling bracelets never helped anyone.

Agreed.

A bracelet isn't going to help anyone except perhaps the virtue signalling wearer.

ChaToilLeam · 28/06/2026 13:01

I am sure that everyone (bar some very strange individuals) wants peace, it's so bland a statement as to be meaningless.

How peace can ever come about is the question, and unfortunately that's where division starts.

Whatnow777 · 28/06/2026 13:00

SoSoLong · 28/06/2026 12:58

I assume the quiet majority feel like this. But virtue signalling bracelets never helped anyone.

I don't know about that, I have a Jewish friend who said they would welcome some sort of pro-peace signalling as they feel very forgotten and unwanted in this country

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SoSoLong · 28/06/2026 12:58

I assume the quiet majority feel like this. But virtue signalling bracelets never helped anyone.

KarenBroad · 28/06/2026 12:56

Maybe forgetting about signalling would make people ‘ feel better’. Could it be that obsessing over issues and making them your identity is just a form of immaturity that is currently afflicting many that could do with less egocentricity?

Whatnow777 · 28/06/2026 12:55

Jellylasagnafortwo · 28/06/2026 12:51

A bracelet isn’t going to going to cure hatred.

People wear symbols all the time to express values, solidarity or support for causes. My question was simply whether there are others who feel politically homeless in this debate and would welcome a symbol centred on peace, opposition to terrorism and hatred, and support for the safety of both Jews and Palestinians.

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Spaghettimonsta · 28/06/2026 12:55

It would be great, until the TRAs take it over and co-opt it

Whatnow777 · 28/06/2026 12:54

Jellylasagnafortwo · 28/06/2026 12:51

A bracelet isn’t going to going to cure hatred.

I didn't say it was.

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Jellylasagnafortwo · 28/06/2026 12:51

A bracelet isn’t going to going to cure hatred.