To quiet quit at work due to TTC stress

It's a bit of a myth. Women conceive and deliver healthy babies in all sorts of stressful situations - wars, refugee camps, during family upheavals etc. quitting work may just give you more of an opportunity to dwell on the negatives.
Also you are never going to eliminate stress from your life. The best you can do is try to find some medical answers, but there may be none, as you know 10 months isn't unusual.
I would suggest going for counselling to help you manage your responses and feelings. Then you will at least have a better outlook, and approach treatments with confidence - or who knows, conceive quickly!
I had unexplained infertility for 7 years before conceiving.

I don’t see the issue with doing ‘quiet quitting’ to be honest. Sometimes in life something has to give, and for me it would be giving my ‘all’ at my job. I wouldn’t risk my relationship with DH, or anything to do with my son.

TTC is hard, and extremely stressful. I am one of those cliches who got pregnant once we were referred to an IVF clinic! I found out less than a week before my appointment and had to been drinking too much over Christmas.

Good luck OP

Of course most people give their best at all times. Some days my best is not as good as other days, because I’m tired, stressed, distracted by something else going on, but I NEVER choose to take my foot off the pedal. I do all that I absolutely can.

You are talking about CHOOSING to not give your all. That’s just not right, and YABVU.
Better to give up your job than half arse it.

For context, the bare minimum in my role is still really quite a lot.

Well of course it is.

There aren't many jobs where that wouldn't be the case!

Anyway, you had your mind firmly made up before you started the thread and nothing's changed since.

So I wish you luck.

Sorry for your circumstances but I don’t think this is a good idea. Could you book an all inclusive holiday where you can ‘try’ solidly for two weeks without the stress of life and work.

Sorry but this is absolute bollocks. Most of us give our all in all facets of our lives. We don’t take on too much in order to do so.
There is no-one I’ve ever known who has had to stop giving their best at work in order to conceive. If you need to do that to conceive, how will you cope when you’ve actually got kids?! You’ll need to stop cooking, cleaning, LIVING in other to manage your stress levels?!

Ludicrous.

OP it sounds like you are deflecting. You
are trying to find reasons why after 10 months you haven’t conceived yet when frankly that is mostly likely just nature.

Be careful - you may quietly quit and still may not conceive.

I think you would do better to mentally shift yourself to these things can take time rather than finding things to blame. 10 months is normal in a lot of cases.

I wasn't saying they were faster (although they obviously are). I was saying that they offer a wider range of tests that can reveal issues you will never know about if you stay with standard NHS testing. They are not ultrasounds, bloods, or standard sperm analyses. The NHS may never make you aware that these tests exist. These tests may be the difference between knowing what your issue is, and whether it can be treated, or being classed as "unexplained infertility", for which the treatment is to have IVF cycles on repeat in the hope one works. IVF may never work though if the underlying cause isn't addressed. Also not all fertility clinics are staffed by people working in the NHS. Know you've made up your mind but just adding this to the thread so other women reading this know that there are options out there.

And you'll be letting your manager know why you're doing the bare minimum and why?

Or are you going to see if you get called in for a 1 to 1?

As I said in my post- NHS and private fertility care isn’t the same.

Also waiting times CAN be crucial especially as we get older. Periods show you are currently right now likely ovulating, but don’t give you an estimate of how long this may be for in the same way that AMH can (and even better - an AFC on TV USS which you haven’t mentioned was done on your scan last year. A fertility specialist would definitely do this on a scan).

No, it's often very obvious.

As I said, I don't believe you believe that.

I did this while I undertook Ivf. I’ve never regretted that decision. Ivf was successful. I don’t think it would’ve been if I’ve stayed at work.

I don't think you really believe that work is preventing you getting pregnant. You just want an excuse to be lazy.

There is no evidence that stress and anxiety has any impact on the success of TTC - I did serious reading into all available studies on this at one point. (Women get pregnant in war zones, when raped etc.) Read It Starts With the Egg - it's a good place to start when struggling to conceive.