My partner gets annoyed and has a go at me for worrying too much all the time about things to do with the kids (2+4). But AIBU to tell him/warn him things for what I consider is their safety? For example this morning he made smoothies with them and I looked in the cup on the table and there was a whole handful of whole grapes on the top. I asked what’s that, thinking maybe the kids had thrown them in at the table being silly and he said ‘4 wanted to add a bunch at the end’. Meaning he was happily letting them sip from the cup with whole grapes and considering that fine. I said ‘ok but they’re whole’ to which he rolled his eyes and moved the cup out of their reach. As I walked away he mutters ‘f**king hell’ under his breath. I’m so tired of being considered a nag and not being taken serious when I think that is a pretty dangerous thing!!